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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

I feel really shallow saying this, but there is no way that I could/would be able to go out with someone that I do not find attractive in the physical sense. Well more than attractive actually more like "damn fine". See although they would have to have more to them than that, it would be the first thing I would judge about them.
 
raverchik said:
^yah but I dont think most people are looking for 'hot' people, well hotness isnt really that much of a deciding factor for me anyway.
In my opinion there is heaps of hot single guys but not nessacary nice genuine guys.

I would much rather have a bf with a gorgeous personality that made me laugh & that I can have a could conversation with than the hottest guy I can find.

:):):)
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I know what you mean, for me, I cannot deny the fact that if a guy is physically good looking, I'd seriously want to get to know him better.. However if his beauty is only skin deep than I doubt that I can envision a relationship with him. Like ravechik said, a guy wif a gorgeous personality is so much betta..
 
i figured this would happen....
i mean the general population, not BL's, wot i mean by that is that from what i can see BL's are a more conscious person, they look at a person for who they are not what they are. unfortunatlly most other ppls you see at clubs are not like this.
sure... i know... i have a problem with confidence sometimesbut i dont see that as the point. last night at mercury lounge for example, some *sexy* looking girls started cockteasing on stage (flashing tits.. dirty dancing... the lot) i lookt at em and said to myself wotever and just kept dancing with my friends. i looked around and i swear 70% of guys there had thier eyes fixed on them... wtf?!? havent they ever seen a good looking girl b4. tell me if at that point an average girl walked up to a guy who is compleatly entranced with these girls, do you think he will put any effort into talking to her?
the other thing i think is that they might think "why would i talk to you when there is a much better looking guy just there that i can talk to"
-dee

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BB_G - im the same type of person... which makes things really dam hard for me
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^^^Be nice, after all don't you think guys have the same trouble finding gals that are worthwhile. Most of them are superficial, or have emotional hangups, or are just man-eaters. We're the ones who have it hard ladies.
 
Originally posted by ButrosButros_Grantos
^^^Be nice, after all don't you think guys have the same trouble finding gals that are worthwhile. Most of them are superficial, or have emotional hangups, or are just man-eaters. We're the ones who have it hard ladies.

I actually agree with that. I think there are proportionately more screw-ups among women than men. I don't envy the job men have... they do have to deal with a species that is far better trained in the arts of manipulation and emotional control. ;)
 
Originally posted by doofqueen
First off i wasn't making any blanketing statements. All i ever say on here is what i think ie my OPINION. If people don't agree with my line of thought and take things the wrong way (as i'm sure i do sometimes) then it's not my fault. If i don't undrstand something that someone has said i ask for clarity because assumption is the mother of all fuck ups 8(

I never said club people are anything as to what you said they are. You pretty much put words in my mouth with that one. What i meant but doofers being able to get along better with me and being able to talk about anything with is that i PERSONALLY get along better with them because i find more things in common with them most likely because i am in the same "sub culture" and i'm there BECAUSE i have common interests and what not. Is that more clear now?


keep it out of this thread. if you want to argue, then get on msn or pm each other.
 
ButrosButros_Grantos said:
^^^Be nice, after all don't you think guys have the same trouble finding gals that are worthwhile. Most of them are superficial, or have emotional hangups, or are just man-eaters. We're the ones who have it hard ladies.
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umm did you see the wink and the big grin smiley? i was joking hey 8)

1234...we aren't exactly argueing but rather debating our difference of opinion. SORRY i thought this was a forum...fucking hell 8(
 
that's fine, but the last two or three posts of your "debate" weren't even slightly relevant to the crux of this thread, and thus don't belong here. yes, it's a forum, but we have to try to keep things on track.
 
ummm i really don't want to "argue" here again but what we were disgussing was still part of the topic...ie finding the right partner, getting along with other single people, where to find a partner and what not

anyway i can't be bothered ...whatever ..
 
up all night said:
Originally posted by ButrosButros_Grantos
^^^Be nice, after all don't you think guys have the same trouble finding gals that are worthwhile. Most of them are superficial, or have emotional hangups, or are just man-eaters. We're the ones who have it hard ladies.

I actually agree with that. I think there are proportionately more screw-ups among women than men. I don't envy the job men have... they do have to deal with a species that is far better trained in the arts of manipulation and emotional control. ;)
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I would have totally agreed with you a few years ago. Not now though unfortunately - believe it or not, there are manipulative men out there who like to fuck with women's heads. And certainly, older men can have emotional baggage, particularly if they've been married or been in a long-term relationship.

I think its equally difficult for men and women given that both genders can be .... difficult. Although I'm always sympathetic to men having to approach women. Even when women approach men, it seems easier.

Blah! Having no b/f is crap.
 
muzby said:
and women are like dog shit.

the older they are, the easier it is to pick them up. ;)
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I take total offense to this comment. I am sooooooo easy to pick up and im only 22 !!!! That isnt old at all !!!
 
I have been single for 18 months now. Is that a bloody long time? Is there anyone currently topping that?
 
officially single 17 months...

a very fun 17 months... :)


by officially single, i mean seeing someone exclusively for more than 6 weeks takes me off the market... :)
 
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