Bondage Asphyxiation Rape? a.k.a. the 'TUDDAH' thread

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[this one was lost in a prune, but thankfully someone had it saved to disk - this is a repost]

Giza 02-04-2005 18:16
Bondage Asphyxiation Rape?

First off im well aware of my psychopathic tendencies, so dont try to say "dude ur psychopathic", I know this and it wouldnt be news to me.

Now I wonder what peoples opinions on this are. Is it wrong to rape my own girlfriend?

I have a fantasy, and I cannot tell my gf it, because if she knew what it was, it would no longer be the fantasy it is to be. I desire to see the fear in her eyes, as if it was the last breaths of her life.

Basically, it involves me telling my girlfriend ive got to leave town for a few days for buisness. But not leaving town. Instead, waiting a day or two @ a hotel. Then, when she thinks im long gone on buisness, coming to her house at night dressed all in black with a ski mask, color contacts, and the whole works. Waiting outside her sliding glass door till she walks into her kitchen, then breakin in and chasing her down, tackle her to the floor and drag her by her hair through the house to the bathroom, handcuffing her to the towel rack, cut away her clothes with a knife, and tie her bra around her neck and rape the fucking shit out of her whilst simultaneously choking her off to verge of unconciousness. Then once all is said and done, taking off the ski-mask and TUDDAH its me.

I know ALOT of shit could go wrong with said situation (heh, she could grab a knife for instance), but she cannot ever know this is my fantasy, because if she ever had any clue, then her reaction to the situation could be jaded, and its all about the realism. I want her to literrally think she is going to die right then and there, crying and screaming whatever the hell shed do in such a situation.


So whats your take on this. Girls, if your boyfriend did such a thing to you, and you really did think you were going to die till the very end of it all, would you press charges afterwards??? Thats my biggest fear of it...

PurrrinInOk 03-04-2005 00:26
Whew!! you are brave for posting this LOL

Personally, this would terrify the SHIT out of me and piss me off royally, but everyone is different.

My hubby would be stupid to try to act out this fantasy because he would be in the morgue.....I carry a concealed weapon (which he taught me how to use.) and we have guns in the house for protection.

You know her best...
What do you think she would do Giza? She could very well have a knife hidden somewhere for her protection in this event, what if she grabbed it and stabbed you?

Perhaps it would be wiser and safer to *act out* the fantasy with her knowledge?

WNB 03-04-2005 03:39
Um, this shouldn't be in legal q&a...

Anyway, if she went to the cops you'd be in deep shit. It doesn't matter that she's your girlfriend.

Giza 03-04-2005 04:19
^

apparently a mod thought so, because they moved it from sex, love, relationships to legal Q&A.


And if she knows its no longer the fantasy. If I told her, id have to dump her and get a new girlfriend because it would NEVER be able to be guaranteed authentic reaction to the circumstances.

She defiently doesnt have a gun, and im pretty sure I could easily overpower her if she had a knife, after all shes only 100lbs soaking wet. But who knows, who knows what somones capable of when they literally think theyr going to be killed, she could turn into a jiu-jitsu master and slap me out cold LOL


So purrrin, your saying you'd call the cops if ur hubby did such a thing??

PurrrinInOk 03-04-2005 04:52
Quote:
Originally posted by Giza
^

apparently a mod thought so, because they moved it from sex, love, relationships to legal Q&A.


And if she knows its no longer the fantasy. If I told her, id have to dump her and get a new girlfriend because it would NEVER be able to be guaranteed authentic reaction to the circumstances.

She defiently doesnt have a gun, and im pretty sure I could easily overpower her if she had a knife, after all shes only 100lbs soaking wet. But who knows, who knows what somones capable of when they literally think theyr going to be killed, she could turn into a jiu-jitsu master and slap me out cold LOL


So purrrin, your saying you'd call the cops if ur hubby did such a thing??
Yes, I would have to call the cops, because he would be DEAD if he attempted this one LOL
He would not try it, because he knows that I would shoot first & ask questions later

Your girlfriend may or may not like something like this.

As far as the legal ramifications go, she could go to the cops if she wanted to...and some women might just do that if they were pissed off enough.

