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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

^^ what she said.

and no, i have nothing more constructive to say at this point as im over being in this thread already.
 
i recently decided that i don't do relationships (or love for that matter, it just complicates the relationships thing).i suck at them and i either screw them up or they screw me up, so it's safer to stay away.
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This is exactly how I feel
 
Being single is so under-rated.

Only having been single about 2 months now since my last relationship, I love it. Finally when I am lying at home going ... “what to do? What to do?”... I can just get up and go anywhere I choose without someone else saying ... "I’m too tired" or “can’t we just watch a DVD?"

The fact that I can now go out with friends, talk to girls and drink/do as much or as little as I want without the "other one" getting jealous or angry is priceless.

Most people say that the worst part of being single is losing the "intimate" times. But to those people I say, Go out and talk to people that you don’t know. I have about a 2% success rate of meeting someone great, 10% chance of meeting someone I will at least talk to again, and a 88% chance of having a really funny rejection story. (and trust me I have some awesome ones) just don’t take the rejection personally, you won’t match with most people so don’t worry if they aren’t interested.

Just stay single, enjoy your life and just be glad that you don’t have another person in your ear dictating what you can and can’t do. And hey, if you get bored, give me a call and we will go, get dressed up and find some company for the night orrr (more likely) come home pissing ourselves laughing about the girl who told us she wasn’t interested before we could even open our mouths to say hello …. She was a bitch anyway lol.
 
could the unthinkable be happening?? yes, i may be departing this thread. though i always tend to jinx myself with things like this, so it probably won't happen. but she makes me smile, so it's a start.

if it does, expect hell to freeze over and the moon to start bleeding any time now ;)
 
there're lots of people i really like being with once we're in the same room and all.. but to actually motivate myself to organise stuff.. no. sounds like too much work to me.
 
could the unthinkable be happening?? yes, i may be departing this thread
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High fives onetwothree four and quickly hugs the biggest tree she can find (touch wood...get it????)

Still single and loving it :)

I think yesterday, when I went shopping and bought these awesomely cute new summer pyjamas, and thought, perhaps if I was in a relationship I wouldn't get as excited about this...really summed it up for me.

I never want to not be excited about pyjamas. Or summer rolls!

Or anything!

Find me a man that can keep me excited and I'll be the stepford wife you dream of...:) ;)

Until then - I'm doing ok...I still have reason to change my sheets sometimes...(sometimes....) :p
 
onetwothreefour said:
could the unthinkable be happening?? yes, i may be departing this thread. though i always tend to jinx myself with things like this, so it probably won't happen. but she makes me smile, so it's a start.

if it does, expect hell to freeze over and the moon to start bleeding any time now ;)
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Hurrah!!

Good luck :) :)

I'm still here - not fussed though - summer fun times are coming!
 
being single is so good, but not so good in different ways,


me being drunk at the moment I'm more often going to give an honest (what I think) answer....


It's good to have someone to be able to root on call (that sounds so rude, but it's so true... sex on tap = relationship)

it's good to have someone to look after you when you're sick....


it's good to have someone able to come around and cook you food in times you have none (new girlfriends dont know how to cook for you)

that all probably sounds rude, but I don't care, the results are being that an old long term relationship will always be better than a new one (for obvious reasons) but being single will ALWAYS be better than being tied down..... ALWAYS!



yes I'm jaded and yes you all probably think i'm a rude prick....
 
I like being single but I miss having someone around...

Its hard to happy and without but sad to be without and happy. Compromise I guess...

shals :(
 
Originally posted by Trentis
Being single is so under-rated.

Only having been single about 2 months now since my last relationship, I love it. Finally when I am lying at home going ... “what to do? What to do?”... I can just get up and go anywhere I choose without someone else saying ... "I’m too tired" or “can’t we just watch a DVD?"

The fact that I can now go out with friends, talk to girls and drink/do as much or as little as I want without the "other one" getting jealous or angry is priceless.

Your ex was a <insert expletive here> though. There are plenty of awesome chicks out there who would go out as much as you want to.

Oh and PS - don't kiss my friends.

1234: Good luck! Hope it all goes well and you fall in happy crazy story-book love. You deserve it my good man!
 
I want someone to make me a cup of tea i don't really even want tea. I just want someone here to care enough about me to ask me if i want a cup of tea. Thats all.
 
awww. its the simple things that make a difference even if its a cup of tea.. where is in thepast 4 days Ive gone from something simlar to well fun with friends.. rel/ships can wait now..
 
I'm just feeling loney these days and don't know why. I've always been "independant" and on my own (even in a relationship) But at teh same time i don't want anyone because they just complicate everything (mt head and heart have been through enough already and i don't think it can take anymore). I'm even off sex. i don't want it. At all. And for me ... well lets just say it's not normal so i'm thinking there is something seriously wrong with me :( I don't even feel like going to doofs or parties or anything. what is wrong with me? Why am i feeling this way? I just want someone to want to make me a cup of tea damn it :(
 
ther's nothing wrong with you DOOFQUEEN ... you've just temporarily forgotten how beautiful you are !!!!

i see pics of your gorgeous little boy and think ... wow, I wish i had a little boy like that, you can just tell he will grow up with such and open mind and free-heart because of the love YOU'RE giving him....

keep it up sister, this rollercoaster ride we call life sure can have its ups and downs ...

but hey, we get to go on a rollercoaster ride, how rock'in is that !!!!
 
haha brutal as all hell ...

Did a parade with some chicks I work with frequently today for Melb Cup and took a particular liking to one of them. We chilled out and chatted most of the day, flirting a bit and generally just having a laugh.

No she has had a longterm boyfriend but I decided anyway to send an email after simply saying:

"Was great working with you today. Though you seem completely in love if that should ever change, I will take you out for dinner and drinks so fast it will make your head spin :)"

I am not at all into breaking up relationships but I would like to get my "foot in the door" and have her know in case anything changes in the future at some stage.

Get this brutal reply back...

"Dont ever msg my girlfriend again you fuckhead"

Cold. Obviously that went badly and wasnt read by the person it was intended to go to...

I replied:

"Chill out man, she is a cool chick and completely adores you. Sorry for stepping on toes. Peace."


Now I no doubt am going to get a positively flaming red hot message back, but still I don't think what I did was really too far wrong. I wasn't asking her to break up with him or anything - just letting her know there is interest if her situation changes sometime in the future.

So was I totally out of line or did I just cop an over-reaction from a very defensive and wary guy?
 
^^ you knew the situation, i guess you can do the math

still, points for trying
 
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