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Caught an old family friend at a gay beat - Should I tell his kids and wife?

Jabberwocky

Jabberwocky

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As the title states I caught a family friend the other week at a local gay beat, at this park to be exact. Everyone in the area knows that you only go there to take your dog - as it's a dog park or to pick up guys. I was there with my german shepherd and saw the family friend going into the bushes with a guy. At first I didn't believe it was him but as he got out his eyes saw mine and he just kept on going like nothing had happened.

Question now is, the guy has 3 kids one who is close to my age and is married to his wife still. Should I tell them their dad is a closet case?
 
Just know the consequences before you do it. You could be responsible for breaking up a family.

Maybe its something he's done a few times, and then moves on regretting what he did. I think you should talk to him about it and stay away from his wife & kids.
 
No one should ever "out" anyone else. Just seeing you and having met your eyes may cause him to realize that he cannot hide it forever. What a world we live in that people still have to hide their true sexuality from those closest to them.
 
I don't usually tell but when I see this I find it is fair wrong that he's lied to his family for years about who he is. To be honest I don't think I'll say anything as I don't want any drama for myself but to see this guy has pretended to be someone who he's not has made me question now other things he's told my folks.
 
maybe you should just respect his obvious and poorly executed attempt at privacy
 
You may feel what he's doing is wrong but it's not your place to disclose what you've seen to his family or anyone else.
If you find it so reprehensible, speak to the man directly but still I don't think you should get involved.
 
When I first read the title I thought you meant a gay beating and was going to say you should tell them but then I saw what you actually meant. This is something he has to tell them himself; don't tell them or force him to.
 
Also I don't think you have enough evidence to say if he is truly cheating on his wife.

Trust me. Just talk to this man and tell him what you saw and go from there. For all you know all he did was buy a little bag o weed or somthing.. you didn't see him have sex
 
noonoo said:
...that he's lied to his family for years about who he is.
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how do you know that to be true? how do you know that his wife doesn't know about this activity? either way, i agree with the consensus - don't mention it. or if you feel compelled, talk only to him about it.

alasdair
 
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