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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

what do i enjoy doing when i'm single?
uh...masturbating? no, wait, it sucks, i hate it, and i wish i wasn't single. I'LL KILL YOU ALL!!!!!
and no one ever returns my emails...i don't know why.
 
Gee you trying to be funny with that last comment.Well I've realised why some of you are still single:-("If you weren't a dickhead to me then disregard this comment,I'm only refering to the dickheads.Nice people, thanks for well being nice :) :) ")
YOU'RE ASSHOLES!!!
 
well, i was actually trying to be funny with the whole thing - the last line was just the punchline. unfortunately, my joke just sucked.
anyway, i think that was the only mean-spirited comment i've made towards you in either of the threads, so i'm sure it's not too bad!
anyway, yeah, single does suck, and seriously, in my present state of mind, i really can't think of too many positives.
time, i guess, is the only one. but then, when you've found someone you *really* fall for, it doesn't matter 'cos you'd rather spend time with them anyway. maybe i'm just a whinger :)
 
what do i like to do when single ?
i would like to say write, but thats far too self indulgent these days with whats going on with the world and all
so i prefer to spend my hours reading and responding to insane little dots on my computer screen. i find it forfilling and helps ease the momentary pain of being reminded each day
that i am single
*ahem*
you dont lose part of yourself when you are in a relationship, you do the same shit unless of course your wacked, or even wacky. then you lose yourself in that person and after you break up after them you are unable to form any proper relationships cus you are so unhappy with yourself
thats all.
yes i am a biatch
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: lickable_lucy ]
 
Another thing:-
I only just saw the post but:-
Good luck SydKiwi with what you move onto and with the travelling :) :) .
 
And thanks for being honest because you are a bitch.
Gee you can't stop making comments about me.
I know I'm good but you don't have to keep bringing me up in threads :) .
Yeah I know you do just about the same things when in or out of a relationship.
But,I'm asking about things you enjoy doing when your single(Or especially like doing when your single? egs: writing stories,watching girlie movies that you know a guy wouldn't like,etc,etc........)
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
 
Wacky: Firstly i don't know the full extent of your current situation and how things have been for you previously. I don't know you so first try and ask yourself, Am I truly happy with the person i see in the mirror? You may have heard before that you have to love yourself before you can love others and as a result be loved in return.
Your situation may be the results of the universe trying to tell you that you have a bit of work to do before you enter a relationship. I personally believe that you must experience all this pain now so that in time you will flourish and be truly ready for what your heart desires. As a guy i have been hurt in the past and mainly due to my own WANTS, but i soon came to realise that I don't deserve to feel like that. I am now happier with myself then ever before, and your loved ones and peers will pick-up on that when you have grown and experienced and come through it all a wiser and stronger person.
I totally understand your anger and try not to put the blame on one particular person or situation rather see it as a learning experience for yourself.
My best advice for you is to be patient, believe me i know its hard.
Hang in there dude.
Hugs awaaaaay.
 
^^ I ditto that 100%. People don't want to be around insecure and untrusting types - one of my best friends just broke out of an 18 month relationship because he tried to control her and basically treated her as though he couldn't trust her. It was his own insecurity that drove her from him, but he was way too stupid to see that.
Don't fall into that trap. become someone full of confidence and self respect. WHen you believe that you are truely worth the object of your desires, she willcome to you - and always when least expected...
:\
Try a bit more of the P.L.U.R (not the cliche raver catch-cry, but the genuine ideology,) you will see a WORLD of difference in yourself and those around you. :)
 
Thanks hugs_all_round for the advise it means alot.
I'm glad you weren't like the people on here that were down right stupid by making assumptions about me.
Also,to answer your question I am quite happy with myself.I guess it just gets me down being single sometimes("I thought it didn't but clearly was in denial"),can be lonely("Yes many people feel like this,sorry to hear that others may feel like this") and being screwed around doesn't help.
I guess I was really pissed about this situation because I knew her a bit("She helped me out with something before,so she wasn't just a random and I feel betrayed because of what happened.If I didn't know her before this then I wouldn't be pissed off about this situation") and only recently fully got over a relationship.I guess my anger about that may still be there,I don't know.
Anyway,thanks again dude for talking some sense NOT like some other's that clearly are stupid("You know who I mean eg: bitch,Queen Beat,etc,etc,etc........")
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
 
