Raving Loony
Bluelighter
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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!
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katmeow
Bluelight Crew
man, stop reading to actually do some work for a few hours and you miss all the action of the last thread
wacky...dude after your outburst I reckon the chance of this girl contacting you is between zero and none. We've all been in that position of feeling led on or whatever (hell I could write a book) but the fact is, such is life. People change their mind, situations change, and while an explanation or reason is nice, that person is under no obligation to give one.
plaz.... whats the number for sexual frustraion hehe I think that mine is pushing above 20% right now.
I have more to say but I have to leave work now.... 3 cheers for singledom... I'll finish this post later
wacky...dude after your outburst I reckon the chance of this girl contacting you is between zero and none. We've all been in that position of feeling led on or whatever (hell I could write a book) but the fact is, such is life. People change their mind, situations change, and while an explanation or reason is nice, that person is under no obligation to give one.
plaz.... whats the number for sexual frustraion hehe I think that mine is pushing above 20% right now.
I have more to say but I have to leave work now.... 3 cheers for singledom... I'll finish this post later
onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
^^^ what kat said. seriously, there's a big difference between thinking something and actually do it, but wacky, if you actually follow through and name this person, that's pretty fucking low.
i get that you're pissed (hey, we're in the singles thread, everyone here understands..), but you have to be mature and just get the fuck over it.
even if it's hard, it's much better to do that than lose the respect of a helluva lot of people here, and invariably just end up hurting yourself more.
my two cents...(not that i'm not curious as to who it is though )
i get that you're pissed (hey, we're in the singles thread, everyone here understands..), but you have to be mature and just get the fuck over it.
even if it's hard, it's much better to do that than lose the respect of a helluva lot of people here, and invariably just end up hurting yourself more.
my two cents...(not that i'm not curious as to who it is though
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Hey all you beautiful single boys and girls . It's been a while since I said hi and heaps of stuff has been happening.
First I want to write something about what Wacky is getting so pissed off about. So I will.
Dude, it's called the game. Don't ask me what the game is, what the rules are or how to play... I don't know. I just know that in singledom, we all play the game. Now you might say, but I don't play so why should people play me? Well.. that's just how the world works and it's how the game works.
You don't like the game? Well neither do I... most people don't for a matter of fact, but the truth is, that's how it goes. I'm sure you're really angry about this particular person and also about the whole 'friends-only-disease' thing but coming here and cracking the shits and threatening to name the person isn't going to achieve anything. Just learn from it and move on.
The only thing I can promise is that it all gets easier as you get older (that's just my experience, please don't flame me if it doesn't happen for you). The more time you spend out, interacting, meeting people, flirting, dating, fucking... you learn more about the game and how to find your place in it all.
Like Queen Beat said, it would be a perfect world if we all were more direct about what we want, if we went from person to person at a club going "Wanna pash?", or "Wanna get laid" and girls would say "Yes", or "No", or "Fuck off you filthy fucking pervert" or "SECURITY!!!!" but that's not how it works. Succeeding at the game requires subtlety and patience.
That said, there is a place for talking directly and honesty, but people are so used to playing the game that I find it never comes naturally to them to do so. That's why I usually talk straight at the First Possible Appropriate Moment. Until then... you just gotta wait and see... and don't get your hopes up too much... like you obviously have. That's just guaranteeing yourself a world of hurt.
I gotta go take a train now but I'm going to write more later about some fun stuff I did recently. Haha :D
. It's been a while since I said hi and heaps of stuff has been happening.First I want to write something about what Wacky is getting so pissed off about. So I will.
Dude, it's called the game. Don't ask me what the game is, what the rules are or how to play... I don't know. I just know that in singledom, we all play the game. Now you might say, but I don't play so why should people play me? Well.. that's just how the world works and it's how the game works.
You don't like the game? Well neither do I... most people don't for a matter of fact, but the truth is, that's how it goes. I'm sure you're really angry about this particular person and also about the whole 'friends-only-disease' thing but coming here and cracking the shits and threatening to name the person isn't going to achieve anything. Just learn from it and move on.
The only thing I can promise is that it all gets easier as you get older (that's just my experience, please don't flame me if it doesn't happen for you). The more time you spend out, interacting, meeting people, flirting, dating, fucking... you learn more about the game and how to find your place in it all.
