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So a recent post of mine got me wondering...I am pretty easily aroused and beyond a peck( quick kiss), anything like rubbing, good kissing, hell even thinking about what I want to do to you causes me to draw wood. So I have a couple questions for both sides.

1. Girls - primarily in the early stages of a relationship, do you notice when kissing a boner pressing on your belly? Do you ever react or pretend you dont notice?

2. Guys - Do you have the same problem? Like can you give a good standing 30 second kiss without poking her? And does this make you a bit nervous that she might feel it?

any boner stories welcome but I am curious to these questions
 
I got a boner reading about WaaO asking about boners... :\

1. (I am a girl that doesn't do relationships, fyi) - YES I do notice it, and I respond with a grunt and a more vicious kiss, and keep going at it until his underwear betrays spots of precum...

2. "Problem"? What the fuck are you smoking?? And yes, I *love* it when it happens, and I love rubbing mine against his!

If your relationship-breeder-girls (<3) are giving you shit for your boners, I say fuck'em.

(Sorry, I know this is all irrelevant to your question ;))
 
I've never noticed it but that doesn't mean it hasn't happened. I wouldn't really care. It is expected, I suppose. It's really more of a compliment anyway that I can turn him on right?!? If I was ready to go "further" then I'd get pretty excited by it!
 
yeah, that is why I was curious more about the early stages of a relationship
you know first few kisses, etc.

For instance: first date, kiss at the end of the night and you get a raging boner pressed up against you ..thought maybe there would be a 'geez, this guy just wants to have sex with me' reaction vs. dumby just cant control himself

Ill admit, being the pervert that I am these days and having lost any insecurities and ready to get naked at the drop of a hat....I make every effort to ensure she is feeling it! but in my younger years , I really did get nervous/embarrased


on the flip side you get a tiny poke and realize his pecker is the size of the dude that just started the dicksizing thread
 
I kinda like it. LOL I don't know why. It's one of those reasons I'll never be a lesbo. I just like that manly embrace, including the boner I feel in the pants.
 
I would definitely like it, it's a huge compliment and a sure fire sign that the guy is interested in me and is enjoying the kiss as much as I am. I can't imagine why anyone would be offended by this...if you are engaging in a form of sexual activity then one should expect a sexual reaction.
 
Even talking about sex can make me hard. It doesn't bother me nor do women seem offended by it though. I'm usually just all "Yeah, that's my junk" and they're all "Teeheehee".
 
^lol

I personally find it flattering and a bit humorous when a dude gets wood, even in platonic situations. One of my smoke buddies got wood when I hugged him hello last week. I didn't find it creepy.
 
going through puberty was a fucking bitch.

every single class in 7th and 8th grade i'd get a raging hard on and have to grab my cock through my pocket and shove it up in the waist of my pants.
 
ChickenScratch said:
WAAO: proof that cialis works for old dudes.
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Hahahaha...

I always make sure they know it's there - like if you standing up kissing - press against them and move side to side in the beginnings of a grind without going "round"...from my recollection, it never gets a bad reaction.

If somehow somewhere it did - I would promptly tell them to fuck off.

Also - if I could stand there kissing her for 30 minutes without poking her in the leg...well I should really stop kissing her, or take less drugs haha.
 
ChickenScratch said:
going through puberty was a fucking bitch.

every single class in 7th and 8th grade i'd get a raging hard on and have to grab my cock through my pocket and shove it up in the waist of my pants.
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That is why they made belts, to tuck that bad boy towards your belly and tighten the belt... Stealth boner =D Just glad my junk is long enough to do that, i had one friend where he was unable to to that, had to hold it in his pocket the whole time; now that must be a pain in the ass
 
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I long ago made sure to keep my junk far away from any chica's UPA--a spinal contortion that's easier than you think. The fact that the only women who hug me are the kind who would *definitely* get creeped out about it is added incentive.
 
I'm pretty sure the only girls it would bother are a. complete lesbians (who would have no business kissing the guy to begin with and wouldn't be put in that predicament) or b. believe in no sex until marriage, who might be turned off by such an action, but probably wouldn't be kissing the guy in that way to begin with.
 
I surely enjoy it. Because tbph I don't start making out with someone unless I want to have sex, so if there was no boner I'd be like well what the fuck are we not going to do it or what?

In the early stages of a relationship when I felt a guy's boner I'd immediately draw attention to it. Like, oh hello there, wanna go back to my bike? ;)
 
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