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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Well, still single, still intend to be for a looooong time. But having slight problems atm. I can't decide whether to SMS my ex on NYE. I think it would make her happy, which is good, but might give her the impression that i'm still interested, which I am, but I don't want to get back with her. Wait, that made noe sense...fuckin...ARGH!
OK scratch all that and everyone pick up on NYE. At the least make sure you snog someone. Peace.
 
any other random night....but with tongue involved ;)
Hehe, don't worry, it won't happen for me. I guarentee it. And before anyone says "not with that attitude you won't," i'll just say that me and "picking up" doesn't happen.
 
new years is all about the random snog!!! it's the one night of the year that you can get away with it without any implications whatsoever.
as for texting your ex hardicus - if you're not interested in her then don't do it. If you are interested though and you text her, if she's not interested anymore then it wouldn't be a good thing to do.
in fact, it's just plainly not a good thing to do. at all. however, if you're anything like me, you'll go right ahead and do it anyway. ;)
so I guess my advice is - do it. lol but be prepared for the disappointment of them either giving a less than satisfactory reply, or worse, not replying at all.
you can always say after the event if it all goes pear shaped that you can't actually remember sending it and blame it all on the alcohol ;)
 
Hmmmm....then she'll blame it on pills....which is part of the reason we broke up in the first place.....hmmmm.....think i won't send it.
 
funki - go out and have fun for 7 months. i dont mean sleep with lots of people, or even just dating, but go out and have fun whatever it is you have fun doing. the 7 months will pass quicker that way. :)
i think the most interesting (sad?) thing here is that while we are reading these posts, we can identify with just about all of them, in some way or another.
well, i know i do anyway.
life's frustrating sometimes.
oh well...
 
Originally posted by BopGirl:
doofqueen ... post away baby! You know what ur talking about! You've found someone, so you did something right ...
So ... what did ya do? hahah :)
:P cheers matey!! but phycokitten has scared me in posting now in case i say something insulting or condesending *confused*
(quote)
Sure you can post in here but if you post anything at all related to finding that person that is along the lines of "aww honey you'll find someone I did and I’m so happy" or anything else with well meaning intent that comes across as condescending your posts will be deleted.
It’s not a rule there to exclude input from people in couples QueenBeat is one who comes to mind as part of a couple who debates the issues in this thread, it’s there to stop all the annoying and downright insulting posts that were occurring.
(end quote)
i dont mean to be that at all if i have ? :-/
i am generally a really optomistic person who chooses to look at life through my rose coloured glasses and dont tend to let alot stress or bother me anymore as look at the positives in every situation rather than the negative so i guess i could come across as too umm 'happy' sometimes?
dont get me wrong...i have had my share of shitful experiences in life in general let alone arsehole partners etc ... i just dont choose to dwell on them but rather learn something from them and remember them 4 next time and later in life and add it to my growing self acceptance portfolio..if that makes sense?
i do think that everything does happen 4 a reason and that everything we experience, the ppll we meet, the places we go and the things we do all have a purpose do i kinda do have the idea of " it will happen when its the right time" thing ....i dont mean this in a condesending or insulting manner whatsover tho :( i just try and spread positive vibes and hope to make just even a little bit of impact in ppls thinking is all :)
i really hate upsetting ppl 2 :-/
did i break any rules? :-/
[ 29 December 2002: Message edited by: doofqueen ]
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*bangs head against wall*
I HATE confusion!!!
*bang*
*bang*
*bang*
*bang*
*knocks self out on the floor*
Seriously though, you can spank my ass and call me Mr Happy, if I'm not the most sadly confused guy in the world. But that's life I guess.
Anyway, f*** it all off, bring on Field Day!
-plaz out-
 
Well.
Nearly 4 months since I re-joined this thread, and there's no sign of escape any time soon...
Schizo: Shit man, you do that too? For some reason, if I'm out, and I get "vibes" from someone, I make it a point to try to ignore them... now, tell me, what the FUCK is that? For someone who's keen to attempt to pick up, that makes so very little sense to me...
Unless... it's me telling myself that I'm NOT picking up anything, and to forget about it... that sounds a bit more likely...
Hell, some random come grab me at Welcome and slap me around a bit (non-sexually OR sexually ;) )
 
Well, still here, firmly entrenched in the Singles Grandstand. In fact, I just got my Life Membership through last week.
Seriously though, all this year, I have not been thinking about picking up. Sure, if someone had come along, I would of welcomed her with open arms. But I didn't even once go looking.
This is going to change though. I am going to try and find someone next year. Shit, even if it is only a couple of short relationships, nothing serious, I will be happy.
Until then, I will enjoy my new Membership to the Singles Grandstand. And I just tapped a new Keg. Who wants a beer?
 
Oh yeah, who wants to go to the Desperate and Dateless Ball next year?
I have been the last two years, and it is alot of fun. Apart from the dates you get. My first was 34 years old, and the second one way a Church girl.
It is on in February.
 
I went to the desperate and dateless ball about 4 years ago (it was my friend's idea!! I swear!!).
I'd never go again. I found it was full of very drunk boys who assumed that just because you were at a desperate and dateless ball that you were up for anything with anyone. Sleazy horrible boys not even saying anything to you before walking up and putting their hand on your arse and trying to kiss you!! ugh
However it's for charity and I know a few people who have gone and had a great time. Maybe I was just having a bad night. It *is* good for a laugh. :)
as for my ongoing single status - there are lots of boys around me who like me but I don't like them (story of my life 8) ). but finally I've met a boy I really like for the first time in aaages but there are 2 problems - one, he's in my team at work and two, he's living with his girlfriend. 8( trouble is he keeps texting me and calling me and really seems to like me, and at the same time telling me that things aren't good with his girlfriend and that they haven't slept together in 3 months!!! it all just sounds like bullshit talk to me. I don't know whether to believe him or whether to assume he does this often and is just playing the field. I really hope I follow my head on this one and don't get sucked into a stupid situation :\
[ 30 December 2002: Message edited by: miss apple ]
 
Originally posted by Dante:

Schizo: Shit man, you do that too? For some reason, if I'm out, and I get "vibes" from someone, I make it a point to try to ignore them... now, tell me, what the FUCK is that? For someone who's keen to attempt to pick up, that makes so very little sense to me...
Unless... it's me telling myself that I'm NOT picking up anything, and to forget about it... that sounds a bit more likely...

