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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Right now I'm figuring out just how hard a long distance relationship is. Sydney to Canberra.

Shes just too damn nice to let it go though but its like one week I'm with her everything is perfect then when I don't see her for two weeks I have to re-adjust to how I normally go about day to day and its like being jolted around on the inside. Ah well, the things we do for our hearts.
 
Well we had "the talk" last night. Guess i'm doing the whole exclusive gf/bf but not 'serious' thing

whatever the hell that means :/
 
doofqueen said:
Well we had "the talk" last night. Guess i'm doing the whole exclusive gf/bf but not 'serious' thing

whatever the hell that means :/
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Well done on getting to the exclusive stage :D .





You NOW don't pass as single:-




SO GET OUT OF OUR THREAD ,jokes!,he,he,he,he........................ ;)






Good luck,have fun and I hope it works out for you :) .
 
hmm

a quick heads up - who here no longer cares whether they're still on the 'singles wagon' or not?

- moe
 
I certainly don't care. I am really quite happy at the moment and are no where near finding a gf.

BTW, hi everybody, I'm back!
 
I'm luke warm about singledom. I like being in a relationship, but I cant be bothered chasing and I am honestly starting to really like just crusing and having fun without comitment. Freedom is good. :)
 
i would like to delude myself that it doesnt matter, but honestly there probably isnt a day that goes by that i wish i had someone to love me.
 
dwelling on it, makes you depressed... If it comes it comes, if it doesnt it doesnt. I dont want to be one of these people who gets mopey and thinks about how lonely they are.

Maybe its just never been a high priority for me *shrugs*

Of course I get burned and hurt like the next person... Its just wasted energy. Ive had more fun just being me then being a man on a mission.
 
as much as i hate being single
i know im not ready for the comitment that i look for
but at the same time im so over playing games and the more they get played on me the more im happy to be single and celibate

games are wahat realy fuck every thing up in the long run
 
For a while i just really felt like i needed to be alone so that i could establish who i really was to myself. now, i guess yeah i do want a boyfriend, but its hard to find someone that i feel like i really connect with. most of my girlfriends are in long term relationships and yeah some of them think im too picky. i dont know...? who knows...maybe i am? id just rather be alone then in a relationship thats ok but essentially isnt quite right.
 
I was talking to Adikkal about this earlier tonight. At this point in time I have a very specific idea of what I want and when I meet someone and they say one thing I don't like or believe in something I think is preposterous I write them off immediatly. It's quite pathetic. There is one boy who I think would fit the mould but I don't really want to actually get to know him for fear of finding something I don't like.

And to answer Moe's question: I don't like being single but I don't really mind at the moment. Getting used to it...
 
Singledom is weird i think.....it's like you're kinda walking around in a daze, in a dreamworld....like you're searching, but not sure what for, or where, most definatley you're not sure who....

That's how it is for me anyhow....
 
I am now happy and content with being single. I am having a great time rediscovering my independence and having fun with my friends. I love being able to do whatever I want to do, without having to consult anyone else.
 
*sigh*

no wonder i have issues. whenever i choose someone to be interested in they're inevitably not interested in me. so of course i figure no one will ever ever ever like me, ya know.

i tried, i failed.

i give up :(
 
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