Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

[leecie]

^^ I bought myself a present today just to spoil myself cos no one else will and I'm gonna get myself wasted with a friend on Monday night. I rock.

PS. Moe...you're weird. I like you.

 

[kazza_baby]

yes, i shall be getting wasted too
weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

what did you buy yourself? i hope it was expensive!

 

[doofqueen]

I went on a date last thursday with a new boy *J*. He's extremely sweet, loves kids, its all for commitment, seems to be the type that would respect me , my life AND my space so what is the problem?

I'm actually trying to find faults in him. What the hell is wrong with me?????????

I think i have become one of those chicks from sex in the city that has become jaded about a good relationship that even when i meet a boy who seems to be decent and respectful of me i am trying to find things that are wrong with him!

and i have.... (after one date and two phone calls)

He's talking already about the fact that he wants to get married one day and have kids. (he used to work in childcare even and has done some primary school education)

I argued the point that *I* myself am against marrige and think it's just one of the steps society makes you feel you have to take to be part o it. That you don't need to be legally or religiously bound to someone to show your love and commitment to them and its a TRAP! (probaly due to my parents having an extremely emotionally abusive marrige)

I said that i do not want any more kids EVER because my son is nearly 10 already and i had him really young. That i have a degree to finish, a work force to enter and the world to travel and he's 8 years off being an adult.

He said "you'll change your mind later"

This boy is already talking to me that he sees me as a potential wife and mother of his children and it's freaking me out!

I also think that he's just too sweet. "there must be something wrong with him" I'm saying to myself.

oh there is another thing.... he tells me he's not really into sex. It's not a priority to him because he's had minimum experience and they have all been bad. He would rather snuggle on the couch, hold hands and all that shit (shit that i really want actually)

BUT...

I want a boy who really wants to have alot of sex too (just not be the ONLY thing he's with me for)

What the hell is going on with me (and him?) thoughts?

I think he must be gay and just wants kids or something... i dunno... it's just all a little too weird

 

[LahLahGatecrasher]

I kinda wish that one of my bootiful friends would just send me a msge saying they love me on v'day so then I know that I'll never be forgotten when they are old and grey and have partners and I'll still be friggen single... hahaha *sooo tired*

 

[Donny Don't]

I can't believe she said this, but tonight mum was rattling on about valentines day and going off on her usual tangents and then she says "we'll all have to pray for you, that you find the right girl soon" or something of that nature and i wasn't listening to her up until that point and suddenly i was like "WTF did you just say??"

She then starts telling me how she had all these different boyfriends before she met my dad, and i'm just thinking "i don't want to be hearing this" 8(

 

[kazza_baby]

aww, if i was religous i would pray for you too!

 

[Riot Grrrl]

LOL...^^ sorry to laugh but hearing shit like that sux

Yeah i get alot of the oldies at the nursing home tell me they're praying i get married soon. Fuck that!

Though I think i'm over being single. But this year, is gunna be farkin hectic as! I thought 3rd year uni was full on. Starting a full-time 7 day rotating shift, AND rotating to diff wards every 3 months is gunna be shite.

 

[rm1x]

I like being single :D

 

[leecie]

kazza - I bought myself one of those hot T-Box sexy doll valentines day sets in turquoise...little singlet and undies. tres cute! not so expensive cos of staff discount but well worth it

 

[LahLahGatecrasher]

so do I!!

 

[codez_raver]

I hate being single. There's someone I want, but the distance between him and I is kinda fucked

 

[codez_raver]

or you could bring things to a head and find out one way or another - guaranteed no matter what the result to be more painless in the long run - but taking oh so much courage/stimulants/depressants to do....

I'm with you all the way babe

 

[Adikkal]

Well i'm perpetually single by choice. Had a few interests recently who i'ved 'nexted' because i wasn't getting the sort of response i wanted. It's one of those, "if they were interested enough they'd call me" type of situations. But what i've noticed is i don't have a problem generating initial attraction. When i first meet a girl i usually play it all in the right way, get the number, then the first date - the interest is still there on both parts but somewhere from that point on things get complicated.

It's all a learning experience i guess.

.apathy.

Adikkal

 

[roll with it]

tru that ^^^^

 

[droping_hardcore82]

i know what u mean lah lah... umm will b the first time i'm single on valentines day in a couple of years... am really interested in a guy but i dont think nething is going to happen there... i've been single three months am really liking it but would also like a relationship to... if neone gets me...

 

[keystroke]

I'm single but I still want someone to come home to on monday and root.

*shrugs*

 

[Pop Popavich]

^^^ But that has nothing to do with Valentines day, thats just a normal Monday

When i first meet a girl i usually play it all in the right way, get the number, then the first date - the interest is still there on both parts but somewhere from that point on things get complicated.

Thats one of the parts where I have trouble. I'm REALLY bad at telling if someone is interested in me, and as a result, I'm probably not that good at reciprocating the interest and letting the girl know that I'm keen.

Especially with all the people out there playing games how the hell are you supposed to know if you're in with someone? Not that it really matters to me at the moment, since I really don't want to be sending people signals to say I'm interested, because I'm not.... but I sure someday I will want to again.

 

[Wacky]

Especially with all the people out there playing games how the hell are you supposed to know if you're in with someone?

I have no fucking idea .

Personally I really hate people that play games and don't play games myself.Hence why I hate most people in the dating scene to those people.

Anywy,I'm very drunk at the moment,um I mean I'm very single.

 

[ian_strong]

hey smart_e how was your date last night hope it went ok, let me know ok? im waiting to hear

 

[kazza_baby]

kazza - I bought myself one of those hot T-Box sexy doll valentines day sets in turquoise...little singlet and undies. tres cute! not so expensive cos of staff discount but well worth it

ooo i love those sets, they're gorgeous!