Here to update:
I was able to taper off approx .3 Clonidine daily by just slowly lowering about every 3 days. Going down to .05 in in the morning .1 at night, etc. It took a little over 2 weeks. Got sweats and chills, and felt deeply chemically suicidal, but managed to tough it out, and I'm fine now. It was way harder than the benzo reduction thus far. My BP was down to 80/50, and my mood swings just from being on the med were dipping into terrified delusion, so it was a bad situation. I've gotten myself down to 5mg diazapam without adjunct meds and besides turbo anxiety I'm doing alright. Best of luck to anyone trying to get off Clonidine; my advice is to slowly lower, then suck it up and jump, because the withdrawal goes away within a week. If you're feeling hellishly suicidal like I was, try and have support around you during the process if you can. Hopefully this thread can make someone having this reaction feel less alone.