Also,Cosmic Mist thanks for your advise.I'll keep what you said in mind("thanks for NOT insulting me too :) :) :) ").
Finally,I've decided I'm NOT going to name her("I seriously was going to do it because I'm angry but won't").I'm better than that and 1000 times better then her.I'm going to prove that I'm the better person and that she's missing out.
But,if I see her again, I'm just going to ignore her.I can do so much better and don't need dishonest and disrespectful people in my life.
She'll probably end up unhappy with some loser anyway,he,he,he,he,he,he............ :)
 
sorry to hear about ur situation 2 wacky :( im a little confused by whats going on tho :\
thanks 4 the support ppl :)
my heart is broken and im not gonna attempt to fix it cos its better it stay broke then go through it all over again
i have my little boy...hes the most important thing to me...he loves me and i dont need anyone (again)
 
For fucks sake, if this isn't the fastest growing thread in Bluelight history then shower me in kisses and adoration.... nah im serious, PLEASE prove me wrong ;)
Ahh the wonderful world of singledom, err did i say wonderful? I mean blunderful.
Well it can be both and we all know it.
Wacky, i feel for your situation dude but barring the whole "dishonest" aspect of it all, it is hard being in the position of not liking someone as much as they like you. I mean, you may have great respect for them and really like them but not in THAT way, ya know. The fact that you still like them and value them as a person makes it really difficult to let them down gently because you do care for their feelings. Its a tough situation for all involved and i'm sure almost everyone has been affected by it in someway.
I've been on both sides of the story.
Truth be told, i discovered love last yr and am a totally changed man since. Love is something you just KNOW. I still have that love for that person however she's out of my reach, and never really was *officially* in grasp, yes, it was the love for the best friend.
We did cross the line, but a proper relationship never eventuated, it was such a unique situation but there was alot of love on both sides, and still is... BUT
Circumstance resulted in things remaining on a friend level, which is kinda hard to live with but i cope.
The point i'm now raising for discussion, is for those of you that HAVE experienced true love (the type you do NOT have to question, you just KNOW it) how hard have you found it attempting new relationships? And finding yourself liking someone, but not feeling near the strength of love? I guess true love is hard to find, but after knowing it, it kinda undermines anything less than it.
I've recently been interested in this girl who is really awesome, but the more time i spend with her, the more i'm thinking i'd prefer her as a good friend as opposed to a partner, however i think she may feel differently, which puts me in a dilly of a pickle..... mmmmm
Adikkal
 
Originally posted by doofqueen:
my heart is broken and im not gonna attempt to fix it cos its better it stay broke then go through it all over again
i have my little boy...hes the most important thing to me...he loves me and i dont need anyone (again)
oh dear me, dont say that! I know it can be hard, and there's heaps of reason why your heart can get messed up but its all part of life. When it comes to relationships its hard to get it right, let alone perfect. But the main things is that you loved, grew, learnt and at the end of the day can keep your head up. The knocks and bumps can be just as important as all the good times in your life, I recon something like this happens so you learn how to get back up again... even better then before.
I dont mean to get too personal but you owe it to yourself, and your son to dust yourself off and learn to trust and love again. Cause if you keep your heart closed you will change as a person, and it will not be for the better. Your a role model after all, and your son's whole world no doubt. So just take some time, and bring things into your life that make you happy, and feel love/joy. You shouldn't need someone else to feel complete, and in time the right man will come along. But until then you have time to grow and become the "right woman" by re-organising your inner self and opening your heart up to the world again.
Not to mention the fact that you simply cannot Doof right with a closed heart. ;)
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your right and i always think everything happns 4 a reason and u learn and grow from it but mmy heart has been broken many times b4 and i have always been open to love ....i have a smile on my face when my son is around...i dont like him to see his mummy upset cos he will get upset...but i really truly deep down thought that he was the one...never felt so deep and connected with anyone ever b4 in my life :( its still all fresh cos it only happened today :(
 
