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Boys: have you had same-sex thoughts? POLL CLOSED - results pg. 8

Guys: have you had same-sex thoughts?

  • No, never. Or very rarely.

    Votes: 120 23.2%

  • Yes, once or twice; but I don't think I'd ever act on it.

    Votes: 127 24.6%

  • Yes I have... and I might experiment if the situation felt right.

    Votes: 122 23.6%

  • Yes, definitely. And I've kissed/had a physical experience with another guy.

    Votes: 71 13.7%

  • Yes, and I have had sex with another guy.

    Votes: 77 14.9%
  • Total voters
    517
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Mellow*D said:
I think sexual orientation comes from your upbringing, and for guys, I think it has a lot to do with your father figure - i.e. whether he is there etc
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That can't be possible. Considering most fathers are not totally there (emotionnally if not physically), that would mean the majority of males would end up gay.

And why in a family that has 3 brothers, will there only be one that is gay and not all three of them?

(by the way this is my first post;))
 
I am not gay, but do quite often have thoughts about guys. I have had blowjob from a guy, but dont think i could do any further than that. I like to look at porn, more straight porn than gay porn. But i see so many chicks suckin guys dicks and it really turns me on and i feel that i want to do it! But i could never have any deep emotional relationship with a guy.

I do want to explore my sexuality more, though not openly (come out in anyway). I consider myself straight but would still like to have sex with a guy... nothing more
 
Gnome Raver said:
I am basically straight, but have always been curious/interested (sexually) in sex with a guy but rarely had the situation present itself where I was attracted to a guy enough, etc. Given that my curiosity and sexual desire is personal and private I was not interested in changing "who I was" in people's eyes. I have friends who would be totally at ease with this, but I know that many would see it differently. Not actually being interested in guys romantically I figure that I would rather keep things this way even if it means never exploring this part of me.
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I think this hits the nail on the head for all straight guys who don't really even want to be seen as bi-curious. perhaps the definition of your sexuality stems from that "not actually being intrested in guys romantically" who knows, maybe it'd feel great, but it'd just be about the experimenting.... correct me if i'm wrong, but don't females feel the same damn way?

why are we putting the the sin stigma on the boys?
 
Morrison's Lament said:
Actually, primate research bears this out. I saw a program on Discovery (very progressive of them!) that argued that human sexuality was a social construct.

Basically, amongst all primates the vast majority seems to enjoy sexual relations with both sexes - especially Bonobos seem to love getting it on in huge orgies where no orafice is off limits =D
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no, they loved jerking off together....


and we all know high school boys love their circle jerks.

;)
 
prince albert said:
I think this hits the nail on the head for all straight guys who don't really even want to be seen as bi-curious. perhaps the definition of your sexuality stems from that "not actually being intrested in guys romantically" who knows, maybe it'd feel great, but it'd just be about the experimenting.... correct me if i'm wrong, but don't females feel the same damn way?

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you could always call yourselves heteroflexible.


;)

i call myself homoflexible b-c i have those same feelings
with girls.

no one has grabbed my attention enough (since college, that is)
to warrant me having some boy-on-girl fun... but i know it'll
happen eventually (soon) and repeatedly.

But simply not enough to warrant labelling myself as
het-curious or bi-sexual (even remotely).
 
bi,bi bi,

Strawberry_lovemuffin said:
Hell no! 8o

I can't think of anything sexier than a straight guy who's willing to experiment with another guy. Oh wait, yes I can: a straight guy who's willing to experiment with another guy and let me watch . =D
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strawberry love muffin.my live in of 5 yrs is bi. we have had many nice times with other women. she does have this fantasy of me w/another man.it's not that i'm against it,it's just that i don't feel attracted to other men,i mean i may,but i doubt it. never say never.......what was woody allans quote....." being bi-sexual doubles your chance for a date on saturday nite" or something like that.....:p
 
Can't say I have. Guys just don't seem all that attractive to me, at all.
Although, is a threesome involving another guy wherein all focus is on the girl involved considered a same-sex thought?
 
Well if I was a woman it deffinatly would have same sex thoughts, and seeing as though im not I would have to strongly say "not this guy" but more power to the others.
 
-=ReD-hAzE=- said:
Can't say I have. Guys just don't seem all that attractive to me, at all.
Although, is a threesome involving another guy wherein all focus is on the girl involved considered a same-sex thought?
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depends if you were thinking about or getting turned on by the other guy. In most of these cases I have been 'informed' the focus is usually on cooperating to pleasure the woman.

How boring lol
 
Mellow*D said:
depends if you were thinking about or getting turned on by the other guy. In most of these cases I have been 'informed' the focus is usually on cooperating to pleasure the woman.

How boring lol
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The whole point of having the experiance is for the woman from the start. 8)
 
I've thought about making out with a couple of my gay friends, especially after a couple drinks, and have definitely gotten a little flirty a few times. I don't think I would actually make out with a guy, it's not an idea that I'm so excited about that I'm willing to go through potentially being ostracized.

The whole idea of butt sex just turns me off, I can't get into it at all. I don't think I could do a guy-guy relationship either. It just wouldn't feel right.

I've always thought of sexuality as a continuum where at 1 you have no attraction to men and at 10 you have no attraction to women. I'd be, like, at 3.5. I think a lot of the homophobia in our society comes from guys who are towards the heterosexual side of the scale but not all the way being scared by their thoughts.
 
ive had some kinda weird dreams and also thought about it i guess...why not? its not like it makes me gay.

im almost certain i wouldnt act on it though.
 
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