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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

up all night said:
Originally posted by doofqueen
^^ I don't think i did then because i think it would be easier to find someone who doofs and have someone that you can talk about anything to to be the same person.

Because of course people who go to doofs are a better breed of person - more empathetic, more intelligent, more understanding - while clubbers are all superficial and vaccuous.

Sorry, my mistake. :|

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I knew i would cop that.

Whatever i say on this no one will understand what i mean so i'm not even going to fucking bother.
 
Uhhh, I'm single.

I don't discriminate between male/female, they're all just good mates to me. Drugs (heroin mainly) have sucked my sex drive completely out of me... now I'm 100% comfortable around girls, it's great... I never realised how different I used to treat them, now we all just have a great time.
 
An Interesting question.

I was wondering how many of you here are died in the wool romantics. The kind that believe deep down that there is such thing as "the one", spend all their time waiting for a love at first site experience and have barred more people than they can point a stick at because they are not quite up to the impossibly high romantic standards that they assume are prerequisite for any relationship to ensue.

I am one of these people. I want corny walks along the beach. I want to do romantic holidays. I want ridiculously inane conversation about everything and anything. I want someone I can share everything with. Dont get me wrong though. I am a realist. I know that the chances of this sort of relationship just appearing is pretty slim. But I am prepared to wait and test, because I am sure that this sort of thing does exist.

Are there many of us out there? Am I just being an idealistic idiot? Is there really such thing as "the one" (or there abouts... I am resigned to the statistical impossibility of finding someone exactly the way I imagion)? Is this a ridiculous set of questions to be pondering? Am I just in a reflective mood because I have been drinking?

:)
 
^^ noooooo I want that too *pouts* :( I'm sort of torn between the one true love and not though. I think that maybe there is that one perfect partner but maybe there are just lots of different connections that you have with people and for whatever reason they only last a certain amount of time. As in you learn something from being with each other at that period and then it makes you a better person and you have more of an understanding of who you are and what not and that you can have many people in your life that you share pieces of your soul with :)
 
DQ: If you didn't make such blanketing statements then maybe you wouldn't need to explain yourself.

josh_nexus: I don't believe in 'the one'. I do believe in finding someone who can put up with my shit for an extended period of time though.
 
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Thought: to those of you who use 'not being hot' as an excuse as to why they're single or not picking up - So not an excuse. Bc everythings relative anyway. Self confidence is the clue. If you think you're not hot, then you're going to give off this impression. But there is a fine line. i.e. opposite extreme is a coke head.
e.g. I find the nights (days really as this is when I'm really clubbing) when I get the most 'pick ups' is when I'm not focussing on what image I'm portraying to people. I do this thing where I act out things in mime with other people, and I'm normally laughing hysterically bc I find it so funny - and it just seems to work. Or if I'm just in my own world dancing away, I get a lot more people trying to talk to me.
And my flatmate was remarking to me, how since he'd put on weight so many more people were talking to him, and I'm like nah - they don't care how much you weigh, it's just that you're much more self confident because in your eyes you look good!

hey you - self confidence! it's the most attractive thing - seriously. Or at least satisfaction with ones own self.

Does that make sense?? I'm a little munted.

But everyone needs to chill a lot muchly. remember we are but young. Personally I don't think I'd like to find the love of my life at age 22. Bc then what on earth would I do for the next 80 years. wait that would make me very old...

And up all night - nah they're not dead. My cat sat there and batted the air outside the tank and the fish fully freaked and swam around and around in circles whilst gulping madly. It was the funniest thing. wait is that bad? And since when do fish know what cats look like?!
*must stop talking about fish in singles thread*
*must stop talking about fish in singles thread*

P.s. you wanna know where all the hot guys are?? They're at home fucking their girlfriends.
 
up all night said:
DQ: If you didn't make such blanketing statements then maybe you wouldn't need to explain yourself.
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First off i wasn't making any blanketing statements. All i ever say on here is what i think ie my OPINION. If people don't agree with my line of thought and take things the wrong way (as i'm sure i do sometimes) then it's not my fault. If i don't undrstand something that someone has said i ask for clarity because assumption is the mother of all fuck ups 8(