I'm so sorry to hear doofqueen about your whole situation.You sound like a great person that deserves better :) :) :) .
I think what I've learnt from my situation is that I've been hurt so many times,that I guess I was in denial about the fact that it hasn't affected me.Clearly these things have affected me in a big way.
And if I named this person publicly, from how the majority have responded about me doing it, all it would have done is have people feel sorry for her.So,it wouldn't have done me any good.Plus I don't want people feeling sorry for her when she has clearly been in the wrong.I don't want to be the bad guy when clearly she's been the bad dishonest one.
To be honest I feel similar to you doofqueen about trusting people now.I guess you could say this was my final straw("I've had some real bad experiences which I guess I thought hadn't effected me,but clearly must have :( :( ").
I think I'm going to be more protective of my heart now but I've got to make sure I'm NOT cold cause I could miss out on meeting a great person and I've got to learn to trust again.Oh well.
[ 05 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
[ 05 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
 
I guess true love is hard to find, but after knowing it, it kinda undermines anything less than it
Attempting relationships after having known true love sux!! So very frustrating - everything seems so two dimensional in comparision. If living and loving like you have never been hurt isn't enough of a challenge, enjoying time with people who know you will never feel the purity of true love with, is practically impossible.
Hence a lot of very special friends, an ever growing sexual frustration count and the occasional bout of depressed drinking with my mates.
Oh the joys of being single :)
[ 05 February 2003: Message edited by: miss slingshot ]
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what do I like doing when single?
well since I always been single.. I will say "live my life"
what makes my life enjoyable? my friends, my family, music, writing, reading, spending time on my own going for walks. the beach, movies, dancing all night, sunsets... just to name a few.
and these are all things I expect to continue when I do have a r'ship...cos really, what kind of r'ship is it when you can't enjoy the things that make your life worth living?!?
*****
so valentines day is coming up mwahahahahahahahaha
just to get you in the spirit, here are some poems DJ_Kaotik posted in 'words'
Love may be beautiful, love may be bliss,
But I only slept with you, cause I was pissed.
Roses are red,
violets are blue,
sugar is sweet,
so are you.
But the roses are wilting,
the violets are dead
the sugar bowl is empty
and so is your head.
I thought that I could love no other
Until, that is, I met your brother.
Kind, intelligent, loving and hot
This describes everything you are not.
I want to feel your sweet embrace,
But don't take that paper bag off of your face.
I love your smile, your face, and your eyes--
Damn, I'm good at telling lies!
Every time I see your face,
I wish I were in outer space.
I saw your face as you walked by,
but then I saw a better guy.
My darling, my lover, my beautiful wife:
Marrying you screwed up my life.
I see your face when I am dreaming,
That's why I always wake up screaming.
My love you take my breath away,
What have you stepped in to smell this way.
My feelings for you no words can tell,
Except for maybe "go to hell."
What inspired this amorous rhyme?
Two parts vodka, one part lime.
muchos hugs to you all
 
I really did believe back then
that fairies took my teeth
I'd carefully lift my pillow
and slip them underneath
I really did did believe one time
that sleighs and derr could fly
and once a year on christmas eve
old santa crossed the sky
And then my fairty tale began
one chilly winter night
A true prince (or so it seemed)
came after his snow white
My life was in a state of sleep
but with your kiss i woke
I soon believed your words of love
and every word you spoke
But cheating lies can lurk beneath
a pair of loving eyes
If only i had learnt back then
that fairytales were lies
:(
BUT today i feel better....im not going to sit and mope...im gonna live my life and carry on....surely some one must want a dreadlocked doof obsessed mum....on second thoughts im happy on my own...
 
Glad you're feeling better today doofqueen and good to see you have a good sense of humour as well :) :) :) .
Personally,these last few days I've felt like shit("I guess that's been pretty clear by my anger expressed here").
But,the most important thing I feel I've learnt is NOT to surpress my anger & disappointment like I must have done in the past.Thus,it all coming out all at once.("In other words if it wasn't this bad situation for me, it was going to be another soon :( :( :( ").This experience has been a HUGE shock to me cause I thought I was ok,clearly I wasn't.
Anyway,I'm starting to feel a bit better already and on the hard road of getting back to my normal happy self.
:) :) :)
 
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