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Can someone explain to me Daddy/Lil girl type relationships?

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warpaint

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my bf and i are dom/sub in bed, me being sub. we call each other a bunch of things, mainly mister/master/slut.

but yesterday i started calling him daddy and he kept calling me a good girl ,while petting my head.
after calling me good girl for a while and being gentle, he whispered, "you like me doing perverted things to you dont you" and it was at that point when i started to feel uneasy about where our newly adopted daddy/good girl names were going lol. i dont know what to make of it...

is that "normal" to say what he said in a daddy/sub relationship? daddy/sub relationships arent exactly an incestuous dynamic is it?

ive always been unsure if i should use the word daddy or not (or whether it turns me on or not) because im not totally down with incest roleplay... i mean, ive read some erotic fiction with incest (mostly sibling type relationships, never parent/daughter/son) but to act it out doesnt really turn me on as much. tbh incest irl creeps me out. i just dont want to be reminded of my own dad lol esp cus i dont even have a gr8 relationship with him.
 
From what I've seen, DD/lg relationships don't have an incestuous dynamic at all. There are some people in this kind of relationship that enjoy incest roleplay, but for the people I've known who were into it, it was more about having a loving protective figure that made them feel safe and comfortable, and that allowed them to act childish. So no, these relationships aren't supposed to have an incestuous dynamic; the dynamic is determined by how you two communicate, and how you both perceive the relationship.

As for what he said, it's not like you can and can't say certain things as a DD, or an lg. That just sounds like regular dirty talk to me, and that's not out of the norm for any kind of sexual relationship.
 
It seems a bit weird that he whispered you like me doing pervert things to you, IMO no one should be getting turnt on by incest sort of things, I think it's really fucked up.

If you feel uncomfortable or don't want to do something's you need to tell him, or where will this lead to.
 
Unfortunately I can't explain too much about the relationship but I also find it a bit odd to call someone "daddy". If you feel uncomfortable, let him know, and don't continue. :)
 
i have a fantasy that my big sister's friend is corrupting me but in real life i don't have a big sister ... so I'm safe.

I have something of a mommy fetish (of older woman) but I feel safe (in terms of levels of perversion) in that no one looks like my mom and I don't look like my mom. my mom is another race. the older woman just has to be caring ... which is hard to come by in this harsh-ass world.
 
That's a bit wrong. Fantasy or not, parent-child roles should definitely remain taboo in role-play!
 
yeah idk... weve had sex since then but didnt really use daddy or anything. just did our usual spanking/choking, me being dominated. but i still feel a lil weird that he said that lol should i talk to him about it or just forget it and never use daddy again? i mean, ive been reading about daddy/sub relationships and honestly, my bf and i fit the description very well except that we just dont call each other daddy or baby girl or shit like that. i wouldnt mind calling him daddy if he understood that im not literally calling him my dad (ew)

and you know, what happens if it turns out that he was roleplaying as my dad? what do i do then? its a fantasy that creeps me out... like what if we ever had our own kid lol i dont think he would ever doing anything to this hypothetical kid but just knowing that those fantasies MIGHT b there?
 
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Fucking tell him to cut out the shit what you consider to be weird, you've got as much say in this relationship as him it should be 50/50.

I'm my mind (witch I think is wright) using the term "daddy" in a sexual way is not wright! If your fantasising about being someone else while having sex, your minds not in the wright place.

I like being me 100% of the time lol
 
Sounds like you need a new boyfriend, darling. That's not healthy... playnice though.
 
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Whilst I totally agree with the majority of replies here, I actually feel that if a guy is wanting to roleplay a daddy/little girl scenario, he is fantasising incest or paedophilia. Why else would he want to be referred to as "daddy"? Perhaps I'm missing the point, but I'd like to hear what others think
 
The replies in this thread are insane. OP started this herself. Maybe he just said it because, you know, he was going along with what you appeared to be into. It sounds to me like you started something that you later regretted and now are blaming him.
 
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