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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Frodo said:
doofqueen: Yes ring the store and give it to him! I wish that happened to me!
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Totally agree ;)

That previous guy doesn't deserve you.You deserve so much better (I know how dishearting it can be to be stuffed around by someone you like/liked.It can make the next time that much harder - I feel this from experience.

Give this new guy a try if you like.He may just be what you are looking for.

Sly you rock!!!!! :)


Regarding my situation:-

What's a relationship?

I've been single longer than 'Kraft' has had 'Kraft singles' :(

Currently,I don't have any interest in any girl/s in particular.Just living my life and having fun when I can.My main downside being lonely at times :( (Regular sex with someone I care about too :( ).

Oh well:(

Single on I go!! :)
 
Thanks frodo, oz and wacky :) I feel like a tool calling him though. Like what the hell do i say? what if he doesn't pick up? should i leave a message for him? i remember his name but it's a prettyy common one and what if there is more then one boy with that name at that shop?

and fucking oath the last one was a tool! i can't believe i fell for his sheep in wolf's clothing act. I think i'm madder at myself than anything for trusting him and letting my walls down. Thought i met a 'nice guy' sure played the part well anyway.

and all that was done by text messaging by the way!! He has been aviding talking to me face to face for three weeks now and i couldn't hold it in any longer.

wacky - you will find someone, just not your time i guess :)
 
Doofqueen....I think those things (leaving numbers etc) are best done face to face!

IMHO I think you should go back into the shop and give your number to him, and it won't look conspicuous even if he's not working! Then you can give him your most winning smile, and turn and make a hasty exit...I agree - the phone thing could have many possible hiccups involved!

Anyway - Good Luck! You sound like a very genuine and lovely person, and people like you don't deserve to be fucked over! Plus I love hearing stories about meetings like this one....so serendipitous!
 
^^ And that way you can make sure he wasn't flirting with you to either: sell the dvd player or that he does it to every/most females he encounters.. (you never know)
 
^^ yeah i thought about that! that maybe he was just flirting with me because he wanted to make a sale but i bought a dvd player, sub woofer and four speakers for only $200.

I told him i only had $200 to spend and i wanted something decent to listen to music on and he told me not to get this one cos it was shit yada yada and then said "i'll see what i can do about the better one" (which was $189 by itself - the speakers and woofer) and the dvd player was $84 and said that i got it for cost price plus 10%

also he offered to take the stuff to the car (which i guess is normal) but once we were at the car started talking to me about music and parties and things.

I even said to him with a cheeky grin "you can always come over and set this up for me" and he said "i would if i had a working car at the moment" hehe and keapt talking etc

Then when we were leaving he says "See you later Sylvia, you remember my name?" and earlier when we were talking and i had asked him something he said "only if you tell me your name" and introduced himself properly.

My sister said that as he was walking away he keapt looking back at me =D

awww man i so should have given him my number then! Theres always that hint of rejection that your afraid of though *sigh* I wanted him to give me his but then again he was working so probably wasn't allowed to. hmmm

Mary - i can't really go back to the store because my sister took me and it was fairly far away and don't have a lift and i would feel like a total doofus turning up and he wasn't working that day or something.

arggghhhhhh i havn't been able to stop thinking about him though actually *giggles*
 
Massive hugs for you syl!! That boy who shall remain nameless is crap, i could launch into detailing the many ways in which he sucks, but I think new boy is much more exciting.

I'd find out when he was working (as you need to talk to him about setting up said stereo) and find a reason to go back (but thats just silly me). Is he into psy? If he does then you can rely a lil more on him coming to the party, otherwise I'd definitely go back to give him your number.

My singleness is being less annoying of late, stoopid me jinxed myself by saying i was maybe outta this thread :\ I'm still amazed at the number of very unbalanced individuals around, can someone please remove the "This Way" sign from my back please?
 
