sounds like youre all making a mountain out of a mole hill to me...
so you may have made girl 1 think youre a shallow asshole, a shame but hardly the end of the world. it doesnt sound like youve gotten too close yet so she's hardly gonna be crushed and heartbroken, at least not for long. and girl 2, well youre right, fucking people from work is a bad thing to do and youre a stupid boy.. still this whole situation is hardly iredemeable (sp?)
as for sleeping wiht people you shouldnt sleep with.. i have that prob too... but when i see sex as something so unimportant but fun, its hard not to.. even tho i know other people see it as something much more meaningful. meh life sorts itself out. people turn out as they do and its too hard to plot the permutations of your actions. crush a bug, drive a race to extinction, dont crush a bug, suffer a plague. ill do what i do and let others worry about how it affects them. how selfish.
[/drunk ant]