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Condoms in Porn now required in L.A. county

fortunately, my porn comes from the bay area

ditto.

i am not sure this will do any actual good. the STD rate for the porn industry is lower than it is for the general population. actors are tested crazy often, like once a week i think. whereas i bet a good number of sexually active people outside of the industry have ever been tested.
 
well i won't be watching any porn from LA now. I get so frustrated when i see some hot asian porn only to see their vaginas scrambled. Condoms aren't sexy whatsoever, i understand they prevent disease and such but in porn everyone should be tested regularly and use other contraception.
 
Hahaha this is funny. No one SHOULD wear condoms. People should learn to control themselves from giving into their desires so easily, and use their judgements more, their intuition.

Saying people should wear condoms is ridiculous. We can throw up any justification for them, but really they're not necessary in this life at all - they're a means of not taking proper control over our sex lives, and their use is just a symptom of people not taking real control over our whole lives - they're a quick fix, and we all know quick fixes don't work - using them means we are reliant on something external for satisfying our basic human desires.

er yeah but one lousy drunken choice and you could have aids. also for bumsex with strangers condoms is good because you never know what your gonna get. urethral poosickles for the fail

also i would rather look at a blurred out sexy korean shlong than to look at one in a condom
 
the only thing you can do is go to the clinic and get tested together... something i have done ... but not all the tests come back instantly obviously

Exactly. Not all tests come back instantly.
So what if your partner has sex and contracts an STD between the time you go to the clinic and the time the results come back?
Not saying it will happen for sure ... but there are lots of people who cheat in relationships so it shouldn't be completely out of the question.
There unfortunately isn't a foulproof way to know if someone has an STD or not. Even though I live with my boyfriend, have been with him for two and a half years, we both say we've only been with each other, we both got tested before sleeping together ... who knows ... maybe he had a crazy night out one night and didn't tell me. I doubt that, as I do trust him, but I'm just saying that thing can happen and, thus, it's better to be safe than sorry ... with a condom!
 
^ pretty much.
er yeah but one lousy drunken choice and you could have aids. also for bumsex with strangers condoms is good because you never know what your gonna get. urethral poosickles for the fail

also i would rather look at a blurred out sexy korean shlong than to look at one in a condom

Well, yeah - chances are if you're not a practicing homosexual, that it's not likely you will. I personally like to take my chances, and trust my red flags, gut instinct, and rational mind - if you had one drunken slip up, and got aids, I think you must've done something really fucked up in this life or maybe very unfortunately the last life - the law of cause and effect - you throw bad or careless energy out there, you get it back, sometimes heavier to teach you a lesson.

I once had to go get tested for chlamydia because of some chick, and it made me think about who I was choosing to sleep with - there were loads of red flags (she pretty much spread her gash for anyone who smiled at her twice), but coz I liked her and I was a horny devil, I chose to ride her over and over bareback - the scared necessity to go get tested was the universe's way of telling me to stop being a div, use my brain, and not fuck skets.

Therefore there is no need to use condoms, as I have sufficient knowledge of vaginal/cervical secretion consistency to know when a woman is ovulating.
 
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