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Can I fix this relationship

Pictures of her were posted here, we all saw them, some even downloaded them. The insults are forever attached to those images, to her face and persona. "Views: 485 " 485 people viewed this post and images. Potential employers, whom perception of her was altered forever following the OP's allegations, and who wouldn't hire her because of it. I would sue for defamation if I was her. You better hope she doesn't find this post, and learn about the images you posted.
 
There are a lot of slacker girls out there now. Are you in TN? I see those girls all the time. They'd rather get high and not work because they don't want to stay sober long enough to pass a drug test. They also quit high school because they didn't care what happens to them.

Your problem is similar to my brother-in-law's relationship. You met her during a bad drug phase. Your addiction is tied to her. If you want to stay sober then you have to cut her out. Its part of the steps. Find someone else.
 
Ksa said:
Pictures of her were posted here, we all saw them, some even downloaded them. The insults are forever attached to those images, to her face and persona. "Views: 485 " 485 people viewed this post and images. Potential employers, whom perception of her was altered forever following the OP's allegations, and who wouldn't hire her because of it. I would sue for defamation if I was her. You better hope she doesn't find this post, and learn about the images you posted.
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Whoah OP posted a pic of the gal?

I missed that. That's really not cool.

She could most definitely sue him and would be in the right.

Mr. 40 K a year income fucked up here.
 
Why don't the mods do anything about the Muslim freak? Surely the rest of us have the right to be in a forum and not haave that shite shoved down our throats.
 
Memphispimp said:
It boils down to maturity.

She's a girl. She gets whatever she wants.
I'm a guy. I have to work and pay for everything.
She has no concept of the word responsibility
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I'm a girl and I bust my ass on a daily basis. I don't get everything handed to me because I'm a girl, in fact, I have to work harder to prove myself because I work in a male dominated industry. I own my own home, I drive a nice car, and have a lot of other luxuries. I earned it by working not having a sugar daddy Check your broad and sweeping generalizations at the door.

You're right though in the sense that the girl you love doesn't have any concept of responsibility. Why should she? It sounds like she has never been forced to be responsible. She's in for a very rude awakening one day. Eventually she won't be young and cute but that's her problem, not yours.

It's very unfortunate that sometimes we love who we love, no matter how much we shouldn't love a particular person. I have kissed some real toads in my time, that's for sure. You can move on though. She obviously doesn't care for you or your feelings. She's just looking for someone to take care of her while she still has all the fun she wants.

If you're having trouble getting over her then just keep yourself distracted. You say you travel for work, don't stay holed up in a hotel, go out and see some sights. Spend time with friends. Do whatever you can to distract yourself until she's just a memory. Keep moving and you will find greener pastures. They are always out there.
 
I didn't read the responses, but I read the OP...

If you have to ask if you can fix it, you shouldn't even bother. Things you had to fix tend to break more often...

You also have to remember that for the most part, once a cheater, always a cheater.
 
"To answer your question, I have graduated from a university in both Chemistry and Chemical engineering. I hold a College Diploma from a French private school, on top of a Brevet diploma. I can't find a job, anywhere. The fact that she has no high-school diploma is irrelevant. No one hires young people without experience nowadays whether they have a high-school diploma or 10 PhDs. I am clueless how you got yours, perhaps you can share your secrets but if you have to travel a lot, I assume it's not a job worth keeping."

I diagnose you an idiot. Ever hear of the petroleum industry? Sorry, but you just strike me as a prime example of whats wrong with your generation. I know a lot of recruiters. If you are willing to relocate and your credentials a bona fide, I'd be happy to help. PS, Don't brag about a 119.
 
ortho51 said:
"To answer your question, I have graduated from a university in both Chemistry and Chemical engineering. I hold a College Diploma from a French private school, on top of a Brevet diploma. I can't find a job, anywhere. The fact that she has no high-school diploma is irrelevant. No one hires young people without experience nowadays whether they have a high-school diploma or 10 PhDs. I am clueless how you got yours, perhaps you can share your secrets but if you have to travel a lot, I assume it's not a job worth keeping."

I diagnose you an idiot. Ever hear of the petroleum industry? Sorry, but you just strike me as a prime example of whats wrong with your generation. I know a lot of recruiters. If you are willing to relocate and your credentials a bona fide, I'd be happy to help. PS, Don't brag about a 119.
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PM me your linkedin please. Thanks.
 
bennyZA said:
I didn't read the responses, but I read the OP...

If you have to ask if you can fix it, you shouldn't even bother. Things you had to fix tend to break more often...

You also have to remember that for the most part, once a cheater, always a cheater.
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When I saw she was fucking her ex, and read their dialogue, she was bitching about him and some girl and she said the once a cheater thing to him...

We spent thanksgiving night thru sat am at my place. Was great.
Today she called me crying. She thought she was gonna get like 200k for her accident. Talked to the lawyers and it's more like 30k with 20k already to the hospital. I tried looking on the bright side saying it may have wound up being a curse...how it wasn't meant to be...and that we'd be okay without it. She doesn't get it.

She wants a $200 north face hoodie for Xmas. I can't pull the trigger on it cuz I'm not sure how much longer we can last. We exist on two totally different planes of existence
 
purplefirefly said:
I'm a girl and I bust my ass on a daily basis. I don't get everything handed to me because I'm a girl, in fact, I have to work harder to prove myself because I work in a male dominated industry. I own my own home, I drive a nice car, and have a lot of other luxuries. I earned it by working not having a sugar daddy Check your broad and sweeping generalizations at the door.

You're right though in the sense that the girl you love doesn't have any concept of responsibility. Why should she? It sounds like she has never been forced to be responsible. She's in for a very rude awakening one day. Eventually she won't be young and cute but that's her problem, not yours.

It's very unfortunate that sometimes we love who we love, no matter how much we shouldn't love a particular person. I have kissed some real toads in my time, that's for sure. You can move on though. She obviously doesn't care for you or your feelings. She's just looking for someone to take care of her while she still has all the fun she wants.

If you're having trouble getting over her then just keep yourself distracted. You say you travel for work, don't stay holed up in a hotel, go out and see some sights. Spend time with friends. Do whatever you can to distract yourself until she's just a memory. Keep moving and you will find greener pastures. They are always out there.
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Purp believe me I wasn't trying to act like all girls are like that. My mother is one of the strongest people I know and hardest workers and she raised me preaching Independence. I get mad the gf cuz she does use her body to get what she wants...it's a hate the player not the game thing
 
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