Like Queen Beat said, it would be a perfect world if we all were more direct about what we want, if we went from person to person at a club going "Wanna pash?", or "Wanna get laid" and girls would say "Yes", or "No", or "Fuck off you filthy fucking pervert" or "SECURITY!!!!" but that's not how it works. Succeeding at the game requires subtlety and patience.
That said, there is a place for talking directly and honesty, but people are so used to playing the game that I find it never comes naturally to them to do so. That's why I usually talk straight at the First Possible Appropriate Moment. Until then... you just gotta wait and see... and don't get your hopes up too much... like you obviously have. That's just guaranteeing yourself a world of hurt.
I gotta go take a train now but I'm going to write more later about some fun stuff I did recently. Haha :D
lickable_lucy
Bluelighter
quote wacky
""If she just did it to lead me on,she is fucked in the head.
And what she did is liaring.
Serious are any women sane.They all seemed to be fucked in the head.
I'm sick of this shit.I'm sick of being myself:-
"A good guy" and "being screwed around" and "I'm sick of moving on and having to try again with the next girl".
If I see her again at a rave("This is of course if she doesn't reply to my e-mail,which seems likely ") I'll make sure she never wants to go to a rave again.""
i would like to congratulate you on your little display of immaturity, i dont think my five year old sister could have put on a better act.
no fucking wonder she didnt give to you straight you idiot, look how you react when she tries to act nice and do it subtle. stop blaming all these chicks and have a good look at yourself, dickhead its not the chicks its you and your immaturity.
i hope that if you are as stupid and pathetic to name this chick that the mods choose to delete the post in respect for her
stop complaining moron and wake up to yourself
start thinking positive and your life will be positive
you wanna act like a first class wanker then thats what your going to get in return...
""If she just did it to lead me on,she is fucked in the head.
And what she did is liaring.
Serious are any women sane.They all seemed to be fucked in the head.
I'm sick of this shit.I'm sick of being myself:-
"A good guy" and "being screwed around" and "I'm sick of moving on and having to try again with the next girl".
If I see her again at a rave("This is of course if she doesn't reply to my e-mail,which seems likely ") I'll make sure she never wants to go to a rave again.""
i would like to congratulate you on your little display of immaturity, i dont think my five year old sister could have put on a better act.
no fucking wonder she didnt give to you straight you idiot, look how you react when she tries to act nice and do it subtle. stop blaming all these chicks and have a good look at yourself, dickhead its not the chicks its you and your immaturity.
i hope that if you are as stupid and pathetic to name this chick that the mods choose to delete the post in respect for her
stop complaining moron and wake up to yourself
start thinking positive and your life will be positive
you wanna act like a first class wanker then thats what your going to get in return...
Cosmic Mist
Bluelighter
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Hmm... there is a lot of anger in this thread. A lot of anger indeed...
I think that some people take life too seriously. Sure the ides is not to treat life as a joke, but it's not so serious that we must get worked up and throw tantrums, surely?
Wacky: Everyone else has already said the things i was going to say, so let me just say this: I have been in your situation, and i know it hurts. It hurts a lot and sometimes you just have to put on a brave face and keep moving. I have also been on the other side of this fence and been the girl lavished with unwanted attention - believe me, if this girl is anything like me at all, then she will be feeling pretty bad that she feels the way she does. It sucks when your offers of friendship are mis-interpreted as something more. Luckily for me the guy who was chasing me eventually got the hint and has since become a good friend of mine. I know you don't want another female friend, but has it ever occured to you that by hanging out with these girls maybe you'll meet the girl who is right for you?
Also, you said that you met her at a rave (unless i am mistaken, in which case correct me.) Now, as far as i know, while raves are seen as social events, a lot of the socialising that i have ever witnessed has been largely influenced by chemicals and etc... are you sure she was straight when you were talking to her, because in my experiences, what seems like a good idea whilst high can seem like a really stupid idea when straight. I'm sure most of us here can relate to that.
Finally, what's to say that she simply has been busy and needs to get through this space of time before she can reply to you? Maybe something has happened that you aren't aware of. Shit happens you know, and it happens everyday.
Don't get upset, just move on. Whinging about it will only make you feel worse...
Hmm... there is a lot of anger in this thread. A lot of anger indeed...
I think that some people take life too seriously. Sure the ides is not to treat life as a joke, but it's not so serious that we must get worked up and throw tantrums, surely?
