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Condoms make me soft

ya i like it raw, i'll fuck most any girl raw if they are willing (many aren't) unless i have reason to be nervous about stds. and i've caught the clap twice to those curious, nothing else, i get tested frequently.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
you either got the wrong size, you're too anxious, or you're gay.
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this amused me. but seriously butt sex with condoms is good (though bareback rules but is dangerous) from my one experience with vaginas and condoms it aint all that. i really wanted to bang the vag without a condom but she weren't havin it.

as for attitudes on the new public health fear *sockpuppet* take note, people in olden days had their noses just melt away with syphilis. it aint no joke.http://webeye.ophth.uiowa.edu/eyeforum/atlas/pages/Syphilis-and-trachoma.html
 
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Libby said:
Yeah because with a condom it's safer and you don't get full of leaky disgustingness dripping out of you afterwards, and if you'd never done it without one, you enjoy it to the fullest because you don't know what you're missing. Also birth control doesn't protect against STDs and contrary to popular belief you can actually catch something from a steady partner. I know a girl who had only ever had sex with her fiancé and contracted HIV.
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Fair point. I guess it depends of each persons definition of "a partner you can trust" obviously she thought she could trust him but it turns out she couldnt. I think testing is important initially but after that it comes down to being faithful to your partner and them returning the favour. If they arent going to be faithful and are going to have unprotected sex with other people thats irresponsible to the point of being malicious... I'm pretty sure there are even criminal charges in some places for people who knowingly transmit HIV

I dont know what happened in her case and I'm very sorry it turned out that way. If he did get tested first and then went out and did that: what a PRICK
 
My Dr told me last test that the results were not actually 100% up to date & that many diseases when in their first stages won't always show up on the test until you have had it for several months posibly.
 
justsayknow said:
Fair point. I guess it depends of each persons definition of "a partner you can trust" obviously she thought she could trust him but it turns out she couldnt. I think testing is important initially but after that it comes down to being faithful to your partner and them returning the favour. If they arent going to be faithful and are going to have unprotected sex with other people thats irresponsible to the point of being malicious... I'm pretty sure there are even criminal charges in some places for people who knowingly transmit HIV

I dont know what happened in her case and I'm very sorry it turned out that way. If he did get tested first and then went out and did that: what a PRICK
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He was cheating on her, but for all we know he could have had it from before they got together and would have given it to her even if he never cheated on her. Doesn't really matter, the point is, it's much smarter to use protection against STDs if you don't want STDs than it is to not use protection against STDs. Even if you love and trust someone so much you planned on marriage.

And if you're a male I'ld also be worried if the chick forgot a pill or something and u didn't use a condom, and she got pregnant and didnt get an abortion and now you're stuck with a kid you don't want. *shudders* If I was a boy I'd never not use a condom, coz if a pregnancy occurs there's nothing you can do about it. Yikes, children, the worst STD of them all..
 
^So she didnt make him get a test?

I agree that using a condom is important especially during the initial stages of a relationship and especially if theres multiple partners involved. To go without is taking a big risk and requires absolute trust in the other person- for me thats something I have and I'm glad of that. To be honest I wouldnt mind too much if she got pregnant I would say that we are both almost ready for that anyway.

I'm glad you shared that story though its a good reminder about what could happen.
 
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