I never said club people are anything as to what you said they are. You pretty much put words in my mouth with that one. What i meant but doofers being able to get along better with me and being able to talk about anything with is that i PERSONALLY get along better with them because i find more things in common with them most likely because i am in the same "sub culture" and i'm there BECAUSE i have common interests and what not. Is that more clear now?
 
funluvingurl said:
Thought: to those of you who use 'not being hot' as an excuse as to why they're single or not picking up - So not an excuse. Bc everythings relative anyway. Self confidence is the clue. If you think you're not hot, then you're going to give off this impression. But there is a fine line. i.e. opposite extreme is a coke head.
e.g. I find the nights (days really as this is when I'm really clubbing) when I get the most 'pick ups' is when I'm not focussing on what image I'm portraying to people. I do this thing where I act out things in mime with other people, and I'm normally laughing hysterically bc I find it so funny - and it just seems to work. Or if I'm just in my own world dancing away, I get a lot more people trying to talk to me.
And my flatmate was remarking to me, how since he'd put on weight so many more people were talking to him, and I'm like nah - they don't care how much you weigh, it's just that you're much more self confident because in your eyes you look good!

hey you - self confidence! it's the most attractive thing - seriously. Or at least satisfaction with ones own self.
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That is so true! :) Nobody wants anyone who looks too desperate, or who looks like they're trying too hard. It's so much easier to be yourself, and also to be happy and confident within yourself.
 
josh_nexus said:
*josh joins sydkiwi on her couch with a copy of "baldor's gate - dark alliance 2", a bong and a huge packet of doritos.*
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alright :)

biggerbear: met a few non drug users at anot still see that guy I met at passion around hes pretty nice (never done e in his life either) but not looking for anythig at the mo.
 
pekkie said:
Sorry, but I think that's absolute rubbish! ;)
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=D dat's wat i keep tellin myself so as i dont get depressed.. ;)

im sure der good and hot guys out der. der juz in hiding at the moment, waiting till dey feel comfortable to come out.. hahahahaha ;)
 
fifi: that statement is impossible... at some stage a hot guy will be single.... and what ive noticed is that many ppl are just after "hot" ppl. well get over it... there's not that many of them to go around. countless times when i go out and start talking to a girl my age they arent interested because of looks and they think all i want is to get them in bed... they want "the hottest guy there"... stop dreaming is all i can say. i have a unique personality which many ppl can vouch(?sp) for. but what good is it if a girl doesnt want to know bout u at all coz her eyes have glazed over and are fixed on one guy on the other side of the club.
i've found that older ppl (like 6-10 years older) i can talk to and sorta get to know them. eg. the girl i met at the casino on gold coast... (shoulda gotten her number too :\)
wot im wondering is if it is just this age level (18 - 21) that is fucked up or is it this generation?
 
^Ok, well now I'm 23, and to tell you the truth I will look at someone if I think they're good looking in some way (doesn't have to be a model or anything), but I wouldn't do anymore than look if they didn't have the personality or any confidence, or any sort of character at all.

People are much mroe attractive when they're confident in themselves, without being cocky.

People change as they grow older, but don't place too much importance in age, as I've been out with people older than me who were great, and others who were horrible. The same goes with younger guys.

EDIT: that was meant for Che.
 
che_melbourne said:
what ive noticed is that many ppl are just after "hot" ppl. well get over it... there's not that many of them to go around.
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There is so much truth in that sentence... :D but seriously, when if you see a really 'hot' person in front of you, won't you wana get to know that person? ;)


wot im wondering is if it is just this age level (18 - 21) that is fucked up or is it this generation?
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I don't think its a good thing to generalise this.... 8)
 
^yah but I dont think most people are looking for 'hot' people, well hotness isnt really that much of a deciding factor for me anyway.
In my opinion there is heaps of hot single guys but not nessacary nice genuine guys.

I would much rather have a bf with a gorgeous personality that made me laugh & that I can have a could conversation with than the hottest guy I can find.

:):):)
 
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