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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

^ i think i'm an anomaly for the JABSS, i love romantic comedies, and i do have a guranteed partner for trivial pursuit. well i did.

oh fuck. down she goes. my trivial pursuit partner is aforesaid headfucker. on friday night i broke the ties and made it girls against boys because we always go together and it's stupid. we're not a fucking couple.

aggghh!!!! i blame trivial pursuit for my life!!! :p

i've resigned myself to it not sorting itself out. and in a sick, masochistic way, it's kind of pleasurable to accept that.

get back to me in a month when i'm tearing my hair out and flinging sharp objects into an effigy of him though....this process always starts out positive :D
 
I've negated the need for a boyfriend by having guy friends.
My only need? Sex.... (and a bar of chocolate)
*wonders off into dreamland*
 
I'm currently cheating on my usual partner with a close friend. I suspect that perhaps my partner knows about this and that's why she hasn't come home from Brad's yet...

I miss you baby, and I'm sorry, please come home...
 
Shnouzerpuff said:
**Admittance to the Jaded And Bitter Solo Squad requires you to have a high postcount in this thread, Dinner-For-One reservations at restaurants and a deep hatred for Meg Ryan movies.
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Dinner for one - check
Meg Ryan (*shudder*) - check
My post count must be low cos Im lovin the single life =D

Flirting isnt really a satisfying substitute for sex tho :(
 
speaking of meg any one read the letest round of trash mags
seams she has baged herself young jack osborne
hmm intresting
spose evry boy need a suger mummie in his life at some time to show him the ropes
 
^ that is ew

I want to ask a cute guy at work out on a date :o

I'm thinking maybe invite him to see a band. I don't know though. I'm really bad at telling if people are interested in me or not.

I'm also thinking of doing my normal thing and not do anything and then whinge because nothing happens :(

it's a tough choice. :\
 
Mary Poppins said:
I'm also thinking of doing my normal thing and not do anything and then whinge because nothing happens :(
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Yeah, that's the team procrastination spirit!! =D

A long time ago a boy I worked with apparently liked me, but I just saw him as a good mate. Few months down the track, I had done my standard thing and fallen for him. We went out one night after work. We got drunk. We kissed. Lots. Next day he told me we were better off just as friends.

Making a move on people you have to face everyday is sorta scary (unless you're drunk ;) )
 
^ well i figure this is a good one because i only work there twice a week, and rarely with him (he's full-time)

plus i'm probably gonna quit after a few months anyway....

god, anyone would think i'm trying to talk myself into making a move ;)
 
Weeeeelllllity wellity wellity,

I opened my mind up to the idea of reigniting something with the ex but I think Ms Poppins hit the nail on the head. Whilst I may be willing to give it another shot it essentially comes down to the way she sees things. I asked my dreams to give me an answer and they did... not the one I wanted to hear but an accurate answer nonetheless.

When I compare the goods with the bad I realise it was never THAT great.

My idea of rekindling it rests mainly in an idea of that it could be BETTER than it was, but most likely this is just me living in a fantasy land fuelled by laziness.

Essentially, I've now shut the door holding the idea and am back in the game with renewed passion. I figure, if i'm going to find someone worthwhile I gotta go through a lot of the shallow bullshit along the way. I'm not gonna sit back n hope something will fall in my lap.... I will create opportunities! WOO!

summmmmerrrrr tiiiiimmmmeeeeee

Adikkal
 
Mary Poppins said:
^ that is ew

I want to ask a cute guy at work out on a date :o

I'm thinking maybe invite him to see a band. I don't know though. I'm really bad at telling if people are interested in me or not.

I'm also thinking of doing my normal thing and not do anything and then whinge because nothing happens :(

it's a tough choice. :\
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Go up to him and ask/tell him the most random question or statement you can think of. If he happily engages you in converstation, ask him out at the end of it.

Im serious ;)
 
^ i have already talked to him! and i think i essentially did the random question and statement thing

i told him we have an oc club :o

and i told him i was going to bring the mariah carey christmas album to play at work :o:o

he still talked to me! :)
 
i told him i was going to bring the mariah carey christmas album to play at work
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Good God!

That is utterly disgraceful!

=D

Mariah Carey playing at my work would make me want to hit my head on the wall 911X1000 times 8o
 
lol in actual fact, i don't even own it, so it was an idle threat :D

but i do have a soft spot for "all i want for christmas is you" :\

guess it must be love then if i was still in his good books after that ;)
 
I'm still here, and I have to vent.

Younger girls really do my head in. There's this girl who I'm rather fond of who is doing just that. I know she lurks these forums so if she reads this then good, it'll take the pressure off when I say it to her face.

She just finished school a few weeks ago and is currently on schoolies. Last I checked she was somewhere in Queensland yesterday. She's supposed to come back tomorrow and we're supposed to go to a doof this weekend. She made a rather big deal to me about this one. She came over at 3am for morning tea the night before an exam just to tell me this.

When I called her she said something about the town being blacked out but she'd be back tomorrow and will get her ticket on thursday. I speak to one of her friends and it turns out she's up there with her housemate without enough money to get home. She was supposed to have $200 wired to her last thursday and I doubt it's been done yet. I somehow doubt she'll be at the doof because a) she has no money and b) she's in another state at the moment so there's a good chance she won't even be in Sydney this weekend.

Meanwhile, I'm trying to get everyone to get their shit together so I know who's going when, how we're getting there and if I have to buy food for anyone else. As it turns out, no one else in this group has their tickets yet, so I may have to catch a train all the way to Nowra on friday night/saturday morning all by myself and catch a bus from there, carrying all my gear for a weekend of camping.

This isn't the first time she's done something like this and I don't know what tears me up more - the fact that she's in another state with no money or the fact she didn't tell me when I spoke to her. She's hiding a lot of things from me that she doesn't hide from other people and it's about fucking time we had a little talk.

She's not the only one to do this either. Every time I plan to go somewhere outside Sydney this happens but that's a story for another thread. Just about every younger girl I've been with or gone after has done the same thing. This experience has reminded me why I've always prefered older women, because they haven't and don't jerk me around nearly as much.
 
When it comes to things like events people tend to say they'll be there, then change their mind somewhere along the line. Unless they have to pre-purchase tickets.

Infact, for us, events were like a last minute sort of decision. Sometimes on the night. At 1am in the morning ;).

She's on schoolies so I wouldn't take it to heart that going to an event isn't on her list of priorities right now.

Are you sure your concerns are what she's actually done, rather than your desire to get to this event? [god... I remember those days.. that weren't all that long ago ;)]. Everyone just seemed so damn unreliable in the midst of my uncontrollable urge to be front and centre at every event possible.

Just do what you've got to do. Get your crew organized.. and if she makes it, she makes it. It's not something I'd be having an arguement with her over though... not when she's got a good reason for being disorganized [ie. schoolies].

But yeah, in general you can expect lower maturity levels from younger people. That's a given.
 
Mary Poppins said:
guess it must be love then if i was still in his good books after that ;)
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Or he has bad taste in music,ha,ha,ha,ha................. jokes! ;) .

I also say,go for it! :)

Good luck! :D
 
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