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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

still single
still 24
employed
ok looking (ask someone whos met me if im hot or not)
free to a good home :D
and i live in sydney
so if you look like Brad Pitt send me a email heheeh
 
*picks up phone*
Yep, its on...
*sits phone on the desk in front of him*
*taps fingers on desk*
I dunno... these girls... they say they'll call, but they never do...
*eats a banana while waiting*
 
The one thing which I don't like about being single is the lack of hugs for Tuesday blues.... That time when you really really really need a hug/some cheering up etc... friends help, but soemtimes not to the extent...
 
*hugz tarsy*
im sorry im getn there.. just been so busy..
*winkz*
speak to you very soon
 
There is no problem that cannot be solved with suitably high dosages of synthetic chemicals.
Ask someone who knows me if im hot or not.
I reckon we should start a blueight version of amihotornot.com
Are there actually any single girls in melbourne, i didnt meet any last time i was there :P
*goes to download some pr0n*
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Um... just saying hi. I to have not had a special some one for a while (2.5 years) it can be a downer but good things come from strange places. so take the light into the darkness and keep joy and love in your hart.
May the PLUR be with you ....
[ 03 May 2002: Message edited by: strangerinthe_woods ]
 
Im single....
I have been for 6 months now.....
But before that..id been in a series of relationships that lasted for 7 years....It was taxing on my energy and I am finding that I am really enjoying being single....so much infact that I have gotten to the point where I dont know if I really want to be in a relationship just now...
I like to have lots of male friends, that way I get to hang out with the boys and I get plenty of hugs and cuddles (which is what I miss the most)
As for the sex.....I dont miss it, it complicates things.
Im just out to have fun now while I still can!!
Thats how I feel right now...but if someone spesh came along, someone that pushed the right buttons, Id consider it.
So come on guys, anyone out there want a cute lil 28 year old girly!?
 
Dvah said:
As for the sex.....I dont miss it, it complicates things.
See, that's the thing... the sex for me doesn't even come into it for quite a while. It's something that comes into relationships, but it's not one of those things that I look for first off. I'm more interested in the closeness, the intimacy, the idea that there is someone out there that cares about you so much...
I mean, it's going to come up eventually, but it's not one of those things that I'm specifically out to get...
Geez, gotta love the Christian upbringing :/
[ 04 May 2002: Message edited by: Dante ]
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Well Dante, I'm also the product of a christian upbringing, and I also have the same ideas about sex... Weird, huh?
That said, if I'm with a significant other, sex comes into the picture earlier than you suggest because for me it's one of the best ways to convey my feelings for the person. All the poetry, flowers, kind words and surprise hugs in the world pale in comparison when I'm making love to that one special person. It's like we're the only people in the universe.
I miss that...
Ahhh, I'm not feeling too happy today. I need someone to hug. :(
 
I really don't think its simply the Christian upbringing, there are many people who were brought up the Christian way who don't feel the same...
There are also those (like me) who denounced the Christian way but still feel the same (ie Bring it!, but its not all that important), and plenty more who denounced the Christian way and then went around screwing as many people as they could...
A christian upbringing may be a factor, but general upbringing and environmental influences as a whole completely determine someone's attitude... As well as biological factors too...
[ 04 May 2002: Message edited by: Tarsarlan ]
 
I agree when it comes to sex.
I was really meaning sex, in a committed relationship, as I never have been and never will be the type to go out looking for "sex" for the sake of sex.
Its not physically satisfying for me, and, more importantly these days, its just not safe.
I miss the intimacy of having that "special someone" from time to time...but its more the hugs and the closeness...the falling asleep next to someone and also, waking up next to them.
*sigh*
I did say I was happy being single didnt I?
:)
 
^^^
On a completely unrelated note, Dvah, is your quote from Clive Barker's "Hellraiser"?
Oh wait a sec... maybe it isn't... I'll go over there now.
[ 04 May 2002: Message edited by: Fetish Jester ]
 
single and not so loving it. maybe im jaded in relation to being single or something.
 
Originally posted by Tarsarlan:
A christian upbringing may be a factor, but general upbringing and environmental influences as a whole completely determine someone's attitude... As well as biological factors too...

Coming from a Christian school background (where i was one of the very few non-christians)I can say from first hand knowledge that those children are some of the most depraved people I have met!!
They are taught for so many years that sex is something beautiful, but off limits..... it becomes the attraction of the forbidden fruit.
The problem is, when they do cross that line, they don't have any personal limits as they were formerly living by the standards of a general doctrine.
In other words, the Christians that break the 'no sex before marriage' ideal (which is completely ill-founded and naive in my opinion), often become the people with the loosest sexual morals.
<Disclaimer> This is not meant to be seen as any sort of attack on Christians or former Christians. This is just from what I've seen growing up.
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*hugz lucus* Don't get jaded by the whole single thing...its not worth it, trust me! Enjoy yourself why you have the chance!!!!
Up All Night: Can I just say going out with christian people can be very anoying...especialy if they believe the whole "no sex before marriage" thing...speaking from experience, but also they are the nicest kind, loving people around...err maybe too loving!!!!
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Dvah: I have been in a similar position to you, and I must say I agree in some ways. I went to a Catholic School (ooh er naughty!), and while I have been baptised, I don't believe in organised religion at all. Especially when it comes to their views on relationships, which REALLY shits me (plus we all know about Catholic priests *shiver*). However, I had a liberal upbringing anyway, hence I'm rather balanced when it comes to sexuality (again, it's not the be all and end all, but also something I have no probs with whatsoever and enjoy thoroughly)
A lot of my friends are Lutheran (by chance, Adelaide is a very German town), and I've seen quite a few of them get engaged and married very early in life. A few of us have often speculated that it may have more than a little to do with the whole no sex before marriage thing. However, I wouldn't see them as depraved! The priests may be however ;) .
What you say Tarsy is pretty spot on for me anyways - it's all a combination of factors. It really depends on the person and how much stock they put in their religion, or how their parents brought them up, or what their friends are doing etc.
 
Coming from a Christian school background (where i was one of the very few non-christians)I can say from first hand knowledge that those children are some of the most depraved people I have met!!
Wow! I went to a christian school for years 7 and 8 and the people there were FAR from depraved :) There were far more pot smokers there than at the 'bad public school' I went to after it. It must have something to do with the rich parents of some of the students, making them able to afford it. Either that or it was parents sending their kids to a school like that to straighten them up and instead they just ended up selling pot to the other students.. hmm.
Anyway, that was all kinda off topic, the point was though, that a lot of them were far from the 'no sex before marrige' attitude.
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Even though I am not a follower or an advocate of the Christian faith, I must reiterate that it did do me a world of good when it comes to relationships, and I suspect the progressive christan teachers I knew also helped.
I'm not a "sex before marriage" type of guy, but a "love before sex" guy. There's got to be "feelings" of some type before sex is an issue. And strangely enough a nun told me that in her view that as long as "precautions" are being taken, sex by two consenting people (and she mean people, not just male and female. She was THAT progressive) in love was okay. I made the mistake of having sex indiscriminately before and I'm not going to do it again.
Then again, it's been over a year since I was in love....
[ 05 May 2002: Message edited by: Fetish Jester ]
 
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