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Cosmic Mist did you mean this quote?
"how could i be so immature to think he would replace the missing elements in me? how extremely lazy of me ;)
[ 03 February 2003: Message edited by: bisKi_b ]
 
*I think I have a disease.I call it the 'friend only' disease.Females that I'm interested in only want to be friends.I am so sick of this.If I was an asshole and these women didn't want to know me,I could understand that.
But,women I'm interested in just want to be friends and then go out with some asshole.Sorry ladies out there,but if I hear another girl say 'I only like you as a friend',I'm going to be sick.
Don't get me wrong, I like women as friends("When that's all I want or they already have made it clear they have a boyfriend and we get on well").I'm sick of the one's I want to be more than friends with NOT wanting more.
So,if another girl I like says 'let's just be friends'.Well don't expect me to be around anymore,cause I'm sick of it.
Also,I'm sick of women's liars.(Yes guys liar too,but I am having a bitch about relationships and I date girls NOT guys,he,he,he,he,he.....).
I'm pretty happy with the rest of my life,it's just that this gets me down sometimes.But,I didn't realise how much it gets me down until this past Saturday night.
I basically saw and briefly chatted to a girl I wish to get to know more and better("Basically more than a friend,so no 'friends only' disease please,he,he,he,he....... :( ").She is also a bluelighter.Previously,she said 'she would e-mail me and didn't :( ("Mind you I had no pen or paper so didn't give her my e-mail address,but it can be found at my 'author's page'").She at least then asked me to e-mail her.
When,I e-mailed her,no reply.She said she didn't get it("Told me on Saturday that").She said "I should try sending another one".
So,if she see's this ("You should know who you are :) ,if you read this,he,he,he,he......") I have sent the other e-mail.Now I need to know where we stand???
I just hope I'm NOT being led on :( :( .If I am being led on and just being played like a game,if you see this, NEVER talk to me again.But,I hope I'm NOT being led on,cause I like to think the best of people and she seems nice.
End of rant.
 
Well I figured that I probably am being led on.
Anyway,if I don't hear back soon.I will name her to publicly shame her.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
 
nah wacky, don't do it! whilst it might seem like a good idea at the time - especially when your feelings have been hurt - there's really no gain from publicly naming her. it could just make things escalate to a place where you *don't* wanna go.
life sucks sometimes, move on :)
 
Sure, in a perfect world everyone would be straight up with you. They would tell you immediatly if you have a chance and so then you wouldn't have to waste precious time on someone who isn't worth your while. But let's face facts, it's downrght hard to be truthful at times, especially with someone you don't really know. And would you honestly want to hear,
"Sorry but your just not my best prospect at the moment." or
"Sorry but I just don't find you sexually attractive." or
"Sorry, but I would rather marry the transsexual I saw on Jerry Springer then go on a date with you.
Subtle rejection like what you're describing saves face for both people. I don't think it's as harsh as lying, and it avoids that awkward confrontational style conversation which you seem to be wanting. Maybe she just didn't want to embarrass you by completely cutting you down and this is her way of letting you know.
There's no point being angry or frustrated. Just get over it and move on.
 
I can understand what you people are saying but:-
Why did she approach me?
Why did she ask for me to e-mail her?
If she just did it to lead me on,she is fucked in the head.
And what she did is liaring.
Serious are any women sane.They all seemed to be fucked in the head.
I'm sick of this shit.I'm sick of being myself:-
"A good guy" and "being screwed around" and "I'm sick of moving on and having to try again with the next girl".
If I see her again at a rave("This is of course if she doesn't reply to my e-mail,which seems likely :( ") I'll make sure she never wants to go to a rave again.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
 
I think it IS a lie, but its the kind of polite lie that keeps the cogs of society greased and running as smoothly as they do. Without those kind of lies, the massive rusty construct that we call 'social convention' would grind to a halt and it would be a rather interesting kind of anarchy that would follow.
I for one can't stand lies like that. I'd rather know what the FUCK is wrong with me, according to whoever it is that's giving me an emotional kick in the head.
As for naming and shaming people, that's immaturity at its best, probably at a level with saying "lets just be friends". Take your knocks like a man, what doesn't kill ya, only makes you cooler.
Yeah, I've snapped, and posted in this thread again, honestly I don't know WHAT it is that keeps me coming back to you lot, its an addiction I tell you, an addiction.
From observing this thread, I have come to the following conclusions.
Single life:
10% Loneliness
10% Boredom
20% Sexual Frustration
60% Alcoholism & Drug Abuse
Who says self medication doesn't work? ;)
-plaz out-
 
I don't care if it is immature.People deserve to know what this person is like.
Also, the first part that you said about liaring is just a cop out to excuse a person for liaring.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
 
Originally posted by Wacky:
If I see her again at a rave("This is of course if she doesn't reply to my e-mail,which seems likely :( ") I'll make sure she never wants to go to a rave again.
Grow up.
And plaz, I think you've got the single life down to a fine art. :) I'm about to compliment you for perhaps the first time ever so prepare yourself....
I respect the fact that you hardly ever let your singleness get you down. I respect the fact you can generally put up with the two couples who hang around, without resentment (or obvious resentment anyway ;) ) and I respect the fact you can put up with your roommate who is a horrible excuse for a man (but I love him anyway).
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Queen Beat,I guess your a women.Sticking up for liaring women.How mature is she and yourself for that matter.Bitch!
Queen Beat how about you grow up and fuck off.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
 
Wacky: Deep breaths man, take deep breaths. Just relax, it is NOT all that serious. I know you feel rejected, and your ego's taken a bit of a knock, but it isn't the end of the world. Far from it, in fact, "Only when you lose everything, are you free to do anything". You find yourself, in situations like this, as who you REALLY are. I've been in your situation many a time, and I get along FINE with a great many of those girls who've decided to do the old 'trim yer ego with a chainsaw' thing. I guess what I'm trying to say is, it might feel like its the end of the world, but it isn't. If you want to talk it over further, hit me up on email and I'll be happy to.
Queen Beat: *swoons* Oh, I'm definately crying on the inside at your happiness. ;) Seriously though. Thanks! :) :) :)
-plaz out-
 
wow... things getting heated in the last half hour that I haven't read (due to watching Jerry ;) )
Wacky: i think what this girl did to you sux ass, but I agree with the others that maturity must prevail. You want to be better than her. Maybe have words with her if you ever happen to run into her (calm words) but don't fuck her over/around like she did to you.
plaz: I have to agree with QB, and for once I like your attitude on a subject ;) keep up this stance on singledom... it suits you. Also kudos for puttin up with the four of us :)
To everyone else: Me luvs you :)
xx
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: star_beats ]
 
*ring ring*
Welcome to BlueTel's Singles Hotline.
We will endevour to make your singles experience as enjoyable as possible.
If you have a TouchTone (tm) Phone, please select one of the following options.
For depression, please press "1".
For melancholia, please press "2".
For 'the world hates me', please press "3".
For boredom, please press "4".
For deep regret, please press "5".
For nihilism, please press "6".
For brooding, please press "7".
For petty revenge, please press "8".
For immaturity, please press "9".
For nostalgia, please press "0".
If your request falls outside these categories, please remain on the line, and the first available human operator will assist you.
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-plaz out-
 
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