princess_kitti said:
Anyway, who says you need someone to make you happy? That just smacks of lacking the strength or belief in yourself to enjoy life to the fullest without someone there to hold your hand
Indeed! I was talking to a friend the other day who said "In relationships you can do
everything you want because you have your partners support" Hmmmm.... I had to disagree with that one.
I luv being single and knowing that I have complete freedom to do what I choose without having to think about the 'other half' and wondering if it will interfere with 'our time together'.
Ive made my life so full that I just cant make time for anyone… that’s not fair on the other person, and Im not ready to change my life !
This does create a few issues though, like the latest charmer
Guy “Wanna catch up on Monday?”
Me “ Sorry I cant Im working at the hospital”
Guy “Oh what time, wanna catch up after maybe?”
Me “Well its volunteer work so I go in for however long I want to’
Guy “Cant you just ditch it then?’
8)
Erm….. ditch cancer patients and doing something I love so I can catch up with some semi random? I think not.
I hate having to explain why I am doing something and feeling like I don’t have full freedom to do it.
Being single rox !!!!