I can't find out when he's working though really because the whole set up my stereo thing was said in a light hearted manner kinda thing. :\

He asked me what kind of music i was into and i said psytrance. I asked him if he heard of it after he seemed not to be confused and he said he did but didn't elaborate. Maybe he was just pretending to know what it was to impress me because i have come across alot of people who say they have heard of psy and then really don't know what it is 8o

ok i'm just going to call the shop tommorow (three days after we met) and just take my chances that he answers or something. I feel like a teenager hahaha

Don't worry miss slingshot, i seem to have the "i'll just pretend i care about you and then treat you like shit when you let your walls down " sign on my back *sigh*

*still hopeful about this new boy though* hehehe =D
 
hmm so you just have a big rant about how drew fucked you off now your on about some one els
syl give it a fucking break
take some time out for yourself for once and stop looking for some one new

i care and worry about you just take time out for yourself for once please
 
slientbob said:
Cuddlebuddys are great, esp the ones that put up with me when I fall asleep on them. :)
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As long as they dont mind me dribbling shit and still not coming down from the night before ;)
 
I love spooning
me too
scrap everything else for a sec and just think, spooning is really cool
sure is
..spooning that turns to other shit aint too bad either
yeah, good one

-later
 
^^^ You're not single so get outta here! As its been highlighted many times before, posting in the singles thread does not equal more sex - attached or otherwise! ;)
 
magpi said:
hmm so you just have a big rant about how drew fucked you off now your on about some one els
syl give it a fucking break
take some time out for yourself for once and stop looking for some one new

i care and worry about you just take time out for yourself for once please
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He didn't fuck me off. I fucked him off because he tried to fuck my sister and thought he would get away with it and as soon as he knew i found out he avoided confronting me about it. He actually still wanted to see me as long as he thought i wasn't aware of what he did. Fucken pig :X

and i have had enough time on my own already :( but your probably right *sigh*

although i am kinda liking two girls at the moment hehehe I'm seeing potential in both actually too ;)

never ended up calling the store and talking to mr dvd , feel like a bit of a tool, maybe he'll show up at the party :p
 
I know I've posted in here several times about my various exploits, and I'll probably post again after this.

I went to a rave on the weekend and bumped into a few old friends, one of which was there with a very cute friend. Let's call her S. Apparently she was on heroin and she doesn't talk much when she's high. Meanwhile I was pinging off my dial and talking codshit to anyone and everyone, especially her. Which makes me wonder how she could put up with me for so long.

I spent most of the party and the day after with S and her friends. She's a lot more interesting when she's sober. :D We all got breakfast at a local Macca's. I wasn't hungry so I bought a breakfast meal, drank the coffee and gave her the food.

We went to her place, listened to music, chainsmoked and went for a swim. We were feeling each other up a lot in the pool and spa. We kissed very briefly but stopped because there were kids in the pool, as well as her younger sister.

I get the feeling that one of the other boys is or was her fuck buddy. He saw pretty much everything anyway, so it's probably no big deal. I gotta call her up today and email her the pictures I took.

Even if I do stand a chance, it's probably not going to last long, that's why I'll probably be posting here again. =D
 
DQ: i feel you on the being alone to long factor. a while ago i was so lonely for that type of "friendship" i would of gone to any lengths to get it. but in all my experiences with people...*referring to drew* any type of relationship, be it friendship, boy friend girl friend or just fuck buddy, any type built on deciet or lies isnt off to a good start.

you are better off without him.

plus...there aint nothing wrong with girls ;) if u're ever in melbourne id hook up with you. (in more ways than one) :D

its ok for friends to worry about friends if they think they are right in what they think, most of the times thay are not.

...but sometimes its better for friends to stay silent and just let the person figure things out by themselves. i cant see any harm in talking about or fancying one person after another...fancying and fucking is two diff kettles of fish though...but its when it becomes a full fleged life style that you need to re-think.

ive been tryin to catch this guy on a train. hes pretty spunky. i nearlly gave him my fone number last week :) i thought i handled the conversation/ movements pretty well.

(hes a ticket inspector on Connex)

me: *subtly puts her feet on the seat*
him: excuse me miss can u take your feet off the seat please or i will have to fine you..
me: *insert dirty thougths here* yeah sorry. hey, you were on the train last week werent you? i lost my ticket and you laughed at me.
him: yeah i was. had a good week? shit...i have to get off now...
me: *sighs* see you around.


that was the first time in quite a while i got butterflies (like first date butterflies)

i hope i see him soon :D
 
Ok I've come to believe the best things come into your life when you least expect them to, or stop looking for them. It seems to have happened to me numerous times...

On loving relationship levels, and on friendship levels. Its quiet satisfying to be rewarded expectedly...

Life works in mysterious ways..

shals :)
 
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