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christmas/birthday presents for girlfriend?

nolys

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I'm asking the fucking questions!
My phones nearly dead so ill make this short lol.

Been with my girlfriend like 6 months now, its been serious from day 1, I see her every day and I love her. She's 18 and I'm 20 years old.
So far I've got her a full outfit, pjamas, and clip for pandora bracelet. I need ideas for more stuff, big or small.
Her birthday is 8 days after xmas too what else can I get? I've already got straightners and a teddy bear in mind. What do girls like that isn't obvious? She doesn't want a phone or tv...

Help please? :)

Edit - I have around £200 left to spend (350 dollars or so?) preferably a few things costing £50 each rather than something that costs 200 or 100 and 2 things worth 50 ect...

Thanks
 
Not really actually that's why its so difficult for me to pick for her, all I can think of is the usual perfume, clothes, teddy ect ect...
She spends literally ALL of her time in school, in work, with me or on the phone to me with an occasional night out with her friends.
I've asked her mum and she didn't even have any ideas, nor did her sister who shares a room with her...

This being my first and only relationship, makes it pretty difficult to choose. I know her better than anybody and I still can't pick, though saying that, I am a man and were notoriously shit at this stuff...
 
Why don't you make some coupons? Like "Go shopping with you all day," "Do my laundry," "Take me out dancing," stuff like that?
 
I love to see young people in love. <3

Gifts I really liked: Perfume, even if she doesn't need it now one day she will use it. The bathsets can be pricey and you don't know if she will use the lotion or shower gel either.

Liquor If she likes to drink that is. A nice creme to enhance her coffee drink may be nice.

Bouquet of Flowers is great for her birthday coming up. Buy her a nice spread from the florist.

Edit: I just remembered this - Does she wear earrings? If so, maybe ask her sister to help you pick out a pair.
 
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It's so sweet how much stuff you're getting her :')
In addition to all that, buy her flowers. There's seriously nothing I would've wanted more from my ex than a bouquet.
Jewelry is always appreciated.

If she's got a movie/actor/book/author/band or whatever that she's really into you could get something relating to it.
 
A Texas Instruments Ti-83 graphing calculator.
If you have $$ (or torrent) Wolfram Research's Principa.
A copy of Feynman's QED.

Wait, right... this is isn't for me...

um, I dunno, comfy, high thread count sheets have always worked well.
Some sort of nommy, exotic foodstuffs.
 
Thanks for all the great ideas people apart from the calculator, are you high bro? Lol.
Knee pads are a good idea also... Lol.

Though seriously thanks for the help, though with regards to the flowers, being a man I don't understand the concept of this, it strikes me as gay and pointless they have no use but do girls these days actually appreciate this?

Any more ideas would be much appreciated, some smaller stuff to fill a nice gift bag would be nice if anyone has any ideas for this? And maybe 1 more expensive thing?
 
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buy here a little beauty-mirror as a gift and say something along the lines (or write it on a note):

"I was looking for the most beautiful present for you birthday, but I didn't find anything good enough. So I bought you this little mirror. This way you can see that you yourself are the most beautiful present there is."

p.s. I demand a sextape of that evening in return for my originality ;)
 
A lock for your bedroom door??
Chocolates, a few of the really nice ones.
A vibrator.
Rechargable batteries.
A nice sweater or shirt.
A can of mace.
Some shampoo from where ever she get her hair done.
A gift card for a tanning salon.
Ear buds or whatever, something to go with her ipod.
Something for her car?

I don't know man... Just listen for hints... Chicks i've dated alway had hints as to what they wanted or needed...
 
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