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Clubbing Alone???

hoptis said:
I don't seem to be making many new ones these days... lol.
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I hate to mention it, but that second nose of yours is a little off putting ;)


I've been to a couple of club nights/events on my own but knowing there would be people I kind of knew there, never completely solo though. I've spent plenty of time on my own at clubs though because of friends who've wanted to hang in a different room, or have gone home early and I'm still in the mood to kick on. It's always nice to have friends to touch base with, but I wouldn't rule out going to an event I really wanted to go to just because I couldn't find anyone I knew to come along.
 
I can't go anywhere without knowing someone. On friday I went to a metal/industrial/goth club. As I am not one to attend such clubs, I thought I'd be completely alone there. Well after about 2 hours of it opening, I bumped into one of my doofer acquaintances. Maybe I should try the house scene, but then I run into the danger of seeing people I no longer wish to see.
 
katmeow said:
I hate to mention it, but that second nose of yours is a little off putting ;)
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It was a surgical enhancement.

I can live with looking like a freak... if it means I can do four lines at once!!! =D ;)
 
Never go out alone, been tempted to though..

None of my friends dance as crazy as I so I always end up wandering off and finding the most mental, intense, colourful dancers - mainly girls ;) - that I can and proceed to go mental!

At EC last yr I wandered off for 5hrs and ended up in some random ravers car smoking bongs with him. Once polishing off some tasty weed and some more stimulants we went and found the hardest trance we could and stompped like crazy... shame I was so fucked, never got his no. and never saw him again
 
I generally always go with a friend or friends, but often wander off during the night to hang out with other people I know, or to meet new people, then meet up with my friends later.
 
I always go out with friends at night...only because I am a female and I don't like putting myself in difficult situations but I always go off by myself once I am there because I like to find my own space and do my own thing. I did however, go to good vibrations on my own because no one wanted to go and I really wanted to see Timo Maas. I felt really conspicuous when I firt arrived which was ridiculous because there were so many people and they were more than likely not the slightest bit interested in me or who I was with. What was really funny was the number of people I met who said they hadn't seen the people they came with since they got there. The only problem with going on your own is that after the event there is no one to share it with and I guess its nice to just touch base with afamiliar face when you are out once in a while.
 
I don't really go clubbing anymore, but when i was out and about alot, I would almost always go out alone...brisbane's electronic music scene was a heck of alot smaller back then (late 90's) and so it was pretty much guaranteed that you'd know someone out and about. Even if i didn't, i'd just hit the dancefloor...and have a ball. :) I'd always end up meeting people during the course of the evening anyway, and everyone would always end up in the Valley Mall at sunrise for coffee and chats - it was/is a bit of an institution up here...post clubbing coffee :)
 
hoptis said:
It was a surgical enhancement.

I can live with looking like a freak... if it means I can do four lines at once!!! =D ;)
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This is how hoptis became a mod :D
 
I've never been out clubbing alone, but I've had the experience of friends leaving earlier in the night and me staying there and wanting to kick on. In that situation, I'm usually sociable with some of the random strangers I've met throughout the night. Met some great friends doing this!
 
sharaz said:
I always go out with friends at night...only because I am a female and I don't like putting myself in difficult situations but I always go off by myself once I am there because I like to find my own space and do my own thing.
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sounds like me. Even if I go out with friends, I tend to end up on my own anyway.

One thing I always do though, is when I meet new people, female, male regardless, if they ask who I'm there with, I always say I'm with a couple of friends and if they ask where they are, I answer "around here somewhere, they didn't like the music just now so they've gone for a wander, I'll find them later". Hopefully decrease my chances of being kidnapped, raped and left to die!!
 
Either the chicks on this board are overtly paranoid or they visit some really fucking dodgy clubs :\
 
The people i go with are usually more important to me than the club. Although the music and the club are very important, i enjoy the shared experience that comes from being with some good friends.

Gettin fucked up together, dancin together, and we talk to strangers all the time (like these aswum Irish chicks who were doin shots of vodka in the street we met while drinkin passion pop in the gutter, lol), so thats not something you can only do by yourself.

But yea, i'll gladly go clubbin with one friend. I feel weird by myself in clubs though, i need at least one friend there.
 
ValeTudo said:
Either the chicks on this board are overtly paranoid or they visit some really fucking dodgy clubs :\
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I've never felt like I needed friends around in a club to be safe... unless I'm really fucked up, or going to be really fucked up. Then familiar faces are good.
 
^^ Gotta agree there. I would never/will never take alot of drugs while out by myself. I've been in that situation once, and luckily i spotted a familiar face, but period of time (felt like 9 hours, was probably about 15 minutes) was pretty scary, considering my eyes were wobbling like a bowl of jelly and i felt like i was going to collapse. :(

EDIT: responding to vanth.
 
ValeTudo said:
Either the chicks on this board are overtly paranoid or they visit some really fucking dodgy clubs :\
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I don't think there are many clubs where it would be a good idea for a chick to go to by herself, unless they were sober, but even then they'd still get more guys sleazing on them dancin by themselves, and i'd think they're would be a greater risk of drink spikings too.
 
I seriously couldn't see my drink being spiked, unless the bar staff were in on it (and that's not so far-fetched :\). Having said that, I think it's less safe nowadays compared to when i used to go out 8-10 years ago by myself.
 
I don't/didn't go to the meatmarket type of clubs where most people are drunk and its appropriate to sleaze onto people. I don't find that fun.
 
I wouldn't say I go to dodgy clubs, just that a female obviously on her own is prime target for some sleazy bloke hanging around (and face it, not matter how great the club is, there is always one or more of them), and I have no desire to have to deal with that if I'm there to enjoy the music... and if am out on own I am by no means in a trashy state.

Its just about looking out for yourself, being responsible for yourself. Not necessarily about being paranoid.
 
I used to think most people who claimed there drinks were spiked were either just heaps drunk, or they couldn't handle there drink and used it as an excuse.

But my friend recently had his drink spiked, it wasn't fun, he was lying on the floor shivering. Ended up spending the night in hospital.

And on saturday night i saw an unconcious chick being carried out of a club by security.
 
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