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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Yeah turns out she has/had a boyfriend.

"sorry about Wed night but my boyfriend just broke up with me"

...

What you want sympathy? Go eat rocks.

Isn't it strange how little things can change someone's attitude toward you...
A girl who I had flirted with at Uni was at a party I was also at on Australia Day.
We chatted for a bit but I was basically brushed off...

So when I saw her post-show last night it was a different person... "Come to a club with me after", touching my arm and stuff. I had to end the convo and walk away.

Funny how a little thing like being on a stage can suddenly turn things 180 degrees from totally uninterested to presented on a platter.

that being said, thanks for the words 1234, mary poppins, wacky, chik & littleone.

:)

Now, I am off to shave my head and wear an orange robe.
 
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that makes me so MAD schnouzerpuff...

i know that it's probably not a huge deal to you - it's not like you really knew her. But still - the guts it took to do what you did and then follow it up....and then she didn't even have the decency to be honest. :(:X

you seem smart, are obviously good looking....surely your miss right can't be that far off ;):)
 
It's girls like that who give us a bad name! It seems so many of the guys I know are hesitant from experiences like that :(
I quite often feel like I have to defend myself before I've done anything wrong in order to establish anything with them!
 
Mary Poppins said:
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you seem smart, are obviously good looking....surely your miss right can't be that far off ;):)
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Yeah, i am just a PM away!! hahaha!! j/k btw....

But yeah mary poppins is so right, what you did took alot of courage so i stand by what i said earlier when i said to not let this lower your confidence.

As far as being single, why is it that when i want to be single all these nice decent guys come along and try to charm me? Why dont they come along when i want them to..lol. I think it must be the vibe i send out.... maybe because i dont care?
 
I've found when you don't care or try, that is when you exude the most sexual and opposite attracting signs!
 
Macksta said:
Well today in the space of 2 hours I broke a girls heart because I was in love with another girl, and then had my heart broken by that girl. :(

And now because of that I've lost my soulmate.

Now Im off to find and consume every scrap of alcohol I can lay my hands on cos I feel like I am going to die.
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aw... *hugs* hope u feel beta soon... in the mean time, enjoy in the joy and freedom that singledom can bring.. 8)
 
Macksta - my heart goes out to you bro, embrace the shitness of how you are feeling now so you can truly appreciate the good times!

Shnouzer - dude... what can i say? Women are fucked up. You hit her at a time when she was probably a bit mixed up in her feelings (unless her bf breakin up with her was totally out of the blue) and the fact a hot guy asked for her number boosted her self esteem. Congratulations, you made her feel good!........ :\

Anyway, to follow up on what i was posting about before. I'd arranged to meet up with her today, i called to confirm yesterday, she says some shit about not feeling well and she'd call me tomorrow to let me know. I took this as a no and was going to be surprised if she said yes. My suspicions were confirmed this morning.

So, fuck her.

I've made an obvious effort and been shut down, i don't have time for this shit. I'll still speak to her every now and then but she had her chance,

Now it's time for more shallow unfulfilling relationships! WOO!

Adikkal
 
^^ I totally agree that the best thing to do in a lot of situations is just to walk. it keeps your confidence at reasonable levels and let's you escape with dignity.

I have learnt there is nothing worse than always being available and accomodating for someones fluttering whims.


That being said dude, that sure sucks. You seemed pretty hopeful for a while there too.

The Bluelight Singles Thread Team has been striking out a fair bit as of late. But I guess that only means it is a matter of time before a regular gets to post a "see you guys i am off!" entry soon :)
 
i have a story,a story of much bitcheness and hatred towords this certain person
Round 1 Started NYE 2004 4:30pm, i recieve a phone call from my fiance who is on a plane back from new zealand saying how much she carn't wait to see me,me being all excited gets ready to go out, cleaned my room hehe
Then Another Phone Call about 7pm it went alittle something like this
Her: Hey Babe
Me: Hello
Her: Gusse Wot?
Me: what doings]
Her: its not working anymore its over BEEP BEEP BEEP
After This News I Am Devistated The Boys Make Me Get Ready And Take Me Out To The City Because THey Think Abottle Of Jim Beam Solves Everything
12Pm :while everyone is celebrating kissing and saying how much there going to change there lives and blah blah,i'm on the train back from the city alone and throwing up into my baseball cap O.o, Then i get another phone call from my flate mate she tells me happy new year and that things can only get better,i'm like yea whatever ( too busy trying to keep the spew in my hat and not on me) she askes weather i am comming home anytime soon as a matter of fact i was almost at our door step by this time, ;)
i get some cheecky idears of doing my housemate ( that idear had been along time comming)

as i enter the door i see her slouching in the seat crying,i ask her what is wrong,she blabs on about her boy friend ( my best mate) and how he is an asshole to her, me being the good friend i am listens and offers some hugs,
but wait....this hug was not like the other i give out, there was a hand, in my pants O.o....too drunk to care i invite her to my room to "talk" some more, BEST new years EVER untill

...... one cloudy day in Febuary, a drunken housemate lets the cat out of the bag to our other housemate,and makes her tell her boyfriend infront of about 15 people :( thinking i am going to get my head punched in for sleeping with his girl, he come up to me and laughs his ass off and goes add another knotch to your belt buddy,with that all well and good and everyone feeling alot better things kewl off about it and never talked about again

