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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Muzby i'd hate to kick you when your down but yeah that was a shitty thing to do especially your whole "well she was hot so i'd rather fuck her" thing when you could have had something really nice with the cute personality girl and yes by doing this you probably have given her a complex and now she probably thinks there is something wrong with her. Actually thats really fucked!
 
Might I suggest then Muzby that you hold off on relationships for a while, at least until you develop more respect for yourself and women generally.

Oh and news flash: Girl No 1 is NOT ok with it.

You will most likely find that out.
 
*sunflower* said:
Might I suggest then Muzby that you hold off on relationships for a while, at least until you develop more respect for yourself and women generally.

Oh and news flash: Girl No 1 is NOT ok with it.

You will most likely find that out.

thank you dr phil.

if you read through my initial post, you will see that yes, i do understand that i have issues when it comes to relationships, and i have completely understood where i have gone wrong. if i didnt have respect for women, why then would i be feeling remorse, and i felt i needed to express my feelings through a post.

if you want to flame me, feel free to take it to PM :)
 
sounds like youre all making a mountain out of a mole hill to me...

so you may have made girl 1 think youre a shallow asshole, a shame but hardly the end of the world. it doesnt sound like youve gotten too close yet so she's hardly gonna be crushed and heartbroken, at least not for long. and girl 2, well youre right, fucking people from work is a bad thing to do and youre a stupid boy.. still this whole situation is hardly iredemeable (sp?)

as for sleeping wiht people you shouldnt sleep with.. i have that prob too... but when i see sex as something so unimportant but fun, its hard not to.. even tho i know other people see it as something much more meaningful. meh life sorts itself out. people turn out as they do and its too hard to plot the permutations of your actions. crush a bug, drive a race to extinction, dont crush a bug, suffer a plague. ill do what i do and let others worry about how it affects them. how selfish.

[/drunk ant]
 
I'm single - someone make me unsingle! :D

You don't even need to justify making me unsingle.

Day after Day after Day....

shals :D
 
hmm... just making an observation here...

nearly daily, i see people hook up. boys with girls. girls with boys. boys with boys etc etc.

some work. some don't work.

i am just unsure whether some of the angst in this thread is because people _aren't_ trying?

or perhaps even, as has been hinted to before by other people, some don't _want to_ try as it's fun trying to solicit pity etc whilst in the singledom state?

maybe my ideals are different. but i certainly don't find a lack of partners to have fun with, and a certain number will want to move it to another level. but alas, i can't as i am happily not in singledom.

(before i get jumped on, i make my intentions very clear before anything happens)
 
=D,
had a date last night. 8 months of singleness may be drawing to a close, hopefully.

It all went really well, we had coffee and played connect four (a most underrated game) and saw a short film festival.

Thanks to alcohol, 2 weekends ago I gave her my number at a friends party after we had a really good conversation. I told her to ring me because it would be nice to do something together. I now wonder why this has always been so hard for me and why I've never done it before.

I say if there's hope for me, well anything can hapen.
 
I think my single life just came to a much anticipated conclusion. My friends are going to kill me [maybe] but I've never laughed as much as I have in the last 5 hours. Is it bad to really like someone just because they like the cure and the freestylers [first album only]?

DJC: I'm sorry I ran off tonight. I hope lots of beer was consumed. I've said all I really can say but... [she's a moron. Seriously.] Leave the mumma dramas for boys who will put up with that shit. You'll find someone 10x better in the not to distant future I'm sure. <3
 
^^^ Bwahaha, YES to your first statement, and Maybe to your second.

But thanx anyway bella~
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What took me weeks to get over, now takes me 24 hours. I pity the girl that has to try and break down my walls. But if she can....well.... =D

DJC*
 
Ohhh I like him for more reasons than that. Those are just the main ones. ;) In all honesty, I dont' think I've ever been this attracted to someone right from the start. I did all these little tester questions because he was disturbing me with how alike we were... and he passed all of them. It's crazy. I always said I'd hate a male version of myself but he seems to be me without the bad side. [PS I hope someone grabbed my eskimo jacket cos I left it on the couches at the pub. :(]

And DJC I think that's the problem as everyone gets older we just seem to accumulate more and more scars and hang-ups and we become much more wary.

Muxby: You're such a slut. =D <3
 
up all night said:

And DJC I think that's the problem as everyone gets older we just seem to accumulate more and more scars and hang-ups and we become much more wary.

I'd totally agree with that....

shals :D
 
omg i had about a dozen guys try and pick me up last night. Have never had that many try! I must be getting hot or something ;) hahaha jk
 
Social death scenario

So what was supposed to be a quiet girls night turned into me writing on BREAKaBEATs ass and puking over her balconey... and somewhere in there I called the boy I was talking about in my last post. Mobiles + alcohol should not mix. This is a fairly close account of the conversation:

Me: heeeeeeey
Him: Hey whats up?
Me: I just wanted to tell you you're the coolest person I've ever met.
Him: Do you often call people at 4am to tell them that.
Me: Depends on how much I've had to drink.
Him: Should I feel special?
Me: Do you mean special special or special as in you get a parking spot close to the door.
Him: Can't I be both?
Me: I think you need a permission note for that.
Him: Is there a point to this conversation?
Me: Probably not.
Him: Go get some sleep.

Should I,
a) pretend I never called
b) blame alcohol
c) say it was someone else
d) pretend I don't remember and hope he was too stoned to remember
 
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