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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

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Thanks Donny thats much better advice.

Hugs to you

K well now im off with the girlies have a good nite every1
 
i have a date tomorrow night.

i don't want a date tomorrow night.

i don't want a date.

i've never had a date.

i've never wanted to have a date.

i don't know what i'm supposed to do on a date.

what am i supposed to do on a date?

i know it's going to end badly. really, really, badly.

and even if it doesn't, then i have a girlfriend. i don't want a girlfriend.

I DON'T LIKE COMMITMENT.

it's not fair. i want to stamp my feet and cry and stuff.
 
you'll keep, I'm sure.
it might very well be the best thing you've done since drinking yourself stupid and succeeding where by all logic, you shouldnt have!


(I am always here if you need your leg humped you know)
 
no way....i think he needs someone nice and relaxed and a fun relationship, to make him realise that dating people isn't all bad...despite what threads like this would have him believe :p

but far be it from me to decide what's best for someone else ;)
 
onetwothreefour said:
i have a date tomorrow night.

i don't want a date tomorrow night.

i don't want a date.

i've never had a date.

i've never wanted to have a date.

i don't know what i'm supposed to do on a date.

what am i supposed to do on a date?

Any first date i've been on have always ended badly. I don't know how to act, and just end up being shy and nervous and screw the entire thing up. It's like i'm witnessing a train wreck in slow motion and i can see what's happening but don't know how to stop it.

So in short, i have no advice whatsoever to offer you ;)
 
i had a date today
it went really well
i like her lots =D
but, my timing couldn't be any worse, i'm going overseas for like 5 months.
oh well.
i forgot how good it is kissing a girl :)
 
1234 - Chill the fuck out. Seriously. You're making it out to be some huge thing when it's really not. All a date is, is two people meeting up and doing something together. Any other impressions of it are made up in your mind.

I find first dates easy. Keep it simple, light, casual and fun! Meet up for lunch in a kinda busy area, where there are things going on that can take the attention and provide stimulus if you get lost for words. Meet up with her, walk thru the mall for a while, laugh at some people, check out a few shops or whatever - just break the ice. Then go get you food. At this point you will be opposite her and you should have warmed up to each other pretty well.

Over lunch you can work your magic, just be smooth, calm and have fun. Keep the conversation light and fun. This means NO Religion, Politics, Conspiracy theories, tales of past depression and relationships - don't talk about anything negative. It's just not worth bringing up on a first date.

And dude, have a plan. Whether or not you follow my suggestion, make sure you know what your doing. Have a vague idea of how the day/night is going to go so YOU LEAD HER. DO NOT be like "umm, so what do you wanna do?" - this is bad bad bad.

Now quit stressing and be chill, it'll go great if you are confident. By thinking negative all you will do is push yourself towards your negative expectations. If the date goes badly you will feel as though you're always right about things fucking up - it's a self fulfilling prophesy.

Fuck that.

Think Positive. Good Luck man!

Adikkal
 
^^^ ain't that i appreciate the advice or anything, but man, you're a chilled motherfucker already.

you're an attractive young man, and you manage to get up on stage (in front of people omg!!) on a regular basis, and not just talk, but rhyme.

trust me, people with issues like me don't take such things lightly. thus, date = high stress. i mean, i'm going. it will happen. in some ways my post is just an indication of my feelings for the vague amusement of the people here - i expect that i'll fuck shit up and things will end bad, but i'm not gonna try to make that happen.

"think positive" isn't in my vocabulary. if i did think positive, i'd be confused. it feels unnatural for me. i can survive without doing so. i might often avoid positive things happening, but not always. something good might come of this, despite all my horrible thoughts.

it's a movie - outdoors - so the plan is something even i can deal with. it's gonna be the 'moments' (ya know, the 'do i kiss her now?', the 'am i going to my place?', etc etc times) that fuck me. pressure and i don't get along well.

and no no no. both me and her ARE politics. i mean i talk about mindless stuff constantly. but i can't help but talk politics. it's important to me, it's important to her. and what you need to understand is that with two such highly strung people as us, there's going to be tension anyway.

*sigh*

it might be just fine - i mean we're not gonna argue - it's just that we're both rather highly strung anyway, so i'm sure it will be walking the tight rope any time, anywhere. that doesn't need to be a bad thing. i guess it's like i'm about to go bungee jumping. just gonna trust that it's good.

trust.

trust.

omg i'm gonna run away ;)
 
p.s.

everyone: 'ppreciate it. lahlah, that seems spot on, but sex is dull. (well, life is dull, actually ;)). but nah, i *want* a fuckbuddy, but i had that chance not long ago, and she was hot, but i turned it down. i'm lazy and i just don't care about sex that much. despite this, i still try to pick up all the time. only to be angry after i actually do. stupid ego.

adge: thanks. i just had a quick read back of my post and it sounds like i'm ANGRY. i'm not :)

totally good advice as usual man, just that we're coming at it from polar opposites. you're mister cool north pole. i'm like south pole with some global fucking warming and a half. somethin' like that anyway ;)

me + pressure = big explosions. i got it though. just gonna *breathe*.

:D
 
You rawk 1234. I've never had a date either and don't want one etc. etc. etc. How did you get roped into this? I don't keep in touch with this thread
 
^^^ i used to 'like' her, then i got awfully drunk and kissed her and she was angry (had a b/f). now she 'likes' me and i don't 'like' her anymore 'cause i hate the r/s idea, but apparently i shouldn't...and thus, stupid damn date.

:(
 
^^^ Your soo damm confusing sometimes... *breathes* well hopefully one day you'll know what you want... untill then I'll stage tuned for the next episode.. :P hehehe ;)
 
fuck this games bullshit. if you like somebody tell them. if they are repulsed they're probably a sass and bide fan or you're ugly. fuck it.

ps. silvia is drunk
 
onetwothreefour said:
i have a date tomorrow night.

i don't want a date tomorrow night.

i don't want a date.

i've never had a date.

i've never wanted to have a date.

i don't know what i'm supposed to do on a date.

what am i supposed to do on a date?


wow.. i finally get to say to a moderator use the search function!!!...

hehee... good advice on dates right HERE!!!!


good luck dude :)
 
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