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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

That's actually given me a bit of food for thought too. Bloody nice work Darkblade.
*pondering*
Thank you very much for contributing that one. :)
Certainly a bit of a curve ball on the old grey matter.
-plaz out-
 
thankyou Darkblade, i'm all thumbs today... now perhaps i can unwedge my foot from my small intestine with a simple cut and paste.
well, hopefully.
 
*puts on his best starscream voice*
REEE-TREAT!
See ya later dood0rs and doodettes, if you spike their drinks and use hyponosis they will come.... maby ;)
 
*asks for another keg...sits in corner and hugs mad monkey tightly as not to let go...writes out a DAMAGED GOODS sign for myself...*
its been bout 6weeks and a bit for me and i really cant be bothered with anything for a while now. after over an 8 months relationship, doing everything together to now being alone and having friends leave you because the guy you introduced them too is apparently now their best friend and you get burnt.
*once again*
its not that i dont want anything right now *i cant predict what will happen* but its amazing how you think you are totally over this person and then little things just remind you of the person.ive let go of everything and moved on...*stabs doll with pins*
have prospects for future relationships...but you know when you get to that fork in the road...and you dont know where to go?
ive lost a shit load of friends who ive know for ages...because of the x-factor...but im still standing at the fork in the road...deciding which way to go.
this last break up has been especially difficult for me to handel.ive suffered severe depression, loneliness, suicide and had uncontrollable emotional rollercoasters.the thing that is the hardest is copeing with the fact that the people i called my friends are now his best friends and i dont even exsist...even in their lives...
so much for friendship :(
*sighs*...places DAMAGED GOODS sign back up...
i would like to give a personal thank you to two people who are bluelighters...but in peson these two are also my best of friends...they stood by me through all of it and if it wasnt for them i wouldnt be here right now...
TARSARLAN and LIL LEECIE you two are truely the best of friends :)
i do have an out look i say to myself to keep going and thats 'time heals all wounds'...
i believe that...am also looking foward to the new years because i will be spending it with my good friends in melbourne and i believe the new year will bring with it a fresh beginning and start...
[ 21 December 2002: Message edited by: *starfalls69* ]
 
plaz! you'll be glad to hear that you're prediction was correct, i'm now well and truly single and i intend on staying that way for awhile, truly!
NOW BOYS AND GIRLS , A STORY THAT WILL KEEP YOU SINGLE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE
(i'll try to keep in short and concise)
basically after a month of arguing in a 3 month relationship this is what happened:
*he smashed my mobile phone
*i gave him a black eye
*he threatens to take me for assault
*i run and steal his car for about 2 hours
*he threatens to take me for theft
*i run out of the house with a friend
*he says "come back to the house, we'll talk and sort things out, get back together or i'll charge you with assault" (keep in mind this dude is 6'10 and i'm 5'9)
*i stay at a friends house for awhile before i needed to go back to tassie after being harassed and threatened
*he destroys my hard copy of all my numbers as well as deletes all the numbers from my sim card
*he hacks into my hotmail, changes my password and has deleted all contacts and past emails in it
*he calls my friends and family up about me, harassing them to get in contact with me
*all i have in my possession is an overnight bag, the rest of my stuff has disappeared off the face of the eart, ie, laptop,tv,books, etc
*he picks me up from work so i can sign the lease over etc and offers to take me back to my friends place (stupid me) i end up on a side alley with no phone, no money and a suitcase with a bunch of cd's (he ends up coming back for me when i drag myself on the main road to catch a cab which my friend had to pay for screaming his head off)
*ran into him at a club, stupid me again decides him being e'd up would be the best time to sort the business side of things, talked to him and all was fine til he decided to follow me and my friends to another club and he was coming down, we got him kicked out and 3 hours later he was still outside waiting for us to come out
*last but not least, when you think you've gotten away, don't believe it too soon, he shows up at the airport and i had to have the federal police escort me to the gates so he would pose no danger
so after all that, i've had to run from sydney to tasmania and he has threatened to come to tassie to "sort things out"
if that hasn't scared you into singledom for the rest of your life, i don't know what will.
oh yeah.. he cheated on me too
[ 23 December 2002: Message edited by: dicey ]
 
"How could I be so immature to think he could replace the missing elements in me. How extrememly lazy of me"
Wow, there are so many people out there who could do with reading that quote.
You truly can't try to have a healthy relationship with someone else unless you first have one with yourself. I'm single beacuse I realised earlier this year, that neither my ex nor i could have a relationship untill we'd sorted our own issues out. If you go into a realtionship expecting the other person to make you happy or make your life better, you will be disappointed. You need to do things to make you feel fulfilled as an idividual - then when you find the right person they will simply help amplify the happiness and fulfillment that you already feel. If you're single see it as an opportunity to get in touch with what you really want for yourself and work towards those things...then when the right person comes along you'll be able to make the most of it...
Profound for my first singles post no? :-p I've had a decent amount of time to think about it.
 
