Here's the background: So I just moved into a new city last week and I've been meeting a lot of new people. A guy that I met in my apartment complex invited me to a party so I went. I was a little bummed when I first got to the party because I just got out of a long term relationship and I wasn't feeling all that great about myself. After a few drinks I started to relax a little and started to mingle.
The situation: Later in the night, I hit it off with a girl there and we ended up hooking up. The funny thing is that we later found out we both not only lived in the same apartment complex but on the same floor! We went home together and she stayed at my place and overall I had a lot of fun with her. But, when we woke up she was acting like a completely different person. She left without really saying anything and I felt like the magic was gone. I mean we didn't sleep very much and it was earlier in the morning so I felt just about the same way. So, later that day, we ended up running into each other and we talked for a little but we didn't talk much about the night. I keep thinking about her though, I mean I've hooked up with people before and it was meaningless and I didn't give it a thought the next day but I now I can't stop thinking about this girl. Hah I feel like a weirdo.
My Thoughts: Normally if I end up hooking up with a girl, I'm like great! No string attached just having fun. Now I feel like I want to peruse this girl but I don't exactly know how. I was thinking maybe play it cool for a couple of days and ask her out next week but I don't know. I have NO IDEA how she feels. She texted me and was being friendly but I don't know if thats just because she knows we are going to run into each other and doesn't want it to be awkward. I guess that's part of the problem. With her living on the same floor, it could either make for a really fun relationship or an awkward situation where we try to avoid each other. I've been out of the game for so long I'm not really sure how to approach the situation.
The situation: Later in the night, I hit it off with a girl there and we ended up hooking up. The funny thing is that we later found out we both not only lived in the same apartment complex but on the same floor! We went home together and she stayed at my place and overall I had a lot of fun with her. But, when we woke up she was acting like a completely different person. She left without really saying anything and I felt like the magic was gone. I mean we didn't sleep very much and it was earlier in the morning so I felt just about the same way. So, later that day, we ended up running into each other and we talked for a little but we didn't talk much about the night. I keep thinking about her though, I mean I've hooked up with people before and it was meaningless and I didn't give it a thought the next day but I now I can't stop thinking about this girl. Hah I feel like a weirdo.
My Thoughts: Normally if I end up hooking up with a girl, I'm like great! No string attached just having fun. Now I feel like I want to peruse this girl but I don't exactly know how. I was thinking maybe play it cool for a couple of days and ask her out next week but I don't know. I have NO IDEA how she feels. She texted me and was being friendly but I don't know if thats just because she knows we are going to run into each other and doesn't want it to be awkward. I guess that's part of the problem. With her living on the same floor, it could either make for a really fun relationship or an awkward situation where we try to avoid each other. I've been out of the game for so long I'm not really sure how to approach the situation.
