Casual With Your EX ?
Has anyone tried this?
I've found myself in a casual relationship with my ex of 2 years. I really do love her more then I've loved anything, unconditionally. But she dose not want to be in a relationship and for some reasons me and her can never work, or so she thinks, mainly due to my bad choices in the past which has fucked things for now.
For the past month or so we have been casually seeing each other everyday, having sex a few times a week and staying over most nights. Not to mention using the L word quite abit and being really intimate and affectionate. But DAMN, It seems I allmost forgot things were just casual, now today she is going to see someone she was casually seeing and having sex with while we broke contact for a while. She told me she will probably stay over at his tonight and have sex with him, and she wont be telling me if she dose again because we are only casual and she doesn't want to have to answer to anybody, then said but shell allways have a place in her heart and love me no matter what. Fair enough, I can accept that, just after reconnecting for the past month or so I guess I just got attached again. I should probably jump on the bandwagon and find a nice casuall fuck buddy or someone to date.
Do you think I should keep seeing her casually or has she just been using me as an emotional cat scratching poll? We are best friends and I think soul mates and we have AMAZING kinky and intimate sex. Ill do anything to be with her, even if she can never truely be my own and we must see other people too, the connection we have and her company is something I have never been able to find with anyone else. My only other concern is that I could possibly be shafted off to the side when she starts getting attached to the other guy shes seeing.
Ugh, well Im biting the bullet and trying not to make a fuss out of it, but its kind of eating away at me inside. Like right now she is doing him of her own free will and in a few days she will wanna screw me and lay with me in bed and tell me she loves me, it's totally fucked up.
How do you make a casual relationship work when your in love and have such a history?
Has anyone tried this?
I've found myself in a casual relationship with my ex of 2 years. I really do love her more then I've loved anything, unconditionally. But she dose not want to be in a relationship and for some reasons me and her can never work, or so she thinks, mainly due to my bad choices in the past which has fucked things for now.
For the past month or so we have been casually seeing each other everyday, having sex a few times a week and staying over most nights. Not to mention using the L word quite abit and being really intimate and affectionate. But DAMN, It seems I allmost forgot things were just casual, now today she is going to see someone she was casually seeing and having sex with while we broke contact for a while. She told me she will probably stay over at his tonight and have sex with him, and she wont be telling me if she dose again because we are only casual and she doesn't want to have to answer to anybody, then said but shell allways have a place in her heart and love me no matter what. Fair enough, I can accept that, just after reconnecting for the past month or so I guess I just got attached again. I should probably jump on the bandwagon and find a nice casuall fuck buddy or someone to date.
Do you think I should keep seeing her casually or has she just been using me as an emotional cat scratching poll? We are best friends and I think soul mates and we have AMAZING kinky and intimate sex. Ill do anything to be with her, even if she can never truely be my own and we must see other people too, the connection we have and her company is something I have never been able to find with anyone else. My only other concern is that I could possibly be shafted off to the side when she starts getting attached to the other guy shes seeing.
Ugh, well Im biting the bullet and trying not to make a fuss out of it, but its kind of eating away at me inside. Like right now she is doing him of her own free will and in a few days she will wanna screw me and lay with me in bed and tell me she loves me, it's totally fucked up.
How do you make a casual relationship work when your in love and have such a history?

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