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Can a One Night Stand Turn Into a Relationship?

Keep us posted OP. Im in a similar situation right now, I went on a binder for a month or so the last 6 weeks. And a female that Ive known for like 14 years sent me a text while I was in the middle of it. And being high and strung out I was bein brave. i had wanted to fuck her for a long time and she had just split up with her dude. So I just came out and asked her if she would be up for a one night stand of just some good ole fun. And she was down for it, told me she was horny and since we have known each other for so long she would feel comfortable with me to have a one nighter. Well Im sitting here every since rackin my brain about how to get her. I never knew how strong my feelings were for her until we spent that night together. So now Im in the same boat as you, tryin to make the one nighter into something more. I just dont know how she feels about it, and just like you I dont wanna come across wrong. Good luck man.
 
Damn i thought us ladies were the only ones catching feelings off one night stands... although about 7 years ago i had a one night stand and ive been living with him now for the last 6. But still, i always figured that wasnt the norm. But i say go for that shit, but wait a couple days to talk to her again otherwise you seem desparate and desparate aint a good look for anyone
 
Is the question in the topic title or more in the main body of your paragraph in knowing how to progress with this relationship?

The answer to the topic title is "yes", just as it may be possible Unicorns exist in a parallel universe.
 
Hey guys, haven't been on for a couple weeks, but I got some good news so I thought I'de share since the last update I left was a little depressing haha.

So, the last time I posted I told you guys we were hanging out but I wasn't sure how she felt. After that, we kept hanging out and finally went on a couple of real dates. Things were going really well and then out of nowhere she started ignoring me. I was totally bummed out. She ditched me twice in one week and I thought it was time to move on. Then, after I gave up something went my way and she came back around. So, after almost a month of hanging out we finally had our (first kiss). Anyways the night progressed and being a gentleman, I can't disclose any details. So, I'm feeling very happy that I stuck in there.

What I can say is the second time around was a thousands times better than the first. It was passionate, light-hearted and so much more fulfilling. I felt accomplished and relieved in so many ways. She's totally awesome. I'm not calling it yet but I think that after another date I'm going to ask her to go steady. Anyways that's it for now. Thanks for the advice everyone!
 
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