Wacky: Everyone else has already said the things i was going to say, so let me just say this: I have been in your situation, and i know it hurts. It hurts a lot and sometimes you just have to put on a brave face and keep moving. I have also been on the other side of this fence and been the girl lavished with unwanted attention - believe me, if this girl is anything like me at all, then she will be feeling pretty bad that she feels the way she does. It sucks when your offers of friendship are mis-interpreted as something more. Luckily for me the guy who was chasing me eventually got the hint and has since become a good friend of mine. I know you don't want another female friend, but has it ever occured to you that by hanging out with these girls maybe you'll meet the girl who is right for you?
Also, you said that you met her at a rave (unless i am mistaken, in which case correct me.) Now, as far as i know, while raves are seen as social events, a lot of the socialising that i have ever witnessed has been largely influenced by chemicals and etc... are you sure she was straight when you were talking to her, because in my experiences, what seems like a good idea whilst high can seem like a really stupid idea when straight. I'm sure most of us here can relate to that.
Finally, what's to say that she simply has been busy and needs to get through this space of time before she can reply to you? Maybe something has happened that you aren't aware of. Shit happens you know, and it happens everyday.
Don't get upset, just move on. Whinging about it will only make you feel worse...
Firstly,Queen Beat this is NOT a spelling bee and if you've found someone he's got no taste.
I can't believe you people here are defending a dishonest person.What's up with that?
lickable_lucky you make comments about me and my situation,when you only know about this one time.You know nothing about me and history about me.
Also,if I name her publicly why should it be deleted out of respect?
She has shown me no respect,is dishonest,selfish and down right rude.Yourself and many others clearly don't know how to be honest,treat people and are down right selfish and gutless.
If you think what she did is ok,then you're fucked in the head and don't understand anything about treating people with respect.
Honesty is the best policy.Yes,it may hurt,but the truth is better than being liared to and left hanging.
I can't remember who said it but yes it is pretty clear that I'm very pissed off at the moment.I am human after all.
Anyway,I'm dropping this matter for now and hopefully I won't be too keen to bring it up again.
I guess this is what happens, when you think you are great about being single but must really be in denial.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
I can't believe you people here are defending a dishonest person.What's up with that?
lickable_lucky you make comments about me and my situation,when you only know about this one time.You know nothing about me and history about me.
Also,if I name her publicly why should it be deleted out of respect?
She has shown me no respect,is dishonest,selfish and down right rude.Yourself and many others clearly don't know how to be honest,treat people and are down right selfish and gutless.
If you think what she did is ok,then you're fucked in the head and don't understand anything about treating people with respect.
Honesty is the best policy.Yes,it may hurt,but the truth is better than being liared to and left hanging.
I can't remember who said it but yes it is pretty clear that I'm very pissed off at the moment.I am human after all.
Anyway,I'm dropping this matter for now and hopefully I won't be too keen to bring it up again.
I guess this is what happens, when you think you are great about being single but must really be in denial.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
duuuude...
doofqueen
Bluelighter
i am never ever ever ever letting myself fall this hard 4 anyone ever again...
im never ever ever not gaurding my heart ever again....
im never ever ever going to let anyone treat as second best.....
i feel like such a fool....ive raved on about connection and soulmates and destiny and fate and for what? to have my heart ripped out of my chest and crushed...arent i worth it? arent i good enough 4 someone to want to just be theirs and to have for themselves?
i dont even feel like listening to music.....
i dont even feel like talking on msn.......
i dont know what i feel like doing except 4 curling up in a ball in the corner on the floor somewhere...
things could be worse tho hey...things could always be worse...must be grateful and apprecitive of what ive got and not look and what i dont have and wine and wine and wine like i always say...the glass is always half full huh? wish i had a half full glass of wine right now...
be optimistic hey? im still alive hey? barely
sorry 2 bring a downer to the thread...just had to vent
im never ever ever not gaurding my heart ever again....
im never ever ever going to let anyone treat as second best.....
i feel like such a fool....ive raved on about connection and soulmates and destiny and fate and for what? to have my heart ripped out of my chest and crushed...arent i worth it? arent i good enough 4 someone to want to just be theirs and to have for themselves?
i dont even feel like listening to music.....
i dont even feel like talking on msn.......
i dont know what i feel like doing except 4 curling up in a ball in the corner on the floor somewhere...
things could be worse tho hey...things could always be worse...must be grateful and apprecitive of what ive got and not look and what i dont have and wine and wine and wine like i always say...the glass is always half full huh? wish i had a half full glass of wine right now...
be optimistic hey? im still alive hey?
barelysorry 2 bring a downer to the thread...just had to vent
PsychoKitten
Bluelight Crew
^^^^^ email me if you just want to vent hon.
