so my uncl;e has called and talked to his mom twice and while on the phone i kept telling him to ask to talk to the nurse and each time he hung up without doing it and i asked why and he said "she said the nurse wasnt around"..and i was like "so what call the nurses station and talk to the nurse", and hes like "why? i just alked to mom and she told me whats goin on" and i told him no she didnt tell you a damn thing, she told you want you wanted to hear..thats when i called back and spoke to her nurse and with that i will say we got good news...no stroke, but he was pretty suprised with what i had to tell him
well he said he was 95% sure she did not have a stroke even though she couldnt feel her right side and had slurred speech and all that when they first took her in. they cant rule it out 100% cause they said it could be some minor stroke called a T.I.A..but she was extremely dehydrated and had a real low blood sugar level but from what they can tell it definetly wasnt a major stroke. she also mentioned that she hasnt been taking her pills for the last 3days to go alon g with not eating the last 2 but still drinking. when i heard that i was like theres no way cause ive been giving her food and she told her son that she would just eat it when we would be in the room but then would feed the rest to the dogs and when asked why she just said "i wasnt hungry" and thats when i was like "how can you not be hungry, you dont eat anything..alcohol isnt considered food"...now since shes been in there today and they got some fluids in her, shes been complaining of being nauseous and i asked her nurse if she told them that she takes xanax and drinks and they new about the xanax but of courseshe did not mention thge alcohol. after i said that, i could immediatly tell the nurses tone changed and he began asking me about her alcohol problem. how much she drinks, how often, who buys it for her, how long has she been like this and i told them she claims "only 2 drinks" but each one of those is a glass filled to the top and then she adds ice to it. i said it mahy only be 2 glasses but thers gotta be 10shotsbetween the 2 and that is just what she says, we dont really know how much she drinks, but anywhere between 1/4 and 1/2 a fifth a day by guess and the nurse was like "oh wow, well ok then, thats kinda the puzzle piece we have been missing" and i asked what do you mean and he was telling me how when talking to her it seemed like she wasnt telling them everything and that soemthing just wasnt adding up and that now he knows about the alcohol things are starting to make sense..
so they are gonna keep her a few days and run all the other tests and make sure nothing else is wrong that might be not so obvious andif evertynhing pans out to be ok they might keep her to detox but we will talk about that when time comes...
my uncle of course takes no blame for any of it and i wasl ike "if i wasnt here and checked on here while you were ignoring her, who knows how b ad she might be" and he was like thats bullshit i was checkin up on here every 20-30mins and i laughed at him and was like bullshit dude, how can you say that?? i know you wernt checkin up on her, you were yellin at her yesterday cause she asked for a glass of water and today you were checkin up on here ever 20mins?? what about 7am when you said you had to pick her up and move her ot her bed cause she "couldnt use her legs and walk"..and he goes well i just thought she was tired cause she was up all night and i was like exactly if you wernt soo fucked uop you would have noticed it then, and what about you checkin up on here every 20-30mins??? how id you not notice something was wrong?? and all he could say was "i dont know dude, she just told me she wasnt feeling good and thats what believed" and i was like "exactly, your such a prick and all you do is bitch and moan and complain thinks the world revolves arou nd you, that even when she needs help youre too selfish to take 5mins and pay enough attention to see she needed help..you just yell at her and go sit back down all day likew oyu have the last 3days and he started with the "ypou now what fuck you dude, ive been takin care of her and the house, the yard and everyhting else by myself, while you do shit" and i was like "I THOUGHT THIS WAS YOUR HOUSE????..how are oyu gonna complain about going all that shit when you keep telling me this is your house, thats what normal homeowners do and they generally do it after putting in a 40 hour week" "your mom doesnt leave the couch except to go to bed and the bathroom, the house only gets dirty cause you put everything off until 1day a week and then bitch about when if you did 1 job everyday, everything would be fine and easy" "dude you have no idea you had your mom and grandma do everything at your house, ive been doing everything here on my own for the past 5yeasr" and i laughed at him and told him "my mom didnt do anything but go to work and all my gram did was cook dinner and go grocery shopping, my and my brother took care of everything else and the house staye4d clean cause we did "our chores" everyday(we didnt really have chores jper se. just things we knew we had to do) and who do you think took care of everyuthign when you were gone? me! i cooked oi cleaned i went shopping, i went and jhad to buy a car and get that taken care of plus i had you calling needing me to drive an hour round trip once or twice a week to drop you off moiney" and the only thing he heard and flipped out about was the house and he was saying the house was filthy when he came home and i did nothing and i asked him if he remebers what it looked liek when he got locked up and he said "yeah it was..." amnd i cut him off and i said it was disgusting..you where on that 4day crack and alcohol binge and didnt sleep for 4days and the house had garbage everywhere and i said i cleaned this house up head to toe..you just got out of jail and had nothing else to do but clean..so the house went from being clean and presentable to being like you just moved in and he goes "exactly, it looked so clean like we just moved in" and i wasl ike why would i clean your house like that?? i dont know where everything goes, i just threw out the garbage and kept the kitchen spotless and just made the house look presentable unloike the shithole it was when you left it..he idnt have any dish soap or cleaning supplies or new sponges when i got here, i had to go out and buy it all so i could clean everything and yet he denies all of it and says the house was clean when he left...so i just walked away kaughing and had to comeon here to type the story cause its just too unbeliueveable and if i kept talking to him about it imma kill him
the4 guy is so selfish and disrespectful and pathetic its stupid..hes 50years old and lives at home(whatever he was takin care of his dad with alzhemiers and his mom) but the thing is he only moved out 2years before that and into a trailer that they boiught cause he was doing nothing but getting drunk and high and fighting with his dad. the guy hasnt had a job and been living off social security since like the early or mid 1990s when he fell off a roof and hurt his back. he refuses to get a job cause it wouold mess up his insurance and SS but he doesnt seem to understand that he could get better insurance and earn as much in 1 week as he does the enrote month with SSa(he gets like 500-600$/month) and he responds by saying who would tkae care of mom and i was like what about 10years ago when they were still taking care of themselves?? how are you gonna live off of 500bucks a month when your mom dies? and he says the house is paid off and its going to him and i said thats fine but how can you afford the taxbill twice a year when your broke 3weeks intoevery mointh and need your nect check..what about food, gas, water, cable, whos gonna buy you another car since you crashed your last 2? he justy says im not worried about all that and i just want to stranglke him when he does
ries about the girlfriend he lost 20years ago and says he still loves her and knows she still loves him and im like youre crazy dude, get over it she gone and never coming back, dont you think she would have in 20yuears if she was???? .. and i dont htink hes had a serious girlfeind since, he just became an aocoholic and sometimse drug addict and still thinks hes 27 and the coolest dude who played in a baand "that got all the chicks " he tells these all the same stores at least once a week maybe more when hes drunk and actually saysd " i used to be the coolest guy woith all the girls " and when he says this i laugh cause hes seriously stuck in 1985-1990...seriously though the same sotries..jes seen zztop 22times and partying with ted nugent and saw lynrd skynnard last concert (which is impossible the show he seen if true was like 3months before the crash)and all this otehr stupid shit thats just unbelieveable but he tells them like they are true over and over again..so much so i finish them for him and tell him yah i know you told me before..and he gets offended when i do but fucjk you can only listen to the same questionable story so many times, ive been heraing the same stories for at east 10years