Then Last THursday Just Gone My Ex Fiance Decideds to be alittle bit of a bitch,i talk to her on msn and she tels me she cheated on me with her best friend ( a girl) i'm like whatever i slept with my housemate on new years,thinking i won that batter high in hopes, i get a phone call later that night from my housemate screaming down the phone about how i told everyone and blah blah,what it turned out to be my Ex Printed The Convo Off The Net and made like 50 coppies and pasted it around out local pub full of our friends,needless to say i now carn't go back to my local anymore due to many people wanting to kill me for being "such an asshole"

all i can say is that watch what you say to Ex girlfriend and if you wanna play with fire your going to get scorched
now i'v moved away and single and out of that circle of friends meeting new people

peace out!! Hhc_King!
 
hhc_king said:

Her: Hey Babe
Me: Hello
Her: Gusse Wot?
Me: what doings]
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That is quite the story. Glad to hear things are now looking up for you from that psychotic minefield.

But I have to say the quoted text had me laughing out loud for some reason

"what doings]"

hahah that is simply gold man.

I will now be saying "what doings" at inappropriate times as part of my regular vocabulary.
 
I got a msg this morning frm a guy... i wouldnt say he broke my heart coz I dont think it was there to give to him - but lets just say he hurt my dignity. And self-esteem. A lot.

He ended it with me about a year and a half ago coz he wanted to get back with his ex. His ex left him and he 'tried' to come back. Emphasise the word 'tried' (it didnt work). He then got back with her again. I get a msg and then a call this morning from him, he and the ex have ended for good. He wants to get back. But he's 'really confused, doesn't want to hurt me, let's just see each other for a bit and have a bit of fun, see how it goes..." A BIT OF FUN?!?

He was most of the reason why I became so cynical about guys. It feels like all my old shit has come back to haunt me. What a fuckhead. I want to throw something at his head. I havent felt this low in ages.
 
xcidium said:
I've found when you don't care or try, that is when you exude the most sexual and opposite attracting signs!
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So true! Maybe it's that desperation signal that gets unknowingly exuded if you're really looking for someone...

I always seem to meet awesome guys who cheer me up when I'm out and angry... it usually starts with some crap line like 'Smile!' and I'm like 'fuck off' and then we end up talking and they're actually nice ha ha :p

And dont worry Schnouzer, judging by your posts and pics you were probs 10x too good for this gal anyway :D
 
iamtha1 said:
I got a msg this morning frm a guy... i wouldnt say he broke my heart coz I dont think it was there to give to him - but lets just say he hurt my dignity. And self-esteem. A lot.

He ended it with me about a year and a half ago coz he wanted to get back with his ex. His ex left him and he 'tried' to come back. Emphasise the word 'tried' (it didnt work). He then got back with her again. I get a msg and then a call this morning from him, he and the ex have ended for good. He wants to get back. But he's 'really confused, doesn't want to hurt me, let's just see each other for a bit and have a bit of fun, see how it goes..." A BIT OF FUN?!?

He was most of the reason why I became so cynical about guys. It feels like all my old shit has come back to haunt me. What a fuckhead. I want to throw something at his head. I havent felt this low in ages.
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That's terrible. You don't deserve to be fall back girl, and it's clear that if he's trying to get back with you because he's scared of being alone rather than it being his true hearts desire then it will never work anyway.

Being in a situation like that you must feel like some puppet, it sounds like you're really strong and you totally cut the strings though. So good for you! :)
 
Originally posted by Shnouzerpuff
The Bluelight Singles Thread Team has been striking out a fair bit as of late.


how ironic; i was coming back here to post about how i, for once, wasn't striking out. things were going well for once!

anyway, long story short, that wasn't quite how it happened. after the date, i had a gathering at the lounge for my birthday last night...she came along obviously, and after doing my usual 'omg i don't know what do' shit and running through the potentially horribly results to the situation if i say, put my arm around her, i finally worked up the balls to do so.

anyway that was all good and we doing the general flirting thing for most of the night (that is when i wasn't sitting uncomfortably attempting to think of interesting things to say or fending off comments about all the other pretty girls there...liv, i think she doesn't like you ;)), and eventually i worked up the courage (or, possibly, the drugs) to kiss her. it was nice. i mean, i guess it generally is.

anyway, that was when it all fell apart. 'brad, i have to tell you something,' she said. 'i have a boyfriend'.

strange, i thought. interesting situation, since every single thing had been pointing to the fact that i was he until this moment. seriously, i am horrible at reading the opposite sex, and generally clueless with these things. but the point is that i know how she felt about me (and have had her close friends reiterate same), so it was somewhat of a shock.

so, yes, it looks like i strike out too.

but hey, fuck it. i'm not exactly super-happy-i'm-so-cool-brad or anything, but i'm more confident as a person than i was two years ago, so i'm not going to let this stress me too much. i put myself out there, and she didn't want to. cool, i'll move on.

at the very least it means a) i don't have to commit to having a girlfriend (that was stressing me), and b) i can still enjoy casual sex, on the bi-decade occasions that i get it ;)
 
I agree brad, Life gets' really really fucked up. one minute your madly inlove with a girl that has a b/f and it completly destroys your life. The next your inlove witha girl that doesn't like you at all... life's screwed in more ways than one. I'm with ya brother. I can't remember what I'm with you on, but I agree
 
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