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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

I had a crazy night last saturday which had me biting up a gorgeous girls neck then licking her tongue. Then she bit my neck...I spun back and clamped my teeth back on her.. and we were locked in what probably looked from a birds-eye view as some kind of new-age dance rendition of a yin yang symbol.

Tonight I also recieved an SMS from my sorta-girl who left for the UK 6 or so weeks ago. I had thought she had forgotten about me :D Not so... not so.

But now I am sick and withered from the Flu, returning for a second attack after my defences were dropped from a sleepless weekend.

I am very ill... but kinda happy :)
 
kat: I know. Its a different situation though when

a- you arent drunk
b- they arent drunk
c- you cant tell if they like you.

I am totally dumb at flirting with people out of context. i.e- not in a bar or pub. The thing is though with your - and casually mention to meet somewhere - is that there isnt anything casual about it all ! Its like - Hi I think you are fucking hot and have been fantasing about you for weeks. Lets fuck. Nothing I do can be subtle unless I pretend Im a lesbian. Which is completely counteractive to the cause.

Im so scared of being rejected :(

Keej:- I spat my food out at my keyboard when I read that. Maybe Ill get very drunk and try that one day ?!

Yarnsta: The thing is that I wouldnt want to date anyone who doesnt think that long necks dont have a touch of class. Cus like they totally do right ?!
 
^ breaka. you are hot, funny and intelligent - if he doesn't like you, it's a lost cause.

suggested POA. Skip the flirting/incessant wondering. Walk in (preferable when shop is not busy) walk up say. I think you're really hot/cute[insert complimentary adjective here] - i'd really like to do something with you/get to know you better/hang out/fuck you, this is my number/when are you free/what time do you finish.

[await reaction, which i'm 85% sure will be good - unless he has a g/f]
If reaction is bad, run out of shop and find a new bottlo.
:)

Seriously - i've seen this done with success AND it will be like ripping off a bandaid - AND then you'll know.

i know i would never do it - i don't have enough hotness factor, but you do - so go for it! :D

xo

(and of COURSE longneck's have class :p)
 
or you could pay for something with a note, and on the underside have your name and number on a bit of paper... I that could work, only thing is, that you still dont know if he is interested til he rings. And if he is not interested, for some unbeknown reason, you'll be waiting a while.

I actually asked for a girls number the other day, just straight out, and she replied, I think you better come up with something more creative to get my number....

Now is this a good sign or bad?
 
^ She's high maintenance. I can hear the engagement now, 'You call THAT a ring? I think you need to come up with something better.' ;)

Okay Mel if you don't like everyone's suggestions I heartily recommend, 'So I hear they're opening an injecting room a few doors up. Want to drop by when you finish work and check it out?' ;) Ahhhh gotta love Redfern.
 
The last thing in the world I would ever imagine you to be is shy Miss Mel.

and deeCee bub...not worth your time. Tis a response I have used myself when you're not interested but love the attention ;)
 
It's psychology.

It's people learning the principles to a intricate degree and then 'practicing' so as to improve their skills in that area. Essentially it demystifies the whole concept of love/relationships as it proves that with dedication and experience you can get what you want... instead of just what is available.

But it comes down to a question of motives/desires. Whilst their are plenty of guys out there who would want to use these 'skills' to just fuck as many chicks as possible, there would be others who would use those same skills to cut through the bullshit and actually find a chick they click with.

Whereas this page might suggest dropping a girl who challenges you and witholds sex as you could get it elsewhere... alot of the time it's exactly that challenge that you want in a girl.

I wonder how these guys are when they're pushing 40-50yrs old and have fucked a ridiculous amount of women, but still feel alone. Surely that much experience with manipulating people would make it harder to be genuine with women.

Overall I think the information provided is useful but it all depends on your motives.

A huge percentage of guys are clueless as to how to attract women because it's somethin they never learn... except from the fairytale media. The key is to get that information on how to attract women to the NICE GUYS - the ones who do have good intentions but don't know how to go about it cos no-one has ever told them!!

That way women wouldn't have to say "he's a great guy, I really like him but..." And he could actually push their buttons because he KNOWS whats goin on.

Whilst that page reflects the ideas of power hungry guys who want to fuck alot of women... the actual CONCEPTS covered can be useful for everyone.

Adikkal
 
BREAKaBEAT said:
I really need cock.

damit why did i have to move to melbourne



hmm is it wrong to be playing with soem one who may be close tot eh same as as your mother??

20 yr age gap ist that much is it??

:o ;) :p 8) 8o =D


bloody crazy older american hippy women
 
i love you mel. i believe i've mentioned that before though :D

the single life, apart from the lack of sex (!), really isn't so bad though. i mean, i get to... see movies by myself, go to parties by myself, feel lonely by myself...

wait, what was i saying? :\;)
 
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