^ haha... join the club. I'm so tired of hearing "why hasn't a gorgeous girl like you, got a boyfriend?" WELL MAYBE... you idiot, because NO gorgeous guy seems to care to hook up. I seem to attract plenty of guys... lots n' lots... but never someone I'd deem suitable as boyfriend material. Not that I want a boyfriend... well, I say that all the time.... but maybe that's just coz I haven't met someone? Fuck buddies arrangements, they're good, they're just starting to seem less and less fulfilling. If someone suitable were to ask me out, I have no idea what I’d do? Probably suggest we see how we go ‘casually’ first…
Unlike you starfalls, I don't really like being chased. That's because at least 80% of the guys who have ever chased me are really not people I could see myself hooking up with -- not even for the night. It's ok though, just a simple "nah, you're great but I'm not really interested" normally cuts it. I find it doesn't normally solve the problem for good though - often they bounce back up and try again a few months later. Which always ends the exact same way. If I knock someone back once, it probably won't change.
I'm kind of superficial when it comes to guys. Looks are important to me! I used to say that it was what was inside that counts, which it true - it's just not the be all and end all. I've been with people who are less attractive physically and initially can get by on 'spark' and 'curiosity'. The get to know you part is easy, it's interesting. As time goes on, it begins to fade... that's not to say the person becomes 'less' interesting, you just become accustomed to their ways, and as a result, they're less intriguing. As for good looking guys, if we're having an argument, I'll probably be thinking "aww.. how cute when he gets all fired up". Whereas someone who I'm not physically attracted to, I'll be thinking "OMG.. this relationship sucks, what are we even doing together?"8( That's not to say I'd be with someone just because they're 'hot', they don't need to be, 'attractive' is fine.
I also expect a good personality to match! Both qualities are equally important!
It's ok to think you can do better! Anyone who disagrees is lying to themselves. If not, wow, you must be the biggest slut on the planet.