Coke Head 03-04-2005 12:54
you are a fucking moron if you would try this. no shit she is going to the call the cops, you would be lucky just to have her tell you she never wants to talk to you again.

forgotten 03-04-2005 13:57
If you have non-consensual sex with someone, you can be charged with rape, sexual battery, etc. The scenario you described (flase imprisonment, and using a deadly weapon) could get you a life sentence in a lot of states.

MattPD 04-04-2005 03:47
Yes, you would be wrong to do that.

For so many reasons, not the first of which is you could get charged with several crimes (as noted.)

sonic 04-04-2005 04:47
It's called date rape. Download the song:
sublime - date rape

Albert Walker 04-04-2005 10:54
I try not to pass judgment on others, but after reading this I believe you are in need of some serious mental help.

If you actually did this I believe your girlfriend would not think it was ok when you pulled your mask off. She would most likely call the police and you would be arrested which you would deserve.

aunty establishment 04-04-2005 13:36
Quote:
So whats your take on this. Girls, if your boyfriend did such a thing to you, and you really did think you were going to die till the very end of it all, would you press charges afterwards??? Thats my biggest fear of it...
Not only would I press charges, when you got out of jail I would bribe some of my big burly mates to kick nine kinds of shit out of you.

Look, I am an active BDSM practitioner and I have played in several "scenes" like you describe, with the distinction that they were *consensual*. There are a lot of submissive women out there who would *love* to have this done to them, including the element of surprise...but you HAVE to give them the chance to consent first. If you don't, you're a rapist pure and simple and the law will treat you as such.

The whole point of sexual fantasy is that BOTH partners get something positive out of it. The problem with this scenario is that you're getting off, while she's getting lifelong emotional scarring. Either set it up as a safe "scene" where she knows you'll do it - one day - or don't do it at all. Please. Your girlfriend deserves better than that.

psychetool 04-04-2005 13:45
Giza is so roided out he's starting to lose his mind. What would ever make you want to do something so cruel to someone that your (supposed) to care about ?

The little respect I had for your knowledge of steroids has now gone down the drain. You are scum, and if you try this you will be prosecuted as such.

psychetool 04-04-2005 13:48
Please post it again (slightly edited for wording) about what women would think about this situation in SL&R. That way you could get a much more varied response.

I really worry about anyone around you, you sound like a timebomb just waiting to explode ~ and it seems the clock is counting down to zero soon with the fucked up shit you just posted here.

forgotten 04-04-2005 16:05
This thread has reached its usefulness in this forum. Feel free to post in SL&R to talk about whether or not you should do this.

 

[GSpot]

Curious to know what even happened with this? Did this person ever go through with this?

 

[QueenOfLight]

When does fantasy cross the line and become reality?

Does anyone know if this guy actually tried it?

I'm all for the -'what two consenting adults do in private' thing (though I have my reservations about this one) and I believe there's nothing wrong with a little healthy fantasizing (I think we've all done it) but this post gives me the creeps. If this guy really cared about his girlfriend at all he wouldn't even be having these thoughts. Perhaps he should turn himself in before someone gets hurt. I know one thing if my husband tried this someone would wind up dead or in jail and it wouldn't be me.

 

[hydrobliss]

wow this person is a sick fucking freak, the sad part is he is ok with that.

This is a person we will see on Lockup:RAW one day as a fucking sick mass muderer.. I hope he fries in an elecric chair just for even thinking this would be ok for a moment.

 

[bignbrown]

FUCKING LOL he should do it

 

[slimvictor]

^ You are just as sick as the OP.
He should give his girlfriend deep, unescapable fear for the rest of her life because you think it's funny?
If he does it, I hope he does it to you.

 

[lostNfound]

OP is an idiot, needs a bullet really; IMHO.

 

[stonedandrolling89]

This is quite possibly the most horrible idea I have ever heard.

If the dude really did this, I hope he's in prison getting surprise buttsex all the day long.

 

[Violenza666]

I have been raped... and I am into rape roleplay and all that jazz HOWEVER... If my husband pulled that shit I'd put a bullet in his head without second thought. It wouldn't be my fault either because if I didn't know it was him... I would be protecting myself and our daughter... this idea is completely ridiculous....

Alot of people fantasize about rape... especially women. Eventhough I have been raped twice in my life I still fantasize about it.... not the incidents.. but rape role play with my husband ect... but if the situation was to be this "real" while it may be "hot" on some level the end result would be disastrous and someone would most likely get shot.

