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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

yay for katmeow!!!


finally someone who is happy to admit they are single and loving it...


so kat, lets get married and screw both our lives up.... ;) :)
 
muzby said:
i know i'm quite probably the LAST person who should be jumping on the semi-politically/ethically correct bandwagon, but honestly, does being a paraplegic have anything to do with WHO he is?

i'm not having a go at ya breakabeat, so dont get ya back up.. :) just i spose commenting on the physical situation in general.. yes, physical atttaction is something important... but love has nothing to do with how someone looks....

its about who they are.
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I added the part abolut him being paraplegic because it was illustrate how it makes things even more impossible logistically to see each other. It in no way affects how I feel about him and when he told me it wasnt even a deal to me at all. I think the fact that I have growing feelings for this person proves that.

:)
 
Re: Social death scenario

breakabeat - the paraplegic bit may not make it harder to see you at all...

in fact, by law, he gets special privilleges...


as up all nite demonstrates...

up all night said:

Him: Should I feel special?
Me: Do you mean special special or special as in you get a parking spot close to the door.
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hehe.. sorry to re-hash that UAN, but i really love that quote.....


=D =D =D
 
Originally posted by biggerbear
i am just unsure whether some of the angst in this thread is because people _aren't_ trying?

or perhaps even, as has been hinted to before by other people, some don't _want to_ try as it's fun trying to solicit pity etc whilst in the singledom state?

maybe my ideals are different. but i certainly don't find a lack of partners to have fun with, and a certain number will want to move it to another level. but alas, i can't as i am happily not in singledom.

(before i get jumped on, i make my intentions very clear before anything happens)


this kinda got lost, so i thought i'd bring it back up, 'cause it's an interesting point.

to a certain degree, this must be true of some people. personally, it ain't me. i'm generally (or should i say 'have been') pretty happy being single, and thus don't often try to evoke sympathy for my position. it's just lately though that i've become a little frustrated. but i haven't *just* been complaining (and even when i do i don't get *that* much pity :)), i've actually been making concerted efforts to rectify the situation.

unfortunately though, they haven't been working. i just seem to lack the social aptitude (or perhaps just the charisma...?) to significantly attract someone -of my, albeit fussy, choosing- to me. in short: i am teh sux0r :)

in the meanwhile, congrats to up all night, taliana et al :D
 
there either taken or gay

now how the hell ya ment to meet the right one or even just a great person if there always taken??

story of me weekend
spent friday night saturday morning and sunday night hanging out with this girl
things kept getting realy close and snuggly but we cant take it any further because she has a boy over in wa and im not the sort of person to come between love
but its bloody frustrating at times

ok who wants to become a buddhis monk/nun with me??
 
hmm yeah think its one of the pre recs

but there is a book full of poems and storys by the 11ths dali lama about his sexual exploits and drunken shinanigans so i guess the od night of crazyness would be alowed
 
I've had it. Not looking anymore and not getting my hopes up every time i meet someone that looks like they have potential in having something 'real' with me. Single and carefree and that's the way i'm going to be from now on. If the right one cmes along hopefully it will just smack me in the face and say "hey i'm it" and the connection will be that strong .....bah who am i kidding? :p

Fuck it! Single and happy and having fun! Can't ask for much more than that really :)
 
Ah doofer! *Hugs*

I think that most often I've found the most amazing people come into my life when I least expect them too. It's as though when its meant to happen, it happens. But when it does happen, it works so well.

Still.. Scope the scene and see what works, though don't be disheartended if its not meant to be. Somethings just arnt meant to be! thats life! meh!

Stay cool Groover! - Your a good person.

shals :D
 
Yah DQ, I think you've come up with an excellent way to trick the universe into giving you what you want. Reverse psychology works well on the cosmos, I find :)

In the meantime, go shag the county. I have a feeling you won't find it too hard to find some takers ;)

(It worked for me. The last time something started life as an explicitly casual, "Neither of us wants a relationship, let's just get naked semi-regularly 'cause it's fun" plan... we had our engagement party a few months ago.)

Keep yer chin up in the meantime... you'll miss single-and-having-fun when it's gone.
 
^^ What they said doofers, You're far too spesh and an amazing person for this to remain the case!!

Maybe if you started going to R&B events instead of doofs things might start going better?? ;)=D

mass hugs.
 
up all night said:
^ haha ;) I asked him if I was allowed to tell him what I really thought of his cooking and he told me that I have to eat everything and pretend it was the most delectable thing I'd ever consumed. But he is a cook so I think I'm pretty safe.
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Note: It's not a good thing to say: "Yeah it's totally delicious. ummm...do you have any tomato sauce?"


It's funny how things have change re: boys cooking - a few weeks ago i was at a friends for dinner (he was putting on a nice dinner to say a whopping great big thankyou for hooking him up with his current girlie) and we realised that after the meal all the girls were in the lounge room drrinking and talkign and all the guys were in the kitchen getting dessert etc.. 10 years earlier this would be a rarity..
 
lmao
i kick people out of the kitchens all the time
had dates where ive taken over the cooking

i cant help it
i love ot cook for people
make great food
ive cooked/feed my way to a couple of great relationships

found the old sayig lay him right the first time and you can walk all over him can be in a way be turned around with cooking

cook for her well and she'll be asking you back for more
 
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