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Can't bust w/ a condom...

If you've got a girlfriend and you're not in an open relationship & can trust each other you could always both get tested and if you're clean, talk about some other method of birth control like the pill.
 
^Yeah, implants are probably a better idea than the pill frankly. Just learned the one I've been using apparently has some particularly strong cancer provoking agent in it so gonna have to go look for another one. *sigh*

Well a vasectomy's a great idea but only if you're sure you never want kids which the OP isn't necessarily saying at all.
 
i find it hard to cum after drinking full stop. never mind condoms

go without condoms and you take the risk. if you do it just be aware that you can get aids and other diseases
 
The problem is probably the booze more than the condom. Sober, it doesn't matter if I have a condom on or not, I'm not lasting more than 20 minutes. Drunk, even without a condom, I can go an hour before I just give up.
 
Well alcohol is a vasoconstrictor which means it constricts the blood vessels - not the kind of thing a guys needs right before sex as you want more blood flowing down there not less, on the other hand caffeine is a vasodialator which has the opposite effect. I learned years ago never to drink alcohol when there's a chance that evening I might be with someone, I go for an energy drink instead. But as far as condoms go, yeah I've not been able to get off with one on for years, just don't get the sensation needed to, I just go for the hand job at the end once she's satisfied.
 
^ that's actually wrong. Alcohol is a vasodilator until you hit it hard then it becomes a vasoconstrictor. Caffeine and nicotine are just straight up vasoconstrictors - hence why they have those floppy cock pictures on the side of cigarette packets.
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
^ that's actually wrong. Alcohol is a vasodilator until you hit it hard then it becomes a vasoconstrictor. Caffeine and nicotine are just straight up vasoconstrictors - hence why they have those floppy cock pictures on the side of cigarette packets.
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My apologies regarding this, you're quite correct. I found this:
As a general guideline, most stimulants will act as vasoconstrictors and most depressants will act as vasodilators with some exceptions to this.

However further reading about caffeine has me now confused as most sources say vasoconstrictor some studies mention the following: ,Quote: "these findings suggest that the acute administration of caffeine augments endothelium-dependent vasodilation in healthy young men through an increase in nitric oxide production". Source: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17126666 so perhaps caffeine under some circumstances is an exception? Thanks though for correcting my mistake.
 
^ Yeah, alcohol is a vasodilator. I'm surprised at how many people get that wrong. I thought the same until a professor mentioned it. I've met lots of men who have an issue after alcohol. It's mostly older guys, though. The younger ones usually don't have an issue.

I've also met men who have an issue with condoms. From what they tell me, they actually liked using them when they were younger, because they could last longer, but now it desensitizes them to the point where they can't finish or even get hard. It's kinda a good night killer. lol
 
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