I know just how you feel.
I know just how you feel.
onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
poor doofqueen
i don't know what to say...sometimes it's good to talk to your friends in these kind of times, but then, sometimes you *do* just need to be alone...
i hope everything gets better for you - like i said in the couples thread, you're so passionate about things, and that's something that you can't let yourself lose. keep that passion, and eventually you'll find someone who wants to share it with you, and who you want to share it *with*...
ah, that was probably no help at all, but i do know that things will get better again.
lickable_lucy
Bluelighter
Seriously,if you're saying this is the norm,then the majority aren't normal.(Or in this cause so called 'normal'= 'fucked in the head').No wonder there is talk of war with people thinking like you do.
Your excuses for her are just that: Excuses.You're also making excuses for the way you say the majority act.
Also,the way she treated me was dishonest and no one should be treated like this,NOT just me.
If she had changed her mind(or met someone she liked better) she could have answered my e-mail politely and been honested.If she had done this then I would have respected that but no she's dishonest.
The person that said she didn't have to reply that's just bullshit.That's just giving people excuses to go around to liar and make promises they can't or won't keep.
By the why I had actually known her for a bit before that's one of the big reason's I'm angry about it.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
Your excuses for her are just that: Excuses.You're also making excuses for the way you say the majority act.
Also,the way she treated me was dishonest and no one should be treated like this,NOT just me.
If she had changed her mind(or met someone she liked better) she could have answered my e-mail politely and been honested.If she had done this then I would have respected that but no she's dishonest.
The person that said she didn't have to reply that's just bullshit.That's just giving people excuses to go around to liar and make promises they can't or won't keep.
By the why I had actually known her for a bit before that's one of the big reason's I'm angry about it.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
Wacky:
I'm not a girl (although someone once told me I fight like one), but I have to say that the behaviour you're exhibiting will make girls want to avoid you like the plague in the future.
You briefly chatted to a girl and she said to email her. You emailed her and she didnt respond, either because she didnt get it or she just didnt want to.
Your reaction is way over the top bordering on sociopathic. I can tell you with 100% crystal clear certainty that no girl is going to want to go out with someone who is so precious, clingy and prone to outrageous bursts of melodrama as you.
With every subsequent post you make you simply reaffirm in my mind the reason that this girl did not email you back in the first place.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Macksta ]
I'm not a girl (although someone once told me I fight like one), but I have to say that the behaviour you're exhibiting will make girls want to avoid you like the plague in the future.
You briefly chatted to a girl and she said to email her. You emailed her and she didnt respond, either because she didnt get it or she just didnt want to.
Your reaction is way over the top bordering on sociopathic. I can tell you with 100% crystal clear certainty that no girl is going to want to go out with someone who is so precious, clingy and prone to outrageous bursts of melodrama as you.
With every subsequent post you make you simply reaffirm in my mind the reason that this girl did not email you back in the first place.
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Macksta ]
God NOW people are making assumptions and blown out comments about me.
Some of you people hear love to make excuses for this person.I guess it's cause you must be dishonest and rude like her.
Macksta if people don't want to know me because of these posts, then to me they are NOT worth knowing.I feel I'm being saved the trouble.More a blessing than anything I feel.
I'm NOT the only one posting in this section,so let's move on please.I'm clearly pissed off but I wish to move on to other things in this section(please respect this request,cause yes I was pissed off but we can talk about other things).
So,I will start:-
What do people enjoy doing with themselves while they are single?
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]
Some of you people hear love to make excuses for this person.I guess it's cause you must be dishonest and rude like her.
Macksta if people don't want to know me because of these posts, then to me they are NOT worth knowing.I feel I'm being saved the trouble.More a blessing than anything I feel.
I'm NOT the only one posting in this section,so let's move on please.I'm clearly pissed off but I wish to move on to other things in this section(please respect this request,cause yes I was pissed off but we can talk about other things).
So,I will start:-
What do people enjoy doing with themselves while they are single?
[ 04 February 2003: Message edited by: Wacky ]