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i don't mean to sound incredibly romantic but thats just the way i am
2 of Cups - thats so true, a progression of a relationship shouldn't be scary at all..
basically, nearly impossible, but, i want to be one of those lucky people that will live to be the age of 80 with one man for the rest of my life and smile, share thoughts and have that 50th wedding anniversary and be happy.
but hey, thats just me, i refuse to be cynical and not believe that these things can happen.
 
2 of Cups: Agreed, as always :)
dicey: I like your attitude too, I don't think there's anything wrong with believing that you can live the rest of your life with someone, that that kind of relationship is still possible in this world...
On the point of labels... In you're doing all the 'relationship' things, and enjoying all the benefits a relationship brings, can you still say you're not in a relationship?
RobertRollie: Just curious, but if you were in behaving as if you were in a relationship but still not saying you were in one, would you deny it if someone else said you were? And is there a point?
Or did you mean that you can share your life with someone, do all the things you do when you're in a good relationship, but not have to make a big deal and tell everyone 'We're together!'? If that's what you meant, then yes, I fully agree... I dislike labels, and ceremonies, and traditions who's meaning has been lost or distorted... To that end I'm not too keen on marriage, I don't see the point of the ceremony and the whole 'let's make it offical' bit, but I would like to find someone with whom I could spend the rest of my life (and share it with my friends and her friends)
 
Tars: The latter. I feel that giving your interactions with another person a label or 'makign a big deal out of it' just puts undue pressure on the situation. Im the kind of person who would much rather just let whats natural happen. You can have an understanding with one of your friends that you care about each other alot, possibly even love each other, that you are only going to share certain aspects of you life with each other an noone else, without having to put pressure on it to be something that -OTHER PEOPLE- expect it to be. I find this is a good approach because my 'relationships' tend to be rather unconventional, if i said i was in a relationship people would expect certain things of me which may not be the case
 
hmmm... again a lot of this comes down to expectations (between you and your s/o, not everybody else like you say RR), and what each person wants out of the interaction your experiencing with each other. As long as you both agree on where you're at from the outset (and this isn't about cop-outs either ppl, if you want to be casual then say it, don't raise ppl's expectations and give them unecessary hope), then there is freedom to grow with that if it 'mutates' into something else ;) . You can always change the status of a romantic interaction later.
Oh and you're not being too idealistic Tarsy :) , wanting to make each other happy is one of those special things about being in love :) (which is what I assume you mean by things working well in a relationship). Hell it's even the best part of a good friendship!
[ 15 May 2002: Message edited by: 2 of Cups ]
 
Cementing my place firmly in here.
No real plans to leave for now, I so CBF.
 
Hmmm...
If any of you are the girl I spoke to at PvD for about 15 mins (about 5'2", shoulder length hair tied back), who was wearing a pink or white top, and gave me a menthol experience I'll remember for the rest of my life, let me know ;)
 
<----- this wet pussy is hanging 4 sex ... but i'm waiting in the shadows until this stage of celibacy is gone
the amount of sexual tension i have i'm ready 2 blow any load
 
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