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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

shal, joller and oz ...thanks guys, you made my day =D

yep can't expect something to happen when it's not meant to be and i guess one will always look even though there not looking :\

shag the country hey? I have enough playmates already ;) lol

you will never see me at an R n B club 8o Stop saying that!! hahaha sjit stirrer :p
 
I've been thinking and reflecting on the single thing lately. What is it that someone wants from a relationship? What is it that someone looks for in another individual?

Me - As crazy as this might sound, I often find the things that attract me to someone are all the little imperfections. The little things that make you smile, or quirk. Imperfection is the most beautiful thing, because when you see someones imperfections, you notice there individuality. It's really quiet amazing.

When you focus on looking for the perfect person, you never find exactly what you desire, or such is with my past experiences, because perfection doesn't exist. Maybe when we change our perception of an individual, and we look at them from different angles, do we see a more wider scope of who they are. Maybe we see so many things we'd never see before, and if your lucky, in the process, you might learn something new along with it.

Thats just me, but I think imperfection is beautiful. The perfection of a personal is all there little imperfections that make them the beautiful individual they are.

shals :D
 
^^ absolutely! Our imperfections are what makes us beautiful :)

I've always just wanted someone who loved me BECAUSE of all the stupid things i say and do and the quirks that make me who *i* am.
 
Originally posted by doofqueen
^^ absolutely! Our imperfections are what makes us beautiful :)

Nah. Our imprefections make us unbearable. Finding a partner is just a matter of finding the person who gets least pissed off with our failings. ;)

Trying to decide whether I can continue dating someone whose preferred Turtle is Donatello. Donatello was such a nerd Turtle.
 
Gotta disagree. Like i said i want someone that loves me for all the stupid and quirky things that make me who i am and not just put up with them :)

*sorta hopeful* :p
 
up all night said:
Originally posted by doofqueen
^^ absolutely! Our imperfections are what makes us beautiful :)

Trying to decide whether I can continue dating someone whose preferred Turtle is Donatello. Donatello was such a nerd Turtle.
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BLASPHEMY
 
yeah, true

just making sure everyone knows where I stand in regards to insulting of tmnt

and in case youre interested, i preferred the one with blue cuff and head band thingies
i cant remember his name

blame it all on drugs, yes I do

- moe
 
doofqueen said:
Gotta disagree. Like i said i want someone that loves me for all the stupid and quirky things that make me who i am and not just put up with them :)

*sorta hopeful* :p
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I agree with the doofster and shals....I'm finding the more comfortable I get in my own skin and the longer I'm single, the more I'm attracted to people's IMperfections. And not in a self-destructive doomed-to-failure way, but legitimately attracted. Quirky is good. Maybe imperfections is the wrong word actually, cause it implies a negative quality. I'm attracted to things like a gap in one guy's front teeth, or that another guy has a really bad hairstyle and he loves it...or a guy who dresses like an extra from The Breakfast Club. Who the fuck wants a porn star anyway for anything outside the bedroom? I'd rather have someone I can have a conversation with about comic book creators of the 1970's, or something equally as dorky/silly. :)
 
MoeBro said:

and in case youre interested, i preferred the one with blue cuff and head band thingies
i cant remember his name
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Leonardo.

Drugs aren't a good excuse for not remembering. Memories of things you love should transcend those limits!
 
Raz said:
C'mon kids, let's talk about the trials and tribulations of being single and whatnot.....start a TMNT thread for god's sake.... :p ;)
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Well it's not much of a trial or a tribulation at this end... ;)

More seriously and on topic, I've never felt the great urge for a relationship. I've always been quite emotionally self-sufficient and you can achieve a level of deep intimacy with friends. I guess I'm not ready to settle down yet and the merry-go-round is always fun for a ride ;)
 
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*Hugs Breaka*

It's such an unjust feeling to love someone you know you can't be with. I know the feeling all to well.

shals :D
 
up all night said:
Trying to decide whether I can continue dating someone whose preferred Turtle is Donatello. Donatello was such a nerd Turtle. [/B]
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oh fuck that is funny.

Last night I was at my mates GF's house... my mate was there, his GF and her sister with whom I am semi-successfully getting a limping relationship possibly off the ground.

I do not know why but we were all fairly drunk at 5am this very morning and TMNT came up. The girl I had eyes for claimed Donatello was her favourite as well.


So random.

That being said this chick is fairly cool though I cannot read her whatsoever. It is tough as nails to begin a fledgeling possible romance relationship in front of an already established couple, the guy being my best friend and the girl being the sister.

I feel like a puppet on strings as every action is judged... Do I make a move? if it gets blown off I have the studio audience taking it all in...Anything I say to the girl is also heard and examined by 2 non-neutral parties.

I hope she digs me... she seems to dig me... I could have misread the entire situation and she was merely tolerating me... or she could be totally into me. Dammit. Fuck.


fuckit I am going to give it my best and see if anything works from it...

shnou.
 
(note: i should look at whose name im posting under more often...sorry ant) <3

It's such an unjust feeling to love someone you know you can't be with.
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*nods* and thats what makes dealing with it even harder...people always want what they cant have...and boy does it suck big time

i always get myself into these sorts of prediciments i get to a stage where i have to back away because theres only so much you can love someone without over stepping the boundary.

it sucks...

i look at it this way...a lot of the people i fall for that i cant "be with" have turned out to be my best of friends. so thats a plus side to it...(i think)
 
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