Oh fuck hey guys..... Been a while.
Reading this thread and trying to remember who's names match up with the peeps I still know IRL.
Why am I back on Bluelight? Well, where do I start?
Was in 15 year relationship from 2005-2020 where I stopped taking stuff and going out so much.
2019 was a huge fuck up of a year; my parents divorced after 40 years of marriage, my dad very soon married his new Russian bride (

), I fell in love with someone I shouldn't have, my best friends husband was killed in a tragic accident (he was only 29)....all of these events were a catalyst to what happened in 2020....
Last year my ex moved to Dubai - I was supposed to follow but then corona hit. We realised we were flogging a dead horse and split amicably (still really good friends and actually the relationship is better than it could have been before)....I met a cute, very young Dutch guy...I lost my job....
So I decided it was a good time do what I always wanted to do and move to Europe. I chose NL not just because of the boy (who is now seeing someone else the bastard, but whatevs), but cos of the English speaking job opportunities and sick techno events. And maybe the drugs lol.
And here we are. Perusing the effects of the various RC's I can now get my hands on easily among other things. Met a new very cute young Dutch guy and I'm here in Haarlem while I wait my EU passport and look for a job. Brought my two cats with me - the little shits cost more to bring here than literally everything else I packed!
It's been a wild ride and it's only just begun. The shit that started in 2019 definitely cemented the whole YOLO concept, and to never let anyone doubt how you feel about them, because you never know when they could be taken from you. Feel really positive about my future.