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bored by female orgasm

ch00n said:
^^ Why are you empathizing with his girlfriend, you don't even know her, she could be a very bad person for all you know.

Sure he has a messed up point of view, no need to attack him personally. geez... everyone else had something productive to say except you...
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because hes a trolling asshole who degrades his girlfriend . have you not seen his other threads.

my advise would be for him would be to get some help

btw this is from his should i replace my girlfriend? thread


She will destroy me, pollute further my genes and give us weak offspring that will not make me proud.
What the hell she has? Intelligence? Well...no. Health? Well...at least not overweight, but nothing special. Money? Well yes, but she is not even that rich.
Everything she has is a sence of fucking fashion and expensive wardrobe, that's all where's the money gone. And her cartoons.

I can enjoy cuddling and her petting me...Seeing her happy and feeling 'manly' since I'm better in everything: more beautiful, smarter, healthier.
But is it all worth distroying the future of my own future offspring? With an unsuitable mate.
I always wanted for things to be like this, for me to be better in everything so I can control her, and she is addicted to me. Playboy bitches I can't control them or manipulate or tell them shit or ever feel superior to them. They can just leave and find better sponsor.
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If you're bored when you're having sex, it's probably because you're a boring lover. If you were more interesting and engaging in bed you'd be more interested and engaged.
 
Shit, bluelight seems to house a horde of sexist males. This one is no different. The woman should obey your every need, and should give you pleasure, not the other way around, huh?

From personal experience, men I've been with LOVED to give me orgasms, they GOT OFF on me getting off, either coming right after or in a minute. It has never taken 45 minutes, in fact it probably never took longer than 15. I had a guy do it in 2 minutes, with just fingers and tongue. Guess, what, he got some head and sex just the way he wanted afterwards.

My point is, the way you go about it before any vaginal-penile contact is made is most important. The size of your dick is not. If you really care about the girl you're having sex with, then you should show it in bed. If you don't you should break up and save her the trouble of being with you.
 
You are really going about this ass-backwards.
You should love her and want to make her cum as much as you want to cum. once you actually feel like that, you will begin to please your girlfriend AND please yourself.
 
fwiw i largely agree with OP despite the forum-wide backlash. more times than not i find sex to be too much work. i live a celibate lifestyle and i don't see that changing anytime soon. and no, i'm not a religious freak.

it makes me really sad the world is so intolerant.
 
Wow. You are such a selfish lover that you don't have sex? If you know what you're doing it's not that difficult to make most women cum. I really feel sorry for you guys.
 
You definitely need to have sex with another man to be sure your satisfied
 
doris delay said:
Oh, you bet she's bored. You suck in bed, sorry dude!
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AGREED. I'm surprised this guy is even getting laid. Perfunctory sex? you're no master of your art, that's for sure.

BTW, 7 is average. show me a 9"er and you might have some kinda bragging rights :p
 
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Tromps said:
You definitely need to have sex with another man to be sure your satisfied
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Yeah man. Just find another guy with a premature ejaculation problem. You can be the three minute twins. Just set an egg timer before you start blowing each other.

Problem solved.
 
KamMoye said:
fwiw i largely agree with OP despite the forum-wide backlash. more times than not i find sex to be too much work. i live a celibate lifestyle and i don't see that changing anytime soon. and no, i'm not a religious freak.

it makes me really sad the world is so intolerant.
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What? Celibate. ? What happened to Mr cool
 
Infernal said:
...She shouldn't rely on you to do all the work and for her to rely on only your input (snicker) then she's not doing her part.

The bad news is you sound like an entitled wanker whining...
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This thread is amusing. But I strongly agree with this. I've been both an inactive and an active lover, and it's why they say it takes two to tango...unless your one goal is to impregnate this woman, your sole ejaculation is NOT the purpose my friend. I could use some improvements, but I can empathize with any girl or person being fucked..sometimes it's a little hard to not just lay there and feel retarded good, but she should want to help you out too. Maybe she's not happy in the relationship. If I'm not willingly going down on my guy, I'm definitely not feeling him in any way.:! And sorry, but premature ejaculation isn't the girl's fault.

Have you ever verbally addressed your frustrations? Because it seems like a childish dissatisfaction that hasn't been resolved.x
 
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my current FWB is like that so I make sure I give her an orgasm through oral/foreplay then proceed to fuck her, it's like my reward as she never orgasms during sex (for anyone, not just me) this could be because she is bi with a preference to girls, she says it feels nice and it is pleasurable but she prefers the foreplay as she can get off on that.

I never go straight to sex, mainly as it gets me right in the mood getting a girl off. I always make sure I "prime the engine" before I ride ;)

p.s I suffer from PE too although I have improved from 5 mins to around 10-15 so getting the girl off before sex was/is very important for me
 
citizen cained said:
my current FWB is like that so I make sure I give her an orgasm through oral/foreplay then proceed to fuck her, it's like my reward as she never orgasms during sex (for anyone, not just me) this could be because she is bi with a preference to girls, she says it feels nice and it is pleasurable but she prefers the foreplay as she can get off on that.

I never go straight to sex, mainly as it gets me right in the mood getting a girl off. I always make sure I "prime the engine" before I ride ;)

p.s I suffer from PE too although I have improved from 5 mins to around 10-15 so getting the girl off before sex was/is very important for me
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Most women are unable to orgasm with vaginal sex!! This is 2011, I'd think most people would know this by now! It's such ignorant stances that lead women into the vicious cycle of fake orgasms and shame.
 
A small (yet significant) percentage of women have trouble orgasming or simply cant. Does she masturbate? Maybe she needs to learn how to play the game solo before playing it in twos.
 
Geezus just buy yourself a blow up doll and be done with it.

It takes two to tango - if women were put on this Earth to serve only a mans sexual needs and pleasures then they wouldn't have been created to also feel pleasure.

In your defense though when it comes to your partner, she does sound a little extreme with the foreplay. Maybe you don't do it right? If you want sex straight away then make her want it straight away! It can be done, maybe she can sense you really don't care about her?

So yep, blow up doll is your best bet.
 
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