Yeah, i do this too...! i hate myself for it... it sux. Whenever a nice attractive girl looks at me and hints a smile or gives a nice look or something like that (u know the ones u remember for a few days), i instinctivly look away... IT SUX! maybe its low self-esteem... i think it is in my case... i don't have much of a self-esteem when it comes to girls... i think it stems from when i was younger and used to have very bad skin... but yeah... i am also very very shy... that does not help...
next year, i'm gonna force myself to look and smile at girls more... i think that will be a good start...
it could be the belief (like what I have) that the girl is just TOO GOOD for me... that i don't deserve or could never get anybody like that...
the only thing we have to fear is fear itself... yeah yeah i know, but theory and practice are two very different things...
best of luck all you singles in 2003! may all your dreams come true, and none of your nightmares...
Cohaa.
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[unnecessary personal drama editted out 8) -vurt]
Apart from that - all i have to say is: YAY for fuck buddies!! WH00t! Feels good to be back in the swing of things... even if i'm not getting the whole relationship thing, this is good for the moment. :D
And yay for random new years snogging! I mean honestly - what better way to begin a brand new year than to be sharing an intimate moment with someone you do (or don't) know?? I'll be a'snogging - that's for sure!
On a more serious note my friends and i decided to begin celbrations for NY onthe 28th (a little early, i know, but we had nothing else to do,) and i ended up kissing one of my good friends. He'd been driving us around all night so that we could see all the pretty lights, and when we got back, i kissed him as a way of saying thankyou. But now i think he wants more, but i don't think i want more from him. Was it wrong of me to have done that, or his he taking things out of proportion? (Neither of us were straight at the time)
[ 30 December 2002: Message edited by: vurtomatic ]
 
^^^^^^^^ [not before you accidentally locked the singles thread vurt.. hehe I saw it]
I've spent all but two weeks of this year single and in that time it's gone from being a burden to being a lifestyle. I guess the real danger is enjoying it too much, like I watched 'About a Boy' the other day with Hugh Grant, great movie but also a good example of what can happen if you get too used to relying on yourself.
I hope everyone who's had a miserable 2002 relationship/sex-wise can get their shit together and make things happen for themselves starting tomorrow night.
Who knows what life holds and where we'll all be this time next year. The one thing that's always great about being single though, is the unpredictability... going out on a Friday or Saturday night, not knowing who you might meet, new friends, new lovers, and even sometimes, new loves.
Some of us won't leave this thread in all of the next twelve months, some of us will go and return and some will leave, never to return. Whatever happens in that time; party hard, look after yourself and your friends, treat every shag like your last and have a bootylicious New Year. :)
 
freakin hell...I just clicked on this thread and some pop-up ad for a singles website came up... do you have to rub it it?!?
don't think I'll be getting random snogs on NYE... the boys who will be at the party are like my brothers. Field Day maybe ;)
Russ - bopgirl and I took part in the drunken mess that was D+D last year...maybe going again unless it is the same weekend as Transmission.
So here's a question for you all, there's been some posts about the nasty things the opposite sex have done to us all....
katmeow's last post: (to stop her whining )
quote:
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if only people wore a sign...like:
"I will promise you the world (and then leave the country 2 weeks later)"
"It's ok if we get it on while Im drunk (but then I wont talk to you for 6 months)"
or my personal fave
"I'll have heaps of fun kissing you tonight (but when I think about it tomorrow, we really would be better off staying friends)
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I want a T-shirt with the last one on it.
belisimo said:
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word to the katmeow
its all in the game of being single
keep your chin up and just think of all the times you have done the same things to guys, there's a reason for everyones actions (usually anyway).
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I think both were good points, I also think that everyone's fucked someone over, so I guess it gives you a little bit of empathy as to how they felt when it happens to you. (Unpleasant though it is at the time)
whats the worst you've done to someone who liked you?
as for me, in year 8 I wrote fake love letters as a joke to a boy in the year below who liked me, and I ran away from a guy I pashed at a bluelight disco in yr 9 cos I didn't want to give him my number.
I'll neva be a playa...just haven't got it in me :)
happy new years boys n girls... hope life treats ya good!
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Hoptis, those are great sentiments and I heartily echo them.
No matter what happens to every participant in this thread in the New Year, and just prior to. I wish you the best of luck, the absolute best of happiness and contentment, regardless of what befalls you, whether I'm single or not, if anybody wants a friendly ear, just icq me (you'll find it in my profile) and I'm all ears. :)
*Edit* Yeah Kat, I hear you there, I think that everyone's done nasty things to the opposite sex. I've dumped one girlfriend in a pretty harsh fashion, and basically told her that (a) I only wanted to be friends with her, and that (b) I didn't have the time to talk to her about it. I then laughed over the phone when she phoned me to ask if I was gay, and that's why I dumped her. I didn't feel guilty about it at all until about 6 months later. But yeah, I guess its one of those things you do, and then realise you were a fuckwit.
Onwards with life!
Big fat ugly best wishes for the New Year!
*hugs all*
-plaz out-
[ 30 December 2002: Message edited by: plazma ]
 
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