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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Yeah i agree with you, thats why it's best not to get yourself in those friend situations in the first place though it's often hard to avoid. When you've been close friends with someone for a long time its hard to decipher whether they like you more than the friendship because you can't get any perspective on it.

I have to disagree with you when you say it's best to tell them. I don't advocate keeping it to yourself but actions speak louder than words. The best bet would be to gradually act more like you would like things to be. Touch her more, get a bit more physical, hold that eye contact for just a bit too long - drop hints that you are more interested by your actions and if she returns them and warms up to them it will probably lead to a kiss.

If they do dig you it'll make the transition much smoother and more comfortable than giving them that 'talk'.

It's definitely a tough sitch though.

Adikkal
 
The gradual transition from just friendship to flirtatious as you suggested is also a lot more nerve-wrecking and fun than having to face them and lay your feelings out in the open.

But, I think it really depends on your personality what approach you will take. If I really like someone I get REALLY shy and paranoid that they will figure me out hehe. So, instead of trying to hint to them that I like them, I make sure they don't realize - this is if there are no hints that they feel the same way, or if they are sending mixed messages. It's the fear of looking like a fool and having your touches and looks returned with a "What are you doing??"

But, if they are flirting back, there really is no need to sit down and define that what you are doing here is trying to get with each other. It becomes pretty obvious ;) .

What I was suggesting in the earlier post is that you should take the chance and just let them know - in whatever way is comfortable for you. The other person may be just as shy and reluctant to make the move and you may waste too much time and let a good thing slip by without having done anything. On the other hand, if you get rejected, later you will feel proud that you at least had the guts to try... or ... it could all work out and you end up with what you wanted :D
 
yep knew i would regret writing what i did here.

I've come to the conclusion that i will never find a true love again. I had one and blew it and thats that so why should i even bother trying to with hold from pyhsical pleasure anymore? Casual sex forever it is for me i guess *shrugs*

whatever...
 
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CHiLD-0F-THE-BEAT said:
Ok folks, it looks as if I'm flying out of this thread [even though I don't post in it ;)] and heading straight into the arms of Mr. Duckboy.

Wish me luck on my new adventures, won't you?
And don't be alarmed by the massive grin permenantly plastered on my face. :D
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*Oh BIG GRINS* Hehehehe gorgeous to hear guys!!! xoxoxo
 
I wanna know why I keep on giving my phone number to boys that I don't entirely want to have my phone number. I guess I was just kinda wasted and instead of *directly* asking for my number they do this thing where they say they need it for another reason and if I said no I would come across as being completely horrible.

But I guess I'm just grumpy because with one, he's like "she's gorgeous I want her phone number" and I'm like "Do I have a say in this?" Easy answer you say...but I'm really easy to convince and was too tired to argue. Not that he's not hot btw but he's seen me so many times before and never bothered to talk to me and now, just because I'm not surrounded by 50 other gorgeous girls I'm suddenly beautiful. I'm like "I look the same man...." Whatever.

But yeah, interesting weekend. I had about 5 guys try and pick me up. At one point there were 2 guys trying to get my undivided attention and I'm like "ahhhhh, someone help me?!?!"

Am I doing something different? I had another guy call me today after like a year and a half and try and get me to go out.

But I'm sick of talking about myself...How is everyone else in this thread? :p
 
it keeps me on my toes, reading it and all
i have to dust off my brain.

i entered a worst date story competition today on www.astroglide.com.au -some new lube.
my entry is a 300 word edit of this:

http://www.hostboard.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi/ubb/get_topic/f/1942/t/324

enjoy, and revel in your single-ness... at least you're not dating this guy (or me, as it has been pointed out that i could come off quite the rude bitch in the cruel yet TRUE recount)

-el (who isn't exactly single but could maybe arrange it for the night if keystroke and ozbreaker make me an offer)
 
muzby said:
on, ton yllaer... ebyam eciwt sa gnol sa lamron...
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That's pretty good coz it takes me probably 5 times longer to read.

Muzby = smart
 
eloise said:
-el (who isn't exactly single but could maybe arrange it for the night if keystroke and ozbreaker make me an offer)
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and what am i
a bit of through away kleanex
:p



i really wish ****** would stop fucking with my emothions
oen day there is a glimme rof hope the next she stomping on my hart again
and the next its either electro shock torcher or sunshine and happyness and then just loop it all over and over again

*end jaded rant*
 
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