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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Pseudo G said:
I'll tack my little baseball analogy on as well...

I'm sitting at the sidelines with two balls and a bat but I'm the only one who wants to play with them :(
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Just don't hit a foul ball by your self :)
 
dancefifi said:
What if that part of u is somthin that you lurve being yet others cant understand it..
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Nah... i meant more like the fears that all of us have that prevent us from being who we truelly are... say like social problems... like fear of other ppl which causes you to be closed off ( not that i know anyone like this ;) ...me) its no good to be too like, "this is who i am, take it or leave it cos i cant change that." you know what i mean... :)
 
^^^So basically what your saying is we should be what other people expect/want us to be? Sadly it is the case though, we all have different masks for each occasion, those that say they dont are in denial.
 
Originally posted by drEaMtiMe*@#
I once hooked up with this guy who would have to wait at least 4 hours before replying to an sms... funny thing was he was always the first one to message me... id usually reply like a normal person in the next say 15-20 minutes... but no not him, i mean you wouldnt want to come across as even slightly interested now would you...


Originally posted by up all night
That's not game playing. That's just a low IQ.


*ponders*

hmm...anyone who knows me is probably used to the wait for my sms replies (generally no less than an hour...often anytime up to a week :\)...does this mean i have a low iq? :(

i just tend to procrastinate...it's not 'cause i don't like y'all, i promise :)
 
^^^I'm guessing dreamtimesquigglesquiggle (sorry, I can't be arsed doing the caps and symbols) meant he did it as a gameplaying thing, not from laziness...or in my case, sheer lack of credit and lack of access to smspup..... ;) :p

In other news, my singledom is in jeopardy, but I don't wanna jinx it too much suffice it to say Raz is a very happy boy today =D
 
ButrosButros_Grantos said:
we all have different masks for each occasion, those that say they dont are in denial.
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This is so true... for me anyways.. I'm totally different around different people, one group, I'm this quiet gurl while in another group, I'll be talkin half the time.. It's not that I don't want to be myself with the first group, I just cant. I'm blaming it on different wavelengths.. :p
 
1234: Yeah Raz is right. I didn't reply to any sms' for 2 months because my phone got disconnected due to lack of phone pay-age [although I guess that is also related to a low IQ ;)] but I was only referring to people who do it on purpose to get some kind of fucked-up control.

And yay Razima =D heh Hope it goes well. ;)
 
1234 : yeah, nah, i meant he was doing it purposefully. we all have our i left the phone in the car, was doing something else, blahblah, moments. my msg replying always varies depending on whats going on at the time... but you know when its like you just hooked up with someone, gave them your number, and your wondering if they'll call or whatever (wondering how interested they are etc) there's usually that play on whos more keen, and i hate that, i wish people were more honest, you know...

Like when i'm interested in a guy and get all scared to go up and approach him, one of my friends always tells me "just act confident", and i'm just like thats exactly what makes me get scared, cos i have to act out something that i dont feel, if i didnt have to act i probably wouldn't get nervous in the first place...
 
hmmm....

now for an interesting twist...

it appears i have a secret admirer....

i never get secret admirers.. i always keep too much distance around me to let anyone i'm not interested in get close to me....

damn, it feels like i'm back at school!!!

ah well, i should enjoy it i spose... :)
 
okay, that all makes sense guys. ^^^ sounds fun...i'd love to delude myself into thinking that i have admirers ("yes brad...they're just being *very* secretive...like not telling you at all kinda secretive", but i just don't think it's the case.

with the sms thing...well, i guess that is just totally stupid. anyway that's being so arrogant to do that in the first part of the relationship really doesn't seem to be thinking the right way for anything good, so i'd just bail :)

*sigh* my singledom is still sucking...of course i decided that i should do something about *that girl* in my cinema class only after the semester had finished...so now it's too late. still, i know she's back next semester and luckily enough i'm hanging around too, so maybe i'll see her around. dunno, probably won't ask anyway :/
 
^ Yeah it must be such a pain in the ass to have guys worship the ground you walk on. My sympathy is minimal babe. ;)

1234: If you don't ever ask this girl out I will personally pummel you into the ground when I finally meet you. Seriously, if you can have a crush on someone for this amount of time then there HAS to be something to it. <3

I, on the other hand, get what I refer to as a TDC [Three Day Crush] all too often and it's normally only on people I don't really know at all. When you don't know a lot about someone it's easy [for me] to fill in the gaps with desirable attributes until you've created this perfect person in your mind who bears little or not resemblance to reality.
 
Originally posted by up all night

I, on the other hand, get what I refer to as a TDC [Three Day Crush] all too often and it's normally only on people I don't really know at all. When you don't know a lot about someone it's easy [for me] to fill in the gaps with desirable attributes until you've created this perfect person in your mind who bears little or not resemblance to reality.


I remeber talking to you about this. I think its couldnt be truer (is that a word?). I think that its probably the most guilty part of my personality. Although with time i find myself no longer looking at a girl and imagining endless possiblities of romance ahead. I just take it as it comes now.

: bigbear i like how you 'oversee' this thread, even though you arent single.
 
Shit eh, I was begining to think I was abnormal, seems like a lot of other people have the same issues in approaching the opposite sex or getting approached. Hence singledom, which I am personally sick of for the moment.
 
more true would be the correct uage there, and I think that it is impossible to add a qualifer on truth anyway, it either is or isn't.
 
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