hi all... haven't read this thread (just this page)... but I would like to add my 2 cents
i've never had a real girlfriend .... I think i will be lucky to ever find someone who is on my wave length AND appreciates me as a human being, (most girls i know either think i'm a complete tripper, or see me for who I am and we do connect, but its more close-friendship terms)
simple as that
so i have developed a pretty strong complacency with just BEING (single, myself, a human, an observer, a tripper, whatever society pigeon holes me into)
... I don't want to spend my life looking for this girl ... if she comes, wow, wondeful, I get to cuddlesomeone on a mountain top....(I honestly do dream of this moment, but to dream of something that may not happen is not how i want to spend my thinking juice)
if I don't find my dream girly .... wow, wonderful ... i'm still a CONCIOUSNESS ... i think that is pretty spectacular .... like marry poppins says ... being single is pretty cool ( I guess i don't have the complete right to comment seeing as i've never had a serious relationship ) but yes, at the moment my priorities are learning about myself and the world around me .... and being happy .... and i do consider myself a happy human being .... so any lovely lady i meet will be a cudda'licious bonus
basically you could say i am an x-stoner turned dreamer who just doesn't put the fucking effort with girls .... and its shows .... and i've found happiness through other means (DOOOOOOF DOOOOOOF do da' doof doof )
yeh that somes up my love(less) life !
BUT, yeh its all about priorities ... if my priorities in life were to get the best looking chickies (in the hope that this would bring happines) .... then i don't think i would be were i am today (wellbeing and life-appreciation wise)