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Bluelight Singles - Installment XIX - "I don't give two shits about your love life!"

I really feel that I need to care about someone before I can shag them.
Wierd huh?
Nothing weird about that, at least you don't want to sleep with just anyone..
As for me I'm going ok. At least now I know what I'm going to do with my life in the next couple of years. Next year I'll be going away.
I have absolutely no reason to stay in Melbourne or Australia for that matter anymore. The only person I hung around Melbourne for has gone now, so I'm just going to go do what I've always wanted to do which is go overseas and work for a couple of years.
Oh well at least there's something positive coming out of this for me. Too bad if I meet anyone else (not that I want to), cause there's no way I'd stick around for anyone again!!
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Well, just spent a week with 4 couples and myself...and am yet to reply to an SMS from my ex...fuck I hate couples.
 
Originally posted by Hardicus:
Well, just spent a week with 4 couples and myself...and am yet to reply to an SMS from my ex...fuck I hate couples.
i so agree.. i dislike being around my couple friends, just does not feel right
n u were with 4 couple and yourself.. heh i would have ended up going off by myself n just sitting somewhere
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Yeah I did a few times, but this was at Outback so it was really dusty and we were too mashed :D
Like...I love my friends to death, but it really shits me when they are always fucking cuddling and talking about how much they love each other, especially when they KNOW that I am still feeling fucking down from my breakup. grrrrr
 
Originally posted by D@rkblade:
I really feel that I need to care about someone before I can shag them.
Weird huh?
I don't think that this is weird... there are a lot of people who feel this way. Personally i don't mind either way, because sex is sex after all... ;) However, i find it much harder to get off on with people to whom i am not emotionally connected - there's a lot of emotion involved in sex... for me at least...
Who else out there is like this? Or am i the only one? ;)
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Funnily enough, the best sex I ever had was with someone I'd only met once before. I wasn't emotionally connected, but I was very comfortable with her. I was just able to be myself.
But on principle, I find sex with a S/O to be much more satisfying... maybe.
 
Originally posted by *Cosmic Mist*:

I don't think that this is weird... there are a lot of people who feel this way. Personally i don't mind either way, because sex is sex after all... ;) However, i find it much harder to get off on with people to whom i am not emotionally connected - there's a lot of emotion involved in sex... for me at least...
Who else out there is like this? Or am i the only one? ;)
Puts hand up. Don't like having sex with no feelings attached. I've had a casual partner before, but just couldn't do it. I need to be connected deeply with the person I'm around. After a guy's blown if there's no feelings there, that situation is the worst in the world. With feelings there, the best.....You don't care and can sit there in no glory, being yourself knowing u care about them, and you haven't used or been used purley for the act of getting off.....that's me anyhow :)
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Mind you I never go looking for a girl. Not saying I don't go out, but they always have away of finding me if they are important. My x was met through a prank call, and we're still best mates. My x b4 that was met via a friend who met her on the net and took me for security....so yeah, i know stuff comes to me.....wrong thread for the below(what i'm about 2 say)....
I swear some1/thing is looking out for me. Was just getting back 4m the x's place after putting her 2 sleep (about 2am) and the whole way home (30 mins) i heard KILLER music. Iio Rapture is one of those songs that always gets me...it was the 7th song in a row that was played that I connected with. I knew something was there 2 the point i turned my lights off and drove through 3 give way signs not even looking or slowing down. Don't know why I turned them off, wish I haddn't but knew I'd be safe. I don't really believe or not believe in anything. Like I'm not a christian, but i don't not believe in different spirits, but then again, i've never really been strong for it either...so yeah, even weird..
[ 08 December 2002: Message edited by: KeenSydGuy ]
 
Originally posted by KeenSydGuy:

I swear some1/thing is looking out for me. Was just getting back 4m the x's place after putting her 2 sleep (about 2am) and the whole way home (30 mins) i heard KILLER music. Iio Rapture is one of those songs that always gets me...it was the 7th song in a row that was played that I connected with. I knew something was there 2 the point i turned my lights off and drove through 3 give way signs not even looking or slowing down. Don't know why I turned them off, wish I haddn't but knew I'd be safe. I don't really believe or not believe in anything. Like I'm not a christian, but i don't not believe in different spirits, but then again, i've never really been strong for it either...so yeah, even weird..

What do you mean?
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I can relate to you KeenSydGuy, when you say that you've met some of your dearest friends, and so forth, through pure chance - through my band's gigs, prank SMS's, and even just by asking a stranger for the time. The best things, i believe, are not contrived - these non-contrived things possess an element of purity in them and their intentions... most of the time anyway...
 
Hahaha!
Since this seems to have moved on to the 'best sex I ever had' I would still have to say the best single sexual experience was 1 week after breaking up with my ex... (and it was with my ex) that was the last time we ever went there. Though she hinted today that she would like to go again. But that is really somewhere that I don't want to go. Things don't change in 6 weeks...
But you are all right. It is not too wierd to need emotional connection. I mean, If I am talking to someone and really connect, even if it only takes a short while I can still share a wonderful sexual experience witht them. But I like it to be playful...you know, lots of teasing each other and giggling together.
Just plain outright fun :)
 
I've not posted in singles in so long now.
I spose I just can't be fucked with a relationship at all. Not really interested in the hassle, and the eventual pain.
Casual sex sounds a much more attractive option.
 
Originally posted by DazedAndConfused:

What do you mean?
HEEHHE DazedAndConfused didn't get it, ironic....
What do I mean...Umm...just that there's something out there that's keeping an eye out for me. Even tho I don't really believe in stuff like that. Just the fact I've met so many people @ random to whom I'm so close with and nights like the weekend, where it's just too freaky not to have some1/thing there, coz fcuk knows i shoulda died 2x over the weekend.
Whilst i'm posting here a Question for you all. Is it to freaky to get my x, who's my best mate a gold ring engraved w/ 2 hearts joined saying forever. She's cool w/ it (and has given me a ring 4 size), her current BF doesn't give a fuck, and her sister thinks it's cute. U'd think i'd learn it's OK, but I'm thinknig they don't have the heart 2 say the truth. Thing is i'm not going 2 get a cheap ring, well, $150AUD anyhow on a mate 4 xmas isn't bad :)
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Originally posted by funki:
However the past 2 weekends ive been out at raves i have been hit on by 8 different guys, maybe its all not that bad afterall, maybe i could have a relationship........... MEBE ;)
I wasn't trying to hit on you at Overdose Funki, honest ;)
You are a good looking, friendly and a fun person to be around Funki. You will find someone.
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hi
as of sunday night i am single
i plan to enjoy my time being single, once the pain has gone away all will be fun fun fun :)
 
:) THanks heaps RUSS
Queen beat, just had to add that babe :) lol
yes i kissed her once and it was all just too good i had to go in for seconds ;)
Apollo is a lucky boy
-funksta-
 
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DoH! ;O)
still single.. still lov'n it!! :)
*bounces*
[ 10 December 2002: Message edited by: PlAyDoH ]
 
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