^^ cause they don't normally tell you that they're mentally disturbed when you start dating them. psycho's can be pretty good at hiding it.
 
*big hugs to dicey*
I don't know what it's like, but i can damn well empathise - we had to call the cops on my mother's ex one time and though it was years ago now, it was damn scarey. I hope all goes well for you now - i would never wish that upon anyone, not even someone i despised...
APart from that i have nothing new to add - my world is still a misty rainbow of strange contentedness. I'm happy and for once it's because of internal factors, not external factors...
One thing though (and this goes back to previous posts in this installment of the singles thread) - don't drink alone! My god! Not only does it compound whatever you're feeling at the time, but there's no one to console you the next morning when you're as hung over as a MOFO trying to make yourself some berocca (but failing misrerably because it's too damned bright in the kitchen.)
;)
 
What's a relationship?
Also,if another girl says to me she only wants to be my friend I think I'm going to be sick :(
I have enough female friends,I don't need anymore :)
 
Originally posted by gleeker:
^^ cause they don't normally tell you that they're mentally disturbed when you start dating them. psycho's can be pretty good at hiding it.
if only people wore a sign...like:
"I will promise you the world (and then leave the country 2 weeks later)"
"It's ok if we get it on while Im drunk (but then I wont talk to you for 6 months)"
or my personal fave
"I'll have heaps of fun kissing you tonight (but when I think about it tomorrow, we really would be better off staying friends)
as you may have guessed, I'm feeling very f***ing cheery today :)
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word to the katmeow
its all in the game of being single
keep your chin up and just think of all the times you have done the same things to guys, there's a reason for everyones actions (usually anyway).
 
God, how tempting it is to start dragging out some examples of how dodgy my past love life has been (its tempting, oooh so tempting, so insert joke about it being so bad its more like a hate life) but I won't. Christmas cheer and all that... *laughs*
Either ways, I agree (in the main) with the sentiments expressed by the above two lovely ladies.
And on that note, I'm off to start the next one.
-plaz out-
 
Bluelight Singles - Installment XX - "Who stole our other 'X'?"

Yes, I'm starting this one too. I'm sitting at my relo's place, surfing this site, on Christmas Day! Sad case I know, but hey, my boredom knows no bounds.
Ye olde last thread has been left lying in a puddle of its own putrid filth!
So once more unto the breach my friends (or should that be britches?). Welcome to all the new people who've posted here, yes, this is the beginning of the end, you will be single forever for having posted here, karmic punishment and all that.
Essentially life fucks us all, but the question is, are you the kind of person who applies lube first? ;)
Postwhores AHOY! :D
Lubz you all longtime!
-plaz out-
 
You on the way to leaving us* Plaz? :P
* = Dont consider myself a part of the 'Singles' thread, I might click this every 100th or so post, it scares me.
But I'm single lol
<mr_fluffy> go read the second last page of the subies thread in events
<mr_fluffy> hang on
<mr_fluffy> http://www.bluelight.ru/cgi/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=16&t=003738&p=6
<mr_fluffy> it's amazing how much you can pick up of the dymanics of bl from the events forum
<Genasirus> http://www.bluelight.ru/cgi/ultimatebb1.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=29&t=004510&p=
<mr_fluffy> hahahahahaaaaaaa
<mr_fluffy> you should ass-rape it properly, and put a my link above in there :D
He made me do it *Points at flufz0r*
[ 25 December 2002: Message edited by: Genasirus ]
 
PWN3D! ;)
Errr as to whether I'm leaving you, thats for me to have no idea about, and you to speculate endlessly about.
*laughs*
And Fluffy man, that was one quite impressive piece of deduction *hunts for evidence of fluffy's obsession with midget barn sex to post in revenge*. Probably on par with Elvis not being dead, but having transformed magically into Rupert Murdoch, and hence never having left us, but earning massive royalties, and eventually he'll be the NEXT BOND VILLAIN!!!!!
*takes a breather*
Really, I have no idea. Sorry to be so unhelpful guys, but that's the way it is, suck on it. :)
-plaz out-
 
Essentially life fucks us all, but the question is, are you the kind of person who applies lube first?
and I thought I had a sick mind hahaha
Genasirus ... may I just say I am the innocent party in this, evilly seduced by the BL meetup ;)
godamn wish I had irc at work, would get me thru this godforsaken day
yeah I know this has nothing to due with singles stuff but I just cant be arsed, I made my contribution in the other thread and plaz just goes and opens a new one. grrr to you
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