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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

My last boyfriend was 17 years older than me and had a child from a previous relationship.

I don't think either of those things had anything to do with the fact it didn't work.

I generally prefer older men and I am more likely to be intimidated by someone close to my own age than someone older.
 
sydkiwi said:
Question: would you be prepared to accept someone else's kids (if they had more than one)?
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Considering I don't know that I want to have my own, I'm not sure that I'd be willing to accept someone else's at this point in time. I think my lifestyle at the moment is too selfish to involve kids in it.
 
When i was 25 i was seeing someone who was 10yrs older and had 2 kids (around 10yo). Normally this would terrify me, but the relationship was really good and her kids were impressively mature (and intelligent).

Its a whole package thing, you are getting into a relationship with more than the one person.

... also ending it with more than one :( :( :(
 
wow havent been in here since december but am still single
im 26 seeing someone that is 36 and its all good she has a daughter that i get along with fine tho i dont think i could do teh relationship thing with her its all in good fun...
starting seeing another chick who is a bit younger than me (23 i think) on tues and another date tonight teh 36 yr old knows about it and is fine with it,
god i love openness
 
RSVP rocks. Singles, use it.

I've met so many friends on there, not to mention, shags!, nice shags.

:)

shals!
 
^^ I have almost forgotten what that was until my trip to Melbourne. Im still single, but so I should be. Im moving to Melbourne goddammit ! SOOOOOOOO many hot boys ! I was seriously almost questioning the true nature of sexuality. Then I went to melbourne all doubts were gone. Gone.

Is it bad to really really badly want your housemate ? He is soooo goddamn cute. So cute. And single. I previously thought that this girl that always sleeps over is his girlfriend. They broke up ages ago though and he is having a hard time trying to get her out of his life. Um, maybe I could lend a hand ;)

(JOKES! I AM NOT A BITCH.OFTEN.)
 
Welcome back

^^ Friend of mine meant her boy through RSVP - she went on a couple of other dates and said they all seemed normal enough (no two headed freaks or anything like that ;))


muzby said:
i'd like to announce my arrival back into this sad, lonely, pathetic thread.
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Sad and lonely? No.

Pathetic? Quite possibly ;)

Anyway, something I read recently in a column by Mia Freedman:

I once read that while men see as they are and decide whether or not to pursue a relationship on that basis, women are more likely to see what a man could be. We see the potential. What's not there. Then we try to make the 'not there' there, which must be as annoying for the men as it is fruitless for us.
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While I can't comment on the male side of it, that pretty much sums me up completely. I like to call this the 'everyone else thinks my taste in men sucks but I think there's a great guy underneath waiting to be discovered' syndrome. I'd say about 90% of the males I've been attracted to over the years, my friends look at me and say 'why'?

I'd like to think of it as being able to see something good in everyone... but maybe I'm just fooling myself by thinking that people are something they are not, and might never be.


Incidentally, I recently ran into a guy I liked when I was 19 and he's still the same constantly pissed asshole who tries to crack onto my friends.


Oh, and I'm still here, but that's ok. It's gonna take a bit to crack these walls...
 
katmeow said:
While I can't comment on the male side of it, that pretty much sums me up completely. I like to call this the 'everyone else thinks my taste in men sucks but I think there's a great guy underneath waiting to be discovered' syndrome. I'd say about 90% of the males I've been attracted to over the years, my friends look at me and say 'why'?
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ha! people always kive my oyfriends bewcause they're such fantastic people! im very happily single atm. i would like someone to cook me dinner but other than that, what are men god for?
 
i find that very offensive. a good worker akways blame his tools. or maybe it's the opposite.

anyway, the problem with men in sydney is they wear collared shirts and boat shoes. i mean, wtf?
 
single? female? syd?

im bored ! send me a msg :P


meh i been alone for 6 months, sorta sux at the moment.
 
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