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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

OhSoBec said:
I'm surprised that so many people are really negative about being single.

I have learnt so much about myself and become a much happier person in the last year since my last relationship ended.

It will have to be someone amazingly special to make me want to comit to another relationship any time soon.
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Indeed...Im single for the first time since I was 18- which is pretty fucking scary. I didnt even date back then at all so I dont think Ill be any good at it now at age 30.

Its kinda tough going through this at a time when my sister is getting married, my best friend is getting married and my other friends are having babies. But its better to happen now rather than stay in a relationship that just isnt working because youve been with that person for so long.

Meh.:(

Fuck it, being single will be fun when the mess is all sorted out and Im in a better frame of mind.

Single> fucked up relationship.
 
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Actually, you just reminded me of the bad type of single.

The "still trying to sort out the stuff that made me single" stage.

Once that's over, the fun begins!!
 
^Yep- the "bad" kind of single...Im not sure how to take that but whatever...

I broke my "no personal shit on BL" rule today. Bugger. :\
 
MoeBro said:
obviously there are moments when I wish i had someone to brutally pummel, but that thought passes quickly after masturbation.
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I wish a man would say that to me.. brutally pummel. ITS HOT 8o 8o 8o
 
Why have every single last one of my single friends decided to all find boyfriend/girlfriends all at the same time!!!!!!!!

Sorry i need to vent if i could have it shoved in my face any more i think il cry!
Of course im not a selfish mole who isnt happy for them i am just tired of hearing about EVERY single detail of thier new relationship.

No i do not find it HILARIIOUS what time you woke up in the morning and NO i do not care about every single little word of your conversation last night. I understand they are smitten and wanna discuss EVERYTHING but please!! this is happening from four different friends all at the same time.

I was quiet happy being single but now, man does it suck being the single best friend!!!
Man of my dreams come find me now! hehehehe
 
How old is older men?

As soon as i hit 28 i started getting hit on heaps more, except they were all younger girls.

eg. Last saturday this girl just sits next to me at a bar and is trying to put her arms around me. She's borderline pushy and doesnt even backoff when i tell her im 13yrs older than her. She just shrugs and asks me: 'but you're not gay right?' :\
 
^^ Isn't this meant to be every guy's dream m4dd0g? ;)

I tend to find older men slightly intimidating, maybe because I have the perception that they are getting ready to settle down. And commitment... damn, that's a bit of a scary thought!
 
moe: heh, she was 19. Tho i suspect she was lying. i dont think she was a cousin ... is there something you know that i dont?

kat: ahem. i sucumbed when i was 29 to a younger girl. was better than i thought it would be but im well over the it now.
btw, older guys who arent commited are safer cos they are better at avoiding it ;)
 
My last was a good 12-13yrs older.

Never, ever, ever again.

I'm staying single til I move interstate. I've had it with Sydney born guys. And at the moment I'm sick of meeting blokes with kids from previous relationships (note I said kids as in more than one). I'm not sure still if I ever want to have any of my own let alone accept someone elses. Not to mention the amount of money they'd be paying in child support. And what say I change my mind later one and want to have one. Are they going to want have another?

Question: would you be prepared to accept someone else's kids (if they had more than one)?
 
At this age, I think I'd be unlikely to pursue a relationship with a guy who had kids but I definitely wouldn't totally discount it. It would depend on so many different factors.

There probably aren't many people who want me around their children anyway. ;)
 
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