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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

ok... im getting somewhere with the girl i wanna be with...
i got some inside infor : she's afraid of falling in love again, now how the fuck am i meant to work with that :\ any ideas?

-dee
 
Question.

Has bitching ("talking") in this thread actually helped anyone in any way shape or form? Maybe it'll assist in overcoming short term feelings, but the long term stuff will still be there, believe you me.

Been about two years now.
 
well I have to say the advice from up_all_ngiht, bopgirl and endlesseulogy has been nice.

It more or less cemented in my mind what i was thinking, but its nice to be able to talk about situations, if only talk. And when people make a comment here or there it makes you feel like its actually important - which helps.
 
But why do it with randoms on a bulletin board? I mean, shit, surely close friends have gotta be able to do a better job. They're gonna know you and your personality a lot better than someone who knows you purely through text.

Although personally, I don't talk to it about any of my friends 'cause they've all got partners and can't really relate or offer any really good advice anyway. "It'll happen eventually." Yeah, thanks for reinforcing that.
 
but they're your close friends, and sometimes what you want is a completely unbiased opinion that you can only hear from a random that doesn't know you in the least.

I figure for myself there has never really been anything anyone can do to overcome what problems or I have - the issues I have socializing with random people, or people I don't know all that well and am attracted to are there for me to solve.

mebbe that idea though isn't all that helpful - I'm still sitting here in the thread :\

- moe
 
What's to say that these random strangers aren't as messed up as you in the head though, and thus talking to them just keeps this group of people in the same mindset?

Sorry, I feel like being devil's advocate tonight.
 
^ Might be because some of those random strangers know papermate in real life :)
 
agreed, and I love you for that comment Keej ;). But whether i knew you guys in ''real life'' or not i would still value your opinions.

I dont think it matters where a voice is coming from. If the voice has reason and substance behind it I think that it should be listened to at the least.
 
^ I think Dante has a point but sometimes I think you need an unbiased, neutral third party. But yes Dante, some of us do actually know papermate [although I guess that really doesn't make us any less of a random stranger ;)]

Oh and sometimes it's not so much the advice you're looking for as much as it is a desire to get things off your chest.
 
You know in those stupid old kid movies where the hero has a Ghost helper friend and he has to destroy the witch or complete some quest so that the Ghost Helper Friend can gain freedom?

And when they inevitably do such the thing the Ghost friend has a couple of moments

"Thank you Richard and Jane for killing the evil countess. I am free now! Free!"

And they use that crappy video technique of layering 2 film parts over each other but fading the one which has the actor playing the GhostFriend so it looks like they disappear into thin air?

Well I am partway through that fade.

I am very close to being free of this thread.
 
^ Ummmm me too. I think. I'm not exactly sure what you're saying. Is it like the Scooby Doo ending on Wayne's World?

This guy is fun and funny and fucked up and a fucking asshole. Perfect! We have this weird synchronicity. eg Today I was at work and said, 'I don't think I've ever been this hungry!' 20 seconds later he sent me a message saying, 'You hungry?' Granted it was in relation to dinner that night but it was still weird. And then at dinner he was putting on music and I turned around to say 'I feel like listening to Garbage' when my favourite Garbage album started playing and he turned to me and said, 'Shirley Manson is a minx.'

Okay so maybe I'm turning small coincidences into something much more important [as I am apt to do] but he makes me smile... and that's what's important, right?
 
Fuck it! I like being single, I just like sleeping next to someone at night and spooning!

Is there like a "spoon me only" type relationship open to singles living without justification? if so, please, all applicable applicaticants, PM ME!

*Laughs*

shals!

Especially since it's winter, it's fucking cold...Mrs Pillow doesnt suffice!
 
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