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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

males and females....god's own pratical joke.

Women need to feel loved to have sex
Men need to have sex to feel loved

We were fucked from the start ;)
 
biggerbear: In all honesty, my claims for seeking a hot guy are pretty unsubstantiated. As keej will tell you when I'm in a club etc and checking out guys I always pick the most arrogant, wankerish looking guy there [often with huge muscles, an impossible tan and a cowboy-like swagger]. However, there is no way in hell I would even want to talk to, let alone date that guy. He would irritate me in 0.00014 milliseconds.

When I find someone interesting and like them as a person I tend to also find them attractive. Sexy isn't necessarily about looks, it's about the impression you give.... attitude rather than aesthetics.
 
ButrosButros_Grantos said:
See, I honestly choose to be single. I hate it, but I've had plenty of oppotunities to "hook up", i just didn't want to, I think I'm on the path of becoming asexual.
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i am curious as to why you didn't want to "hook up".

is it because you are seeking greater experiences from a relationship-type perspective? or did the girls not appear worth the time/effort?

i'm just really interested to find alternate points of views as i have a um voracious appetite and never say no :).
 
up all night said:
When I find someone interesting and like them as a person I tend to also find them attractive. Sexy isn't necessarily about looks, it's about the impression you give.... attitude rather than aesthetics.
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Ahhhh so trure 99.9 % just shit me for the people that they are.... sorry guys, but at out age it has gone WAY WAY past what you look like and how hot you may be and the hook ups you may have:p
I dont go for looks, i just really want to find somebody who is on completly the same level as me... and well being me, its a tad hard because of the personality i may mor may not hold!
I spend more time paying guys out rather then checking them out 8(
 
Originally posted by funki
.Ahhhh so trure 99.9 % just shit me for the people that they are.... sorry guys, but at out age it has gone WAY WAY past what you look like and how hot you may be and the hook ups you may have:p
I dont go for looks.......(


It sounds like you have already made your mind up on appearances though. Can i ask, do you (up_all_night too) see a good looking guy and think that he is either intellectually inept or that he has a substanard personality?
 
^ You're not attractive or you're not stupid? ;)

And I should say that I was kidding in my last post... there are plenty of good looking, intelligent people.

That being said, papermate has brought up a good point about judging attractive people. I wouldn't say I assume they were stupid... however I wouldn't be surprised if it turned out they were. This is a huge generalisation but a lot of the stunningly gorgeous people I know have never really had to work on building a good personality because people like them just because they're aesthetically pleasing.
 
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people always think i'm dippy until we play trivial persuit... (or they just get to know me.)
seriously, most people who think i'm dumb have never had the guts to say boo to me. i see them, the acquiatances on the fringe of my social group, the seaguls chasing the scraps of the scooby. who are they to judge, thank god i couldnt care.
 
hot is relative though. The guys i find hot i'm sure alot of girls wouldn't *shrugs* and hot to me has to be the whole package ie personality to go with looks although sometimes just a good personality makes someone physically hot ..actually that's usually the case because most "hot" people once they open their mouths turn into utter wankers

I think i want a gf...yeah time for some pussy, i've had enough of cock for now ;) hehe
 
papermate said:
Originally posted by funki
.Ahhhh so trure 99.9 % just shit me for the people that they are.... sorry guys, but at out age it has gone WAY WAY past what you look like and how hot you may be and the hook ups you may have:p
I dont go for looks.......(


It sounds like you have already made your mind up on appearances though. Can i ask, do you (up_all_night too) see a good looking guy and think that he is either intellectually inept or that he has a substanard personality?
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I see a Good Looking Guy and check him out, i will also watch his body language, how he is acting, how he is with other people, and if hes dressed like a pretty boy or seems to take too much care of himself or go to the gym alot... i dont know thats all just a turn off to me, im not into hippys or scrubbas, just your av guy.....

You were at sublime that night? I dont beleive we met, now no i wonder why that was :p .... hehe naaa now im being silly n bitchy

Nice 2 met ya im loz :\
 
^ You didn't meet him but you asked me who 'that hot guy' was. =D I should have done the introductions. ;)

tripin pussy: Do you treat your acquaintances in the same way you talk about them? Because if you do I feel very, very sorry for them.
 
up all night said:
^ You didn't meet him but you asked me who 'that hot guy' was. =D I should have done the introductions. ;)

tripin pussy: Do you treat your acquaintances in the same way you talk about them? Because if you do I feel very, very sorry for them.
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HECTIC bebe... or maybe i passed a judgement and decided to just pass 8)
w/o an intro....
Naaaaaa=D 8(
 
^^^ Down girl, down. =D (up_all_night)

Its comforting to hear a lot of the girls say they like to delve more into a guys personaility than solely rely on looks. But that said, i'd say you are sadly the minority.
I guess it depends on what your after, a long term relationship, or a quick fuck. *shrugs* =D

A discussion i had with some friends lately was how much easier it was for a girl to pick-up than a guy. Thoughts??

DJC*
 
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