 

[shiv]

that really is quite scary to read...i hope his girlfriend is ok...the guy seems to think because hes her boyfriend it doesnt count?? wow I really hope the girl is ok

 

[Oxydation]

I think this was a joke, and the punchline was "Tuddah".

Thread closed?

 

[knelk219]

gotta be sum kinda f'd up person lookin for a crowd reaction, i hope so at least!!!! either way i think its a criminal act just ta talk about it like its sumthing hes realy debating on doing looking for a responce for such a thing is unreal to me. this is just a question that anyone'd ask if they were thinkin of doin it n i hope hes in prison gettin wat he deserves for even makin me feel like i had to write this post lol i was enjoyin a great time til read this garbage total buzz kill time ta twist up lol

 

[trakstar]

this dudes fuckin stupid and it would be so funny if she had a 9 without him knowin and put holes in him LOL..

 

[trakstar]

gotta be sum kinda f'd up person lookin for a crowd reaction, i hope so at least!!!! either way i think its a criminal act just ta talk about it like its sumthing hes realy debating on doing looking for a responce for such a thing is unreal to me. this is just a question that anyone'd ask if they were thinkin of doin it n i hope hes in prison gettin wat he deserves for even makin me feel like i had to write this post lol i was enjoyin a great time til read this garbage total buzz kill time ta twist up lol

IM SAYIN, i hope this dude is livin some other dude's FANTASY in jail and gettin RAPED by 3 big [intelligent & good looking African American gentlemen] ... LOL... SOMEBODY shoot this bitch...

 

[felix]

just poppin in here after rediscovering a screen dump of the OP on my computer. i forgot i'd made this thread, haha. :D

"TUDDAH!"

classic. tell it to the judge. :D

 

[DoseYouAll]

I think we all miissed the point!

This is the new most advanced evolution of the classic Aristocrats! joke.

Tuddah !!

 

[POPnROLL]

Perhaps me and my fiance are psychopaths also but he'd love to do this to me and i soooo wouldn't mind. But, it's not SO weird, i've talked about this kind of stuff with some of my female...and male...friends.. ^_^;

 

[limonov]

....Fuck me, that was a disturbing read.

I found particularly scary how he was so adament that consent/mutual knowledge of what was going on would destroy the fantasy...like, I suppose I can understand 'rape scenes' being acted out by two consenting partners who know what they're going to be doing tonight, considering the fact that submission/domination (to varying degrees) is a fairly common fantasy most 'rape fantasies' have little to do with acual rape, but rather are a fetishisation of extreme/rough submissive/dominant sex. Sort of like all the nazi S&M stuff has nothing to do with national socialism and anti-scemitic ideology, but is rather a fetishisation of power/sadism/dominance.

But this cunt...he doesn't want a 'rape fantasy' he fantasises about rape. What he said about 'having to find a new girlfriend' if he told her about his fantasy was so fucking cold, it's like he's talking about cum-tissues. It's men like this that I am ashamed to be a man, the fact that through his behaviour towards women he will effect how women percieve men and in doing so good men, who feel physically repulsion at any sexual violence, will be judged along side these pieces of shit.

How can you respect someone so little? In all likelihood he, like 90% of rapists (and I am assuming that if this is his attitude towards women and the nature of this site, there is a high chance that he has taken advantage of intoxicated women- this constitutes rape), don't rape strangers- they rape their friends, their girlfriends, their wives, people who you'd think that you'd care about. Rape is so destructive, it is an experience that never goes away, that can never be taken back and despite all of the proactive 'survivor' rhetoric and support services, most women who are raped are profoundly damaged by the experience and never fully recover from their ordeal. It is the most callous, selfish, sadistic, pathetic and unnecessary action that anyone can take. How pitiful ones ego must be if they must destroy another human being so that they can feel powerful. Suicide is a more noble and fitting gesture for such individuals.

Only a bullet will reform a rapist. If you call yourself a man and anyone who you know is raped you are morally obliged to hurt the person responsible. All too often someone is raped and everyone within the community knows what happened, who is responsible, but nothing happens. If your community is a home to rapists you are as responsible as they are (this is bitter frustration at how then crust/gutter punk scene works around the world)- sexual predators have no place in society, they must be identified, ostracised and suffer greatly for their decisions.

 

[foolsgold]

he wants using as a fucking lab rat vivisection is what he needs . what gets me is this people fantasize about being raped why what the fuck