Buttsexx with a Strap-On or Fucking a Guy?

[flyhighk]

#1 for sure. I'm straight, I don't wanna ever do anything with another male.
So yeah #1. I'd rather not have anything up my ass, but cause it's from a girl it's kinda okay.

 

[MrGrunge]

I've done #1 before and it was pretty cool. Not something I do on the regular, but it keeps things spicy.

 

[Wifesholelicker]

Number one for sure. My wife uses a strap-on on my ass and I love it. Be more than happy for a bunch of ladies to line up and have a turn.

 

[Chipping Away]

If it had to be one of those, then #1. I'm not into it but often wondered about it

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

LMAO The mental image of someone with green sparkly ether leaking out of their anus is just too hilarious to keep to myself.

And #1. Bit of a silly question really.. if you would fuck a man in the butt over taking a strap on from a female/gf then you're clearly not heterosexual lol. One is quite passive, the other requires you to actually do it. Regardless I'd rather not have anything up my bum or put my dick in a mans bum.

hahaha exactly! Bisexual for sure. Unless I knew the chick was good with a strap on, I'd choose a man...a gay man that is.

i can't figure out how anal sex is any more animalistic or dominant than vaginal sex..? do animals actually do anal at all?

i can relate to the energy argument somehow, cause for me- vaginal penetration feels more profound and in-flow. but that may be socially acquired, a self-fulfilling prophecy. or it may really have to do with subtle kundalini energy currents in the body. -there's no way of knowing for sure, but in the end it doesn't matter

How does it not matter? Just curious...

Male dominance through sex (with other males) is used by animals. However I don't think that it's such a primal thing.

Anal sex these days (at least around me) is regarded as the ultimate submission. Kind of how virginity was revered back in the day.

Back to the question on hand, from a purely pleasurable standpoint, I'd opt for fucking the guy.

pretty much. Male animals fuck each other to show dominance - like the less evolved do in prison.

 

[DrunkardsDream]

I dunno man. From what I know about energy - it's not homophobic, it just makes sense.

Do you go for yoga? If so, then you have probably as much of an idea

Anal sex(anything beyond a finger) is a very animalistic dominant thing. Sure it can be loving, but once you've taken someone anal virginity, you have effectively made them your bitch on an animal level.

Wow - I'm bisexual - big whoop. It doesn't define me though. Pagey is totally right about - sexuality is important neurosis to get over, but once it's done, it's just another step. So many "homosexuals" out there are just taking the easy mammalian option instead of working out their psyches. On a soul level, they are going backwards. I am not saying all, just so you don't get it twisted.

I'm not saying homosexuality is wrong - I just know there are certain things - like anger, greed, and sexual desire - temptations to just let go and give into temptation, which are unhealthy for the soul/body. With any luck, by the end of the week I shall know for sure, because I do like fucking gals in the ass, and was very close to taking it myself, but I've only fucked one guy.

OK but what if one or both men, or all 3-4 or more men who are having anal sex together are all versatile? I dont agree about how once someone has anal sex they are somebody's bitch, etc.. granted there are some anal sex bottoms who like to be "treated like a bitch" during sex, or who even want really rough anal sex that makes their ass hole bleed but most men would find this to be a turn off and some bottoms I know find it a turn off and don't like it and they dont want to be treated like some man's bitch/whore or have their ass bleed from really rough and fast anal sex.

 

[ela.sand]

How does it not matter? Just curious...

doesn't matter as in doesn't make a difference: i experience a subjective effect and its real for me. impossible to have knowledge of the inner workings behind it, so just pick your frame of reference to view the effect in and its good.

interesting about the power dynamics of anal penetration in animals. i did not know that.

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

My whole point wasn't just about this. I'm aware of the dynamics of male to male anal sex. I'm not against it - until I have knowledge...right now I just have information. I need to process it.

I just can currently see, given the new information, that my prana leaking away is NOT what I want. Not saying this is definitely what happens *disclaimer*. It's something to consider though - whether anal sex is actually harmful in the long run. It would make sense why so many religions are against it, even if they cannot explain exactly why. This yogi info is about as close as I've got.

OK but what if one or both men, or all 3-4 or more men who are having anal sex together are all versatile? I dont agree about how once someone has anal sex they are somebody's bitch, etc.. granted there are some anal sex bottoms who like to be "treated like a bitch" during sex, or who even want really rough anal sex that makes their ass hole bleed but most men would find this to be a turn off and some bottoms I know find it a turn off and don't like it and they dont want to be treated like some man's bitch/whore or have their ass bleed from really rough and fast anal sex.

Ela -fair enough if you think it doesn't make a difference. Personally, I'd rather not risk my life force over a sexual act, that could be irreversible, or take a long time to fix!

 

[Captain_Cannabis]

I would rather have "captain_heroin" force another 5 orgasms onto me while being handcuffed to his bed, then him raping himself with my special friend .

 

[What 23]

So would getting your prostate examined create this "Prana leak" as well, or self stimulating by experimentation? What about getting off on rectal administration of 4-HO-DET? Is there any way to rectify this, and fix the problem, or are we all SOL?

I would actually rather go with number 2, because I am not comfortable with how clean I keep myself. I'd have to shave, fast, Etc to be at all comfortable with someone doing this to me. Not to be too graphic but I have food allergies, and am not the most regular and healthy from that end. I just get this feeling that I want things coming smoothly out of it and ramming something in there isn't really good.

Despite my own fascination with doing girls (and trannies, sometimes) up the butt, sometimes, I have an instinked that always says its wrong. Usually.

 

[MrGrunge]

^ You'd think simply taking a dump would cause a "prana leak". I know I've taken a few steamers that were at least as large, if not bigger, than a typical penis.

But then again, I don't account for silly mystical bullshit during sex or defecation.

 

[pofacedhoe]

if you have to much anal sex with very large toys more than your "prana" will leak. hence for me its an occasional pleasure

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

^ lulz. MrGrunge - shut up and keep watching TV, chap.

ALSO mods need to change the poll name - seriously heteroSEXUAL people do not fuck people their own gender. FACT.

 

[Malgor]

I'd take it up the ass from a hot girl

 

[Captain.Heroin]

ALSO mods need to change the poll name - seriously heteroSEXUAL people do not fuck people their own gender. FACT.

You can choose to fuck whomever you want; sexuality is a preference of who you want to have sex with.

I would rather have "captain_heroin" force another 5 orgasms onto me while being handcuffed to his bed, then him raping himself with my special friend .

Sounds hot to me.

 

[Maya]

I would like to try putting a strap on and do a guy in the ass :D

 

[RonColorado]

I tried #1 with a girl I had been dating for awhile and met through an online dating site. She was really into getting on top of me and going to town on me. I enjoyed her enthusiasm.

Then I realized why. She was bi but he introduced me to her real football boyfriend to try a 3some, but somehow I ended up being the girl. When I realized she hid our clothes over a long weekend, I spent 5 days being his girlfriend and pleasuring him in their bed, on the floor, on the kitchen table, over the arm of the couch and in the shower. Needless to say I got called a little bitch more than once. By the end of the event I was facing him while riding him and found myself strangely compelled to take up his request to date for the rest of the summer.

I got to do him after the girlfriend left for her hometown. We spent the rest of the week doing each other.

So #1 was just as fun as #2!

 

[augustaB]

honestly i would've been up for both - but now i've found out anal sex messes with your root chakra (survival, groundedness), until i find a solution (if there is one), i won't be indulging in